2009-07-12 00:51:08 (EST)

Saturday night, the R&R trip to Breckenridge is a happy memory, and the best news is that Nic did just fine without me! Karen and I headed up to Breckenridge and spent two days doing WHATEVER we wanted to do WHENEVER we wanted to do it!!! What a treat. No schedule, no obligations... it's been nearly two years since I've had 48 hours of that. Thanks to our dear Kim and Darryl for helping to make that possible, as well as Harold, Jim and Claud and of course Beth, Carrie, Brian and Matt for helping to hold down the fort in my absence. I love and appreciate you all! Kate's sister was married today, so she and Andy were of course very involved with that all weekend. I'm sure the wedding was lovely! Karen and I loved spending time in the mountains, eating a lot, drinking a little, shopping and enjoying the gorgeous scenery. I ADORE the mountains in the summer! We returned home today to find Nic in great shape and good spirits. We hung out for awhile, had a good visit with Brooks and Craig, and hit the grocery store while Nic was napping this afternoon. Karen and I took Nic next door for dinner tonight (thanks, Karen!) and Nic ate like a champ. He just got to bed and Karen and I are watching a little television before we do the same. Hope your weekend is going very well! Love, Chris and Company

2009-07-09 13:01:58 (EST)

Hi All! Thursday morning, and Karen and I are trying to get out the door to go to Breckenridge. I picked her up at the airport last night, then had a beer there while waiting for Runch's oldest child, Matt to fly in. He's been on a vacation here in the U.S. from Australia before he starts his engineering job in Qatar soon. The kids are excited to entertain him this week! We all sat and talked with Beth, Carrie and Nic until late last night... no update was done! Nic had a great session of PT yesterday and took some of his best steps EVER! OT went well, too and the baby steps of progress are getting a little bigger! We started him on a new medication yesterday, too so we will see how that goes. Last night he showed more personality than he has lately... showing off for Karen and Matt, perhaps?? We'll take it any way we can get it! I'll close and let you know how our R&R trip to the mountains went on Saturday! Love, Chris and Company

2009-07-08 00:26:53 (EST)

Tuesday was a relatively good day for the Classick Clan! Nic seemed just a little bit better today, with a little more "oomph" and a little more responsiveness. Maybe things will start to turn around! We will start Nic on the new medication tomorrow, so that may be helpful as well. Rich the PT did quite a bit of walking with Nic today, and he did a nice job! Rich was pleased with Nic's balance today, for he seemed to be able to keep himself upright better than usual. He walked the length of the room three times today, and kept a pretty good pace going. After PT Larry the nurse and I took Nic downtown for a walk before it got too hot. We had a quick lunch and then hustled back to the loft in time for Speech. Nic wasn't too in to Speech Therapy today, and the Vitalstim doesn't seem to be doing a whole lot. We need something new and exciting to happen in the speech area, that's for sure! Bethany came by today after her class for a visit. While Nic took a nap we did a few errands, and Andy and Kate came by soon after we got home. We hung out for bit, had some dinner and hung out some more watching the Rockies game until Andy had to leave for his softball game. Nic perked up a little while the kids were here as usual... aren't we lucky they are around so much? Tomorrow will be a good day for me- Karen is coming for a visit again from Iowa. It will do my soul lots of good, and she and I are going to go to the mountains for a couple of days on Thursday morning. A much needed change of scenery, for sure!! We'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-07-07 00:36:48 (EST)

Monday night and all is well. I just returned from a date with my second-favorite guy, Andy! We had Rockies tickets tonight, and so he and I went to the game. It was a nice evening with a little dinner beforehand... and the Rockies won! Bethany and Marisa took Nic next door for dinner, and Carrie came by after work, too! All three of our kids back in town makes mama very happy! I picked Carrie and Brian up at the airport this morning. They had a great time in Chicago for the Fourth. Nic had OT with Liliana today and did just fine, working with the "noose" again, playing a few games and riding the bike with his hands. He was a bit dull again today, but we now have permission to start trying a new medication that may perk Nic up a bit. Keep your fingers crossed! Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-07-06 01:03:46 (EST)

We trust that all of our amazing friends and family out there in Support Circleland had an excellent Fourth of July weekend! It's late on Sunday night, I just returned from picking Bethany and Marisa up at the airport, and Nic is in bed. The girls were STARVING, so we stopped and got a bite to eat on the way home. All in all our weekend was good- just the right blend of relaxing and activities! Yesterday I headed out to Andy and Kate's to pick up the grandpuppies for the day. They had their first visit to the loft, and seemed to enjoy being Downtown Dogs! Nic really enjoyed seeing them, and they were so good! When I was walking them they decided they MUST be the Welcome Wagon for a fairly scary homeless man camped out under some trees in the park across the street... their tails were a waggin' and they were pulling on their leashes as poor Grandma Chris was trying to keep them away! It was pretty funny. Kim and Darryl came by for a visit and brought festive July 4th cupcakes! After a nap we got Nic ready for the trek to Parker for a party at Jim and Claudia's. We dropped the dogs off first, then had a nice time there, although the weather rained out the barbeque! The rain stopped in time for fireworks! Today was nice and relaxing. After one more trip to feed the dogs Larry the nurse and I took Nic to the park. The creek was running fast and it was fun watching everyone cavorting in the water. Harold came by for a visit, and he and Nic watched Tiger win the golf tournament. The rest of the day was fairly uneventful until my trip to the airport! Tune in tomorrow for more adventures! Love, Chris and Company

2009-07-04 00:58:27 (EST)

Happy 3rd of July, everyone! Judging by the fact that I just finished watching three different fireworks displays from the comfort of the loft, I guess there's lots of early celebrating! It was kinda cool... I could see the huge fireworks display at the end of the Colorado Rockies game three ways! I could see the actual display in the sky from a mile or so away, I could see the Jumbotron screen at Coors Field between some buildings, AND I could see the display reflected in the Pepsi Center across the parking lot! Not a bad view considering I was inside our loft the whole time! No crowds, no driving and I ate chocolate while watching! Perfect. Today was not exactly worthy of fireworks around here, but it wasn't a complete dud, either! I made a big breakfast this morning, and Nic and I dined with two of our favorite girls, Bethany and her roommate Marisa. We then hopped in the car and I drove the girls to the airport to spend a couple of days in San Francisco. They're having a great time so far! NIc had OT while I was gone, and Liliana worked mostly on that poor neck! Our friends Les and Janet came by this afternoon, and we walked next door for lunch. It was great... thanks, you two! Nic took a nap, I straightened up a bit and we just hung out for awhile. We had a HUGE rainstorm- Interstate 25 even flooded in parts- and after the deluge I trekked 25 miles south to feed the grandpuppies and take them for a walk. Grandma Chris wore them out! Those two long Basset Hound tongues were hanging out by the time we got back to Andy and Kate's house! The rest of the evening after I returned home was spent watching the Rockies beat the Diamondbacks 5-1, and then we put Nic to bed. He wrote someone a note right before bed. All I could read of his writing was "thanks, Nic" at the end. We must work on his penmanship! Hope your Friday was fantastic! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-07-03 00:41:45 (EST)

Thursday night, although I've thought that it was Friday all day today! It was a little better day today for Nic, and thus for all of the Classick Clan! After a shower and breakfast for Nic, Holly arrived for Speech Therapy. She used the "Vitalstim" again on Nic's throat and it seems to be helping a bit. She actually got some voicing out of him!!! He has to clear is throat and almost cough a little before voicing, but that deep rumbly voice really came out just a bit. Very exciting, and I hope a sign of more to come. We had some lunch and headed out to Dr. Yarnell, the neurologist's office. It was just a checkup, but he seemed pretty pleased with Nic's progress. He's been a Neurosurgeon and Neurologist since the late 60's, so I guess he knows what he's doing! He is having us try a new antidepressant that is supposed to help pep Nic up a little, but I have to get the O.K. from Dr. Spees, the Internist to be sure it's not damaging to Nic's heart before we start the new medicine. Sometimes I wish we just had one old country doctor to deal with... especially if he made housecalls! After two trips to Target Pharmacy today I just discovered we are still short one refill- trip number 560 or so tomorrow! Bethany was here when we returned from the doctor and she had a great visit with her daddy. I took Carrie and Brian to the airport this evening to fly to Chicago for the 4th. Brian's family is all there, so they will have a fantastic time! Bethany and her roommate Marisa are going to San Francisco for a couple of days to see a friend and the sights, and Andy and Kate are headed to Grand Lake, Colorado for the weekend. All weekend without our amazing kids... what will we do? I'm keeping an eye on the Grandpuppies, Basset Hounds Baxter and Wiggum, so that will be a fun change for me! Nic has already called it a night, and I am soon to follow! Until tomorrow, Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-07-01 23:17:38 (EST)

Hump Day is nearly over... a hot and sunny day here! It definitely seemed like July today! The summer is flying by already, isn't it? Today was a bit of a blah day for Nic. We got him up and dressed in time for PT this morning. Nic walked really well, picking his feet up, shifting his weight and moving right along! He made several lengths of the room before he had a pretty severe case of vomiting. We don't know exactly why it happened, but it wiped him out! We put him down for a nap, postponed OT until Friday morning, and he slept until about 2:00 this afternoon. While he was sleeping I walked downtown and met Carrie for a little therapeutic shopping over her lunch hour. For the rest of the day we just took it easy, and Nic ate just fine with no more episodes for the rest of the day. Thank Heavens! Carrie came by after work and joined us for dinner, and Nic's already in bed tonight. Let's hope he feels better tomorrow! Check in with us then! Love, Chris and Company

2009-07-01 00:20:19 (EST)

Tuesday is over, and it was a fairly good day for Nic. We got him up, showered and Kate arrived, finished with her chaperoning duties. We hung out, had a nice breakfast and then took a walk along the creek to the park. Sitting in the shade and listening to the river flow along is very relaxing! We got Nic some lunch and then he had Speech with Holly. She has been using a gadget called a "Vitalstim"- she puts leads on Nic's throat and Nic and electric currents are supposed to help stimulate his vocal chords. So far we haven't seen huge results, dang it... we need something to kick in so that he's talking again! I miss him talking SO very much. While Nic took a nap Kate and I walked downtown to have lunch. Soon we got Nic up and Andy arrived after work. We visited awhile and headed to Andy's softball game. They won again! The rest of the evening was just Nic, Nurse Betsy and I hanging out and we just got Nic to bed. Another day is done! Hope yours was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-29 23:53:07 (EST)

Monday evening, and we got through a whole day without any rain or crazy storms! One of the few days in June we can say that- it sure is green and pretty around here! It was a fairly sunny day around here figuratively speaking, too. Nic woke up happy and full of energy today. After a big breakfast Rich the PT arrived. Nic walked so well today- the whole length of the great room without stopping in about two minute's time! Very exciting stuff. He made the walk two more times before tiring out, and seemed very proud of himself. Kate came over and we had a good visit before she had to head downtown to chaperone a Middle School conference at a hotel there. Liliana arrived next and spent the hour working on Nic's upper body strength. He "rode" the little stationary bike with his arms and worked on the "noose" for quite a while. Liliana continues to be pleased with his progress. Larry the nurse took Nic out for a walk while I ran to Target again... I really need to buy Target stock! After a nap Nic and I hung out with Carrie, Bethany and Marisa, ate some dinner and watched a little T.V. He's in bed now for a well-deserved rest! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-06-28 23:23:28 (EST)

Where has the weekend gone? It sped by this time, with most of it being good! Nic was not quite his peppy and sassy self today- a little tired, hunched over and not really responsive today. Who knows what happens to make each day so different? It definitely keeps all of us on our toes, that's for certain. Nic and I both slept in this morning, got up and showered and hung out until our wonderful and loyal company started filing in. Kim, Darryl and Tom were the first to arrive, followed by Harold. Next came Carrie and Brian, tailed by Bethany and Marisa. We watched the Rockies game, talked, munched a little and had a nice afternoon. Bethany and Marisa stayed for pizza tonight and left a little while ago, and Terry the nurse and I just got Nic to bed. Who knows what tomorrow may bring? Let's hope for great things for all of us! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-28 00:07:46 (EST)

Hooray, hooray! My husband teased me tonight! It was so wonderful... he teased me and even smiled a little while doing it. Joseph the nurse and I were putting him to bed. We'd been watching a golf tournament on T.V. right before bed, and I asked him if he wanted to continue watching it in bed. He looked me in the eyes, smiled, and whispered "I think I'll just lie here and pray". We all know that Nic Classick is NOT the most pious person in the world, so that was definitely his attempt to tease me and really say "Duh, wife! What do YOU think?". A couple of times this evening he smiled while saying some other things, but I would say that this is one of his first attempts at really teasing, in his good old Nic way. What a milestone!!!! I have missed that so, so much. A great ending to a very good day. We got up bright and early this morning and got ready to go to our dear Ponz' daughter Erin's wedding. Carrie arrived at 8:45 and the three of us hopped in the wheelchair van to drive an hour or so south to Palmer Lake, Colorado. The wedding was so lovely, the reception wonderful and the company even better! Nic did just great- he has definitely turned the corner once again and is coming back in full force. He had a nap this afternoon, we hung out, just the two of us, for the evening and as I write this I am so happy! What a great day! I trust that you all can say the same! Love, Chris and family

2009-06-27 00:48:45 (EST)

Greetings on this Friday night... the day flew by without my accomplishing much! Nic was indeed a little more Nic-like today. He started out pretty slowly this morning with the PT session being his only therapy today. He did a little walking and Rich worked on that poor neck some more. The walking was OK- not his usual zest happening, that's for sure! After a while we decided to put Nic back to bed, hoping a long nap might do the trick. I ran to the grocery store and liquor store and got caught in a TORRENTIAL downpour! I got absolutely soaked just running from Safeway to my car. My second shower of the day! Thankfully the rain ended just as quickly as it began! Later in the afternoon we got Nic up, showered and ready to entertain our friends the Kellys, Buchanans and Weavers, better known as the Eightolfarts. Everyone brought an appetizer and we had a few drinks and talked. It was a great evening, and Nic definitely rallied for the occasion. Carrie even popped in for a while before meeting up with her friends this evening. Everyone just left, we got Nic to bed and I'm winding down for the night. Hope your Friday was a great one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-26 00:23:33 (EST)

Thursday night and all is well... well, kind of well! Nic's day wasn't fantastic today. He hasn't bounced right back today with the antibiotic kicking in as I had hoped. He's had three doses now, so maybe third time's a charm! We went out to lunch today with our nurse Henry to celebrate our anniversary, my birthday and Henry's closing on his first house. We went to a VERY authentic (read whole fish staring at me from the plate and SEAWEED FUNGUS on the menu!). It was very good! When we returned home the elevator was not working! We entertained Holly, the speech therapist in the lobby, hung out in front of the building and two hours later made it upstairs to put Nic down for a nap. I hear the elevator is down again... hmmm- could make life interesting for the next few days! Bethany arrived just as we were getting upstairs. While Nic napped she and I trekked downtown to do a little shopping again and managed to snag a few bargains! We had a little dinner, Beth left and shortly after that Carrie arrived to say hi! Nic's now in bed and soon I will follow. Keep your fingers crossed that Nic wakes up a little more Nic-like tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-25 00:11:35 (EST)

Wednesday night, we just got Nic to bed, the windows are open again tonight, and I'm waiting for the screaming Jonas Brothers concert fans to begin streaming and screaming out of the Pepsi Center! Lots of young, excited fans this evening to watch- I wouldn't know the Jonas Brothers if they knocked on the door, but it is a packed house across the parking lot! Nic had a fairly busy day today, with OT and PT doing their thing. Liliana did some more work on Nic's neck today, and used the "noose" to work out his upper body. Our regular PT, Rich was back today. Nic did a little walking and didn't do too badly! The quantity of the walking was down a little since before the seizure, but the quality has not suffered much. Rich had been on vacation for three weeks, so was a little surprised that Nic hadn't made much progress. But tomorrow is another day! We have been suspicious the last few days that Nic might have another urinary tract infection. Our nurse today, Melissa took a sample to a lab and found our suspicions to be true. I made my 537th trip to Target Pharmacy tonight, and Nic has had his first dose of antibiotic. Many times a UTI can cause lethargy and lack of concentration, so this could be part of the reason that Nic has been a little dull. I'm not GLAD to find this out today, but I'm a little relieved that this may be a partial explanation to the last few weeks' problems. So, again the battle cry "Onward and Upward!" is resounding from the lips of the Classick Crew, supported as always by each of you. We'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-24 01:11:58 (EST)

A late update tonight, as it was a day filled mostly with festivities! Today was our 30th wedding anniversary and my birthday, as well. Yes, we got married on my birthday! We began the morning with a trip to St. Anthony's so that Nic could have an EEG. Dr. Yarnell, his neurologist wanted one after the seizure so that he could see if anything strange was going on. We don't know the results, but the technician set off a strobe light several times right in his face to see if they could set off a seizure. I'm happy to report Nic had no seizure, so another hurdle was successfully crossed! Nic had a good day... the best birthday and anniversary present EVER! He was a bit more alert and responsive than he has been lately, so that was fantastic. Nic took a nap while I went out for lunch with Nina, Carol, Claud and Jim. Thanks for the birthday lunch, guys! Soon it was time for our celebratory dinner. Andy, Kate, Carrie, Beth, Nic and I all traveled to the restaurant in the wheelchair van and met Brian there. We had a great time, Nic did SO well at the restaurant, and then we came home for cupcakes and presents. What great kids we have! It was a fun day, filled with all the best things... especially a husband who was doing better than he has been lately!!! Hope you had a wonderful day, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-22 23:06:05 (EST)

Happy Monday to all! Hope that your week began well! Nic's doing O.K.- we had a pretty relaxing day with only OT this morning. Nic's had a hard time again keeping his head up, so Liliana worked for most of Occupational Therapy today on Nic's neck. It's been a little better the rest of the day- just a little. Bethany spent the night with us last night, so we all slept in a bit this morning but got to see her before she headed back to Boulder for class. After OT Larry the nurse and I took Nic down along the creek across the street. There are great walking (and biking) paths all along the creek and the walk stops at a little park where Cherry Creek and the Platte River meet. We watched a bunch of cute kids playing in the rapids and enjoyed the beautiful day. We ran into one of Nic's roommates from Craig and his wife, also out strolling. It was fun to see them! We are kindred spirits, to be sure. After a nap Nic and I have been mostly just hanging out today... I had to turn the air conditioner on today, it was so warm out! All in all today was a little better than yesterday as far as Nic goes. Maybe that's all we can hope for right now! Onward and upward! Love, Chris and family

2009-06-22 00:08:15 (EST)

Wishing all of the amazing fathers out there a Very Happy Father's Day!!! We hope that your day was spent doing exactly what you wanted to do, and that you were surrounded by those near and dear to you. Nic was surrounded by all four of our children and Brian today, and I think that he enjoyed his day. He is still, unfortunately a little on the dull side- I hope that we can get to the bottom of why he has not bounced back a little more quickly. BUT we made the best of the situation, had a nice barbeque, and spent some quality family time. This morning Nic and I headed to Parker for coffee with the Eightolfarts- they changed the meeting time to 9:00 so that we could make the drive and not have to get started TOO early! It was so nice to have a good sense of normalcy to begin Father's Day! Here's to a good upcoming week for all! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-06-20 23:59:46 (EST)

Greetings to all of our family and friends tuned in to Support Circle! As good as Thursday was this week, Nic took a bit of a dive on Friday... we've survived worse days, but yesterday was not so good. Nic was dull, unresponsive and hung his head for most of the day yesterday, and even a visit from our friend Larry and our dear Bethany couldn't perk him up! Larry even brought one of his famouse homemade strawberry rhubarb pies for us! I am happy to report that today was much better. Nic and I both slept in this morning- for some reason I could not sleep last night! We got Nic up, dressed, fed and started the day much happier than yesterday. Kim and Darryl came by and we had a good visit with them. We had just sat down for a late lunch when Carrie, Brian and Bethany arrived. Thank heavens when we furnished this loft we bought a table with comfortable seating, for we sure seem to spend LOTS of time visiting (and EATING!) at the table! Carrie's good friend Jackie is in town from New Jersey, so we enjoyed a visit from her today, too. The day flew by, we watched a little of the U.S. Open Golf tournament and spent a relaxing evening at home. Hope that you had a great Saturday! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-18 22:58:02 (EST)

Thursday night, Nic and I are sitting and watching a little television, and I feel as if we may have turned another corner in this grand adventure! Nic has been more responsive today and has even smiled and whispered a little! Thank heavens... this was a difficult setback for us (me!) to handle. I started the morning with a drive to Parker. I had to meet the Sprinkler repair guy between 9 and 11. Our friend Vicki met me at the house and brought breakfast, since there is no food at the Parker house! Well, at least no food that anyone would want to eat!! We had a nice talk and a delicious breakfast... it was lovely to have a meal there again! By some miracle the Sprinkler Guy arrived on time at 10:15 and was immediately chased through the backyard by a Mama deer. She must have given birth to two fawns in our backyard! The little fawns can't hop our fence, so they stayed in the yard the whole time I was there! I left the gates open and everything! Anyway, while the guy was working feverishly repairing the sprinklers for four hours I did a little weeding, collected a few more summer clothes for Nic and I and looked at all the miller moths inside the house! For some reason we have a couple of weeks nearly every summer where moths hang out in our neighborhood. Luckily they don't bite or anything, for there were probably 300 or so in the house! Not much you can do about it; they migrate to the mountains and seem to love our house! I'll vacuum up all the dead ones next time I'm home. I had a nice lunch with our friend Cyndi then headed back to the loft. Nic was just getting up from a nap when I arrived, so he and I hung out for a bit until Carrie came by after work. The three of us watched a CD of our 25th anniversary trip to Acapulco- what great memories! We had some good laughs, too! Nic actually almost laughed at a picture of Linda standing between two of the cliff divers! We had a little dinner and actually got some whispering out of Nic. He seems better tonight- let's hope it's a sign of good things to come! Hope good things come to you, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-17 23:47:34 (EST)

Hump Day once again! Let's hope and pray that by the NEXT Hump Day Nic will have bounced back to being his old self... this dull Nic stuff is getting a little tiring! We only had one therapy today, Occupational Therapy. Liliana worked with Nic a lot on fine motor today, and also on strengthening his neck and shoulders. Henry the nurse and I took Nic outside for a walk... deja vu all over again, since just a week ago Henry and I took Nic for a walk and he had his Scary Seizure. We decided to get back on the horse, so to speak, and luckily it was NOT a replay of last week! I forgot last night to report a visit from our friend Carol, her daughter Lani and Lani's seven month old daughter. Nic held the baby and enjoyed seeing a little one!! It was definitely a highlight of yesterday! Back to today... Nic was a little bit perkier today than yesterday. I guess we are back to baby steps once again! Bethany arrived today after her Summer School class, ate a little lunch with us, and when Nic went down for a nap we took off to do a little shopping! It was more about getting out of the house than really the shopping, but we managed to find a few treasures! When we returned Nic was up and we hung out for a while again before dinner. I made one of Nic's favorite casseroles for dinner, but he definitely didn't enjoy it with his usual gusto! The kids call my Tater Tot casserole "Iowa Food" and I guess it is! One of these days Nic will be a "foodie" again! Tonight we just watched a couple of shows on T.V., and now he's in bed again! I must admit that sometimes the routine around here is numbingly boring... we'll have to start shaking things up a bit! Here's hoping YOUR day was NOT numbingly boring! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-17 00:33:35 (EST)

Greetings to all on this lovely Tuesday night! I can't quite say that Nic's Tuesday was terrific, but it wasn't terrible, either. We started out the day with a visit to the eye doctor. Dr. Politzer is the doc who saw Nic while he was at Craig, and I just wanted a checkup to see what the good doc thought about Nic's eyesight. Since Nic isn't totally communicative yet, it's a little hard to test his eyes, but he did O.K. today. The doc thought that Nic's brain is adjusting to things pretty well, and that while his eyes are not aligned perfectly yet he is seeing fairly well. The seizure may have thrown his brain and sight off a bit, but at this time he doesn't think we should correct his sight with lenses, exercises or surgery. Unless Nic complains of poor sight or we notice anything out of the ordinary he doesn't need to see us for a year! Always a good thing. Right after the Doctor's visit we had PT and ST. Nic was pretty tired today, but was a little better than yesterday! After his therapies and a nap Andy and Kate arrived. Our wonderful neighbor friends from Parker, Cyndi and Ebe arrived. We had a drink and soon Carrie walked over from work. We all (including Nic!) went out for Mexican food and had a great time. Nic ate very well, and a nice, normal evening was had by all. We came back home, visited with Cyndi and Ebe for a while, and just got Nic to bed. As I said, Nic was a little better today than he was yesterday, and I'm expecting big things for tomorrow! Thanks for tuning in tonight, and we'll talk on Wednesday! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-16 00:39:49 (EST)

Where has the day gone? I got up this morning thinking that I'd get SO much on my list accomplished, and completed less than half of my self-imposed "honeydos"! Oh well, tomorrow is another day! Much of the day was spent cleaning the carpet in the bedrooms. There definitely is a reason that one does not see carpet in hospital rooms! It looked like a flop house in there, and only looks a little better now. It will be a happy day when we can replace the carpet in there! But on to more important things. Nic was just a little better again today. He had PT and OT today and tried pretty hard in each. He is still a bit lethargic, but he improved in that area a bit today. He's not talking much at all, and seems a little down. Hopefully he'll wake up feeling a little happier again tomorrow! Don't I sound like the eternal optimist? I guess that's what has gotten our family through this plight. Bethany came down after class today and spent the afternoon with Nic and I. We took him down the street to dinner, and he perked up a bit. We'll do whatever it takes to get the Big Guy back to us! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-15 00:28:35 (EST)

Sunday night, the end to a weekend that could have been worse, but could have been a little better, too! Nic is still a little lethargic... Dr. Chris' theory is that it's a combination of being tired from the seizure and readjusting to being back on the anti-seizure medicine, Keppra. Yesterday Nic was very blah- we tried all day to pep him up, but to no avail. It's hard to see him like that after we have come so far! Andy was here in the morning before his golf game, and then Bethany and her roommate Marisa spent the afternoon with us before going out on the town downtown and spending the night. Thankfully Nic awoke today with a little more energy and a lot better attitude! That improvement definitely puts a spring in all of our steps, so today was a much happier day. We went to the Denver Zoo this morning and met Nic's roommate from Craig. Dan's wife Beth was there, as well as their son, one of our favorite Techs from Craig, and her little 8 year old daughter. It was great to see them, and we felt honored to share in Beth and Dan's FIRST outing since they've been released from Craig several months ago. It was a gorgeous day, and Nurse Larry went along with us. After returning home and a nap for Nic, Carrie and Brian came over for dinner. Nic is eating very well, and is eating anything he wants! What a great thing for all of us! Our evening nurse, Terry had to make an airport run so I just finished getting Nic to bed, cleaned up and set for the night ALL BY MYSELF!!! I am so proud, and it's nice to know that I can do it alone. I'm exhausted, however, so GOOD NIGHT!! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-06-12 23:59:32 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the lordknowshowmany-eth time! I'm sure someone (Bob, I imagine! Thank heavens for him, too!) will count up the weeks for me once more, and if I weren't so tired tonight I would scroll back through the messages or get off my rear end and find a calendar and count the Fridays up. BUT I have a computer back again! I think the power cord has a bit of a short in it, but our great nurse Larry messed around with it today and it is working again! Thank heavens, too for our lovely daughter Carrie who pitched in and wrote an update for me last night! Typical of how our kids have always been there for both Nic and I throughout this adventure. I will say it again... we are awfully lucky people to be in this horribly unlucky situation! Nic was probably about 75% of normal today. He was a little out of it, but rallied when he needed to, smiled a bit and seemed to be coming back to us. No more seizures, thank God, and although he slept a little more than usual today he did fairly well. We had no therapies today, so Larry did a little work with him while I ran some errands. Andy, Kate, and Kate's parents Steve and Cindy came for drinks and appetizers this afternoon before they all went to the Rockies baseball game. Brother Harold popped in for a while, too- our nephew Nick is playing in a basketball tournament across the street at Metro State College. Nic and I will try to catch a game or two tomorrow! As Carrie said, our visit to Craig Hospital went very well yesterday. They all felt bad that Nic had a seizure, but it is a very common thing with a brain injury. In fact, at the beginning of our six month stay at Craig we had to have seizure training before we could even take Nic out across the street to Craig's garden! It's always wonderful to go to Craig to see all of our friends there. It never ceases to amaze me what a marvelous, upbeat, hopeful place Craig is!! We hope that now that Nic is back on the Keppra (the anti-seizure medication) this whole thing will be an unpleasant and distant memory. Now is the time to start our upwardly mobile path again! Hope that your weekend is a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-12 00:33:20 (EST)

Today was a pretty decent day all-around. This is Carrie doing the update tonight as my mom's computer wasn't working. Since last night was a bit crazy she thought it would be nice to get a quick note out to make sure people weren't worried. So, sorry this won't be as witty or thrilling as usual! I got to the loft today after work and my dad was doing just fine. He had a doctor’s appointment at Craig today which had already been scheduled, and we now have him back on the anti-seizure medicine he was on before. Having seizures related to brain injury is very normal, and although we don’t hope it ever happens again, I do think we are fairly lucky that we hadn’t had any before this point. While my dad was a little more dull than usual this evening, he did spend some time chatting with Beth and I, was very into Iron Chef America, and even gave me a foot massage! My mom, dad, Beth, and I all stayed at the loft for dinner, but sadly we ordered Chinese food and it was so bad I'm sure dad was wishing he was still on his tube-feed. Well, hopefully tomorrow my mom's computer is up and running again so I don't have to try to fill her shoes. Thanks to everyone for your messages and support- it means a lot to our whole family and especially to my mom, so thank you!

2009-06-11 00:15:12 (EST)

The roller coaster ride continues... Today something happened that we have had in the back of our minds since this adventure began. Nic had a pretty severe seizure this afternoon. It was a fairly normal day up to about 4:30 today. Henry the nurse and I were headed out of our building to take Nic for a walk. We hadn't even made it out of the parking lot when Nic started jerking, foaming at the mouth and having difficulty breathing. The whole sordid event only lasted about a minute, but it was one of the scariest minutes of my life. Just as I was dialing 911 Beth was calling me at the same time. I screamed "I can't dial 911!" and a woman driving by through the parking lot stopped, dialed 911 and handed me her phone. She hugged me with one arm while I spoke to the operator. Three minutes later a firetruck arrived, followed shortly by the paramedics. Nic had another small seizure while on the way to St. Anthony's. It took him awhile to start whispering again after we got to the ER, but after about 30 minutes or so he was doing OK. They gave him valium (it relaxes the body and shortens seizures... who knew? ) and Keppra, the anti-seizure medication that the docs took Nic off on May 7th. We went over two months without it, but needless to say after that scare he is now on Keppra again. We got Nic home and in bed at about 8:30 tonight, and have an appointment at Craig with Dr. Ripley tomorrow afternoon that was already scheduled. Unfortunately, seizures are part of the deal with a brain injury, but until this point Nic had not had one. Just when I was thinking it was smooth sailing from here, we have another scare. BUT we have survived worse things than this, and the Big Guy will prevail! He's worn out and sound asleep right now, and I must say I'm a little weary, too! Andy had seizures as a toddler (a total of 4) and our poor little chihuahua Rocky had many, many seizures in his life, so I'm not unfamiliar with what to do, but I must say this one took a lot out of me. Think good thoughts for Nic tonight, and, as always, thanks for your support. Love, Chris and the Classick Family

2009-06-09 23:24:26 (EST)

Greetings to all on this fine Tuesday night! Nic and I are watching the Lakers/Magic game... it's looking like the Magic could pull this one off! We just returned from TWO softball games of Andy's- they won both! The first was the Championship game of the Spring league, and they are City Champs! Right after that game was the first game of the Summer League, and they started out very well! Some Classick home runs helped out in the victory! Nic, Kate and I had a Kentucky Fried Chicken picnic during the game- how All-American is that? We had our first PT session today with Jared, the substitute PT. He's a nice guy, although very small. I think he was a little shocked when we got Nic standing up! Right after PT Holly came for speech. It went fairly well, I think! Bethany was here and she and I took off during speech to walk downtown for a little lunch and an unsuccessful shopping trip- we came home empty handed!! Sad, isn't it? That was my second trip downtown today. Larry the nurse and I took Nic downtown this morning for a long walk. It's kind of fun; we just tell Nic to point wherever he wants to go! Needless to say it is rarely toward the shopping areas! All in all it was a terrific Tuesday- hope yours was, too! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-06-08 23:37:02 (EST)

Monday is almost over and I must say that it was a pretty good day! I got the bills paid... that's always a huge accomplishment for me, since it is definitely NOT my favorite job! I shouldn't complain since I had a 28 year break from having to do it! Anyway, we got Nic breakfast and ready for OT this morning. Liliana worked for a long time today with a bar on stretchy bands hanging off of a rope which is over a huge beam in the loft. It works so well, but resembles a noose when hanging there! The whole contraption does a great job of working Nic's arms and shoulders, and he liked working out with it today! Liliana then moved to the bars we have mounted in the bedroom doorway and used them to work out Nic's shoulders and upper legs some more. He did a great job with that, too- it's amazing what can be done around here with pretty simple equipment! After lunch Nic took a nap and I ran out to do a little shopping therapy... always good for the soul. Carrie came by after work and joined us for dinner, which is always fun! Nic's been a little more talkative today, which makes life much, much better. Terry the nurse and I were just talking to Nic as we were getting him in bed. Terry said that he can't wait to spend time with Nic when he is recovered. He said that he can tell what an amazing person Nic is just from hanging out with our family and friends, and is so excited to see him come all the way back! You know what? I think that Nic will do just that! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-06-08 00:31:35 (EST)

The weekend is over and I must say that it was, all in all a good one! Even though Nic has been a little dull and quiet this weekend, we had a good time anyway! Today began fairly slowly, a shower accomplished and the day was off and running. We met Carrie, Jim and Claud for brunch at a fun restaurant fairly close by. Thanks, guys, for brunch! We came home and Carrie, Nic and I hung out for a while. Soon we had a visit from Ponz and Kevin! We talked and talked... it was wonderful to see them! As soon as they left Larry and Carol arrived, armed with pizza to share for dinner. It was delicious, and the company was delectable! Beth and Marisa came soon after, shared some pizza and had a good visit. I'm afraid I don't have much else to relate- sometimes no news is good news, I guess! We did NOT have any problems from the tornados that touched down around the Denver area, but the outdoor mall that got hit is pretty close to our house in Parker! I used to go there quite a bit... maybe it's good for more reason than one that we are living downtown for now! We'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-07 00:01:11 (EST)

A Super Saturday was had by all around the Classick Corral! Nic and I both slept in a bit, got rolling on the day and had a great visit with Kim and Darryl. They brought sandwiches and all the fixin's, we headed out of the loft and ended up at some picnic tables across the street at the college campus. Thanks for the picnic and especially for your company, dear friends! We got back home to find Carrie there! She hung out with Nic for awhile and I took off to attend a baby shower for Lori, one of Andy and Kate's good friends. It was a lovely shower, and I got to see both Lori and Marcus' moms, some of their other friends, and ooh and ahhh over lots of cute baby stuff! When I arrived back home Nic was hanging out with Larry the nurse, we had a little dinner and watched some T.V. Nic was a little quiet again today... I'd love to figure out why he's more quiet some days than others! All in all it was a happy day, and I hope you can say the same! Love, Chris and family

2009-06-06 00:20:05 (EST)

Friday night and all is well! It was a fun-filled day around the Classick's place today. we began the day with a shower and breakfast as usual. No therapies today, so our day was our own! Our friends Jim and Jackie came up from Parker today and took us out to lunch. Thanks for the lunch and for the visit, you two! When we arrived back home Bethany was here for a visit and spent some time with us before heading back to Boulder. I had to run out for some supplies this afternoon, and when I returned Andy was here. Nic, Andy and I went out for a great dinner to one of our favorite steak houses... it did not disappoint! We had a great time and Nic did so well! I can't tell you how wonderful it is to go out and have a nice, normal evening! It's good for all of us! Nic continues to have Oracle on the brain a lot- we'll have to plan some get togethers with some of our Oracle buddies so that he can hear all about the year-end business! He misses it so much! We keep telling him that getting better is his most important work EVER, and I think he gets it, but it's been 33 years of his life! Time for bed! Happy weekend! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-05 00:12:20 (EST)

Another good day for the Big Guy! Will wonders never cease? I was standing in line this afternoon at the grocery store chatting with the woman ahead of me. I mentioned that my husband had been sick for almost two years, we continued chatting and I blurted out the whole story (in a nutshell!) to a perfect stranger. It really made me realize how far we have come from the bleak, hopeless days back in San Francisco! Some days still seem a little daunting, but boy, have we come a long way! Nic had speech today and he did OK- it will be a happy day when that deep, resonant voice comes back to us! Nic and I picked Carrie up at her office and took her to lunch today. We sat on the patio and had a nice time on this glorious sunny day. While Nic was napping I did a run to Target and the grocery store, made dinner, and we entertained Carrie and Brian this evening. Nic is snoozing away right now, and I will finish up a few things before retiring! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-06-04 00:40:32 (EST)

Happy Hump Day! It was a good one for us once again. We started bright and early this morning with Physical Therapy, and it was probably Nic's best session to date. He spent the entire hour walking with only the walker and Rich holding onto him with the gait belt. It's slow but steady, and he walked all the way down the hall to the front door! Rich the PT will be on vacation for three weeks and we will have a substitute... hopefully Nic will really surprise Rich with his progress when he returns! Occupational Therapy today brought more laser treatments on Nic's neck and shoulders and some massage as well. All of that lying in bed and sitting in the wheelchair has wreaked havoc on Nic's upper body! It is getting stronger all the time, however. This afternoon we had a visit to Dr. Mouchantat's office so that the good doctor could check on his handiwork... the new forehead! He was extremely pleased with how it looks, and we don't need to visit again for SIX MONTHS!!! Exciting. I must say that the doctor seemed to think that the forehead was some of his best work, and I agree! Bethany and her friends Marisa and Amanda came for a visit later this afternoon. The girls and I walked downtown while Nic napped and had a couple of drinks and some appetizers. It was fun to be out and about with them! When we arrived back at the loft Andy was there before a business dinner tonight, and he'll sleep on the couch here tonight! Speaking of sleeping, I'll sign off for today. Hope your day was happy! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-02 22:34:11 (EST)

Tuesday night, we had another day of rain here today, but managed to stay fairly busy so I am not climbing the walls quite yet! We spent part of the morning wandering the mall- not Nic's choice, but I figured it was a good way to get out of the house, walk a little and stay dry! Nic did NOT take my suggestion to stop and buy me a bauble at Tiffany's or pick up a frivolous little outfit at Neiman Marcus! Dang! Anyway, it was a good way to kill a couple of hours, and it was good to get out of the house. Nic had Speech Therapy after lunch, and the therapists (Holly has an intern for six weeks) are pleased with Nic's cognitive improvements, though wish he was using more voice! Join the club! After a nap Andy and Kate arrived. We had a good visit, a nice dinner together, and it's always fun to have our kids around us! Lucky parents are we! We are hoping for a little sunshine tomorrow... I don't think I can drag Nic out to the mall two days in a row! Hope your day was a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-06-01 23:56:27 (EST)

A rainy dreary Monday night... luckily Nic had a good day today, so spirits are bright around the Classick Corral! Nic seemed happy and encouraged today, and when he's in a good mood it's contagious! Occupational Therapy was great and very productive today. They worked a lot on his upper body strength, and using his shoulders and entire arms. He was batting a balloon with his big plastic bat and was very accurate while having fun doing it. Liliana had Nic using big stretchy bands as well, and she could barely hold on as she was providing resistance! PT came next, and Nic did a great job transferring from chair to bed and back again. I can even do it alone pretty well! Maybe I'll get some muscles in my arms for the first time in my life! The walking went great today as well. Rich holds Nic with the "gait belt", Nic has his hands on the walker and he is lifting his feet and walking about 25 feet at a time. It is a wonderful thing to see. Beth came by this afternoon, Carrie arrived after work, and Nic took his three favorite girls out for a nice dinner. It was a good day that even tonight's thunderstorms couldn't ruin! Hope your day was sunny and bright! Love, Chris and Company

2009-06-01 00:53:22 (EST)

Happy Sunday! Today was an O.K. day... you all probably know by now that Sundays are NOT my favorite day! We were up early this morning to say goodbye to Andy, Kate, Bryce and Dana. They were on their way to the airport for Bryce and Dana to catch an early flight back to California. After getting Nic up and dressed Henry the nurse and I took Nic on a long walk across the street to the college campus that is our neighbor. It was a lovely day, and a college campus on a summer Sunday is a very quiet spot! Just as we were finishing lunch we had a visit from Gale and Beth. We enjoyed our time together and as they were leaving I had Nic sign his name on a piece of paper. His signature is getting SO much better! Gale then told Nic "Write my name, Nic" and Nic quickly wrote his first and last name very legibly! It's always wonderful to see proof that Nic remembers our good, old friends!! The rest of the day was fairly uneventful, and here it's time to call it a day once again. Hope your day was a great one... and perhaps a little more exciting than ours! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-30 23:46:41 (EST)

Saturday night, we just got Nic to bed after watching the Magic beat the Cavs... Go Lakers, I guess! We DID live in Southern Cal for four years! It was a lovely day today, both with the climate and with the company! After sleeping in a bit Melissa the nurse and I got Nic up, showered and dressed. Soon Brian and Carrie popped in, followed by Kim, Darryl and Tom. Bethany soon joined us and we all walked a few blocks to Old Chicago for lunch! My mom had given Nic a gift card to Old Chicago for his birthday, so he treated today! My big generous husband is enjoying beginning to treat people again! We had a great time at lunch, got Nic down for a rest and Andy and Kate soon arrived with their friends Bryce and Dana. We hung out for awhile before the kids left to meet a big group of friends downtown after the game tonight. The four of them will camp out here tonight, then sadly Bryce and Dana have to go back to California tomorrow morning. This is definitely our favorite kind of day, just enjoying the company of our beloved kids and our amazing and faithful friends. Isn't that the best part of life? We're just so grateful that Nic is able to enjoy that again!!!! Hope your day was fantastic! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-30 00:28:42 (EST)

Thank Goodness it's Friday! Hope that a good week was had by all. Just got Nic to bed after a traumatic end to our Nugget's best season in franchise history. Congrats to all you Laker's fans out there... we are proud of our Nuggies anyway!! It was a fantastic day around here weather-wise. Nic had a really good session of PT this morning, and did some high quality walking. He and Rich are just walking with the two of them and the walker. His steps are improving quite nicely, and his balance is getting better and better. Nic and Henry the nurse went for a long walk while I did a few "honey-dos" around the loft. I walked downtown and met Carrie for a nice lunch while Nic napped. We watched the Nuggets game and had pizza with Harold tonight. That's our day in a nutshell! We've both been thinking a lot about all of you Oracle Angels today and fervently hope that your fiscal year '09 is ending as well as you have hoped! Hang in there... we wish you the best, and I am positive that Nic would give anything to be at the office tonight, encouraging that last minute push and wheeling and dealing over the phone until 1:00 A.M. or so! He misses you all! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-28 23:17:56 (EST)

Greetings on this lovely Thursday evening! Nic and I are watching the last quarter of the Cavs/Magic game... what will we do when basketball season is over? Maybe catch up on some movies, since the last time I saw a movie was New Year's Eve, 2007! Unbelievable! Today was a good day, filled with hanging out around the house mostly! Nic had Speech today, and they actually got some voice out of him! Very exciting. He's been a little mixed up today- some highlights have been him asking me where his polka dot pants are (I assure you he hasn't had fancy pants like that in at LEAST the 35 years I've known him!) to thinking his brother Harold was sitting on the couch during our dinner, to thinking his boss at Oracle was John N. from many years ago! Hmmmm- I must say it's always interesting to see what he comes up with! The good news is that he has consistently known everyone in our family for the past couple of weeks, and that is what's the most important, right? Nic is off the tube feed during the night, and he has begun taking his medications by mouth! This is huge, and in another month or two we may be able to get rid of that blasted feeding tube! Bret came by this afternoon and we had a great visit. I walked downtown while Nic was napping this afternoon, and Carrie came by after work today. She's enjoying her new job! Carrie, Nic and I had dinner together here at home and then took a drive to the local DQ for ice cream. What a nice, normal family thing to do! Each day is getting a little better as far as Nic is concerned, and we are very blessed to be able to say that!!! Thanks for your support... we couldn't have come this far without you! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-05-28 01:19:01 (EST)

Boo Hoo! Just watched the Nuggets lose to the Lakers... On to game six on Friday! An unhappy ending to an otherwise good day! Nic started out the morning with PT. Rich and I worked on transferring Nic from bed to chair and back. It's definitely a step by step process, and with a little more practice I think I can do it! It helps that Nic is getting stronger and stronger every day. He really can stand on both feet quite well! After working on transfers the rest of the session was spent walking (definitely my favorite part of any PT session!). He did very well again today, but I'm afraid that the progress isn't quite fast enough for Nic! OT came next with Liliana doing a variety of activities with Nic's upper body. His progress is pretty impressive in OT, too! Andy came by and worked out of the house today while Kate and the rest of their buddies went to the Rockies game. Bethany and her friend Marissa came by, too. The girls and I went out for Chinese food while Andy, Kate and company had pizza with Nic. We all watched the Nuggets game and the kids just left. Nic really lights up when our kids and their friends are around... it's so good for him! We are lucky to have such a great circle of people surrounding us, near and far- including you! Love, Chris and Company

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2009-05-27 00:11:05 (EST)

Hope that everyone had a Terrific Tuesday... ours was not Terrific, but not Terrible, either! For some reason Nic seemed a little down in the dumps today, even after our Nugget's win last night! We just watched the end of the Orlando/Cavaliers game- what an exciting one!! I must say that I thought last night's game was a little more exciting, but we may be a little biased around here! Henry the nurse and I took Nic for a long walk downtown this morning- finally it was not raining! Nic then had Speech Therapy, and that went fine. After lunch and a nap for Nic Bethany arrived. She hung out with us for a while, we cooked a nice dinner and spent some quality time! Nic's been thinking and talking SO much about work lately- we explain and explain that he's on a leave of absence from work right now and doesn't need to worry about Oracle! It's a little hard to know what to say sometimes. It's so strange what he remembers and what he doesn't! Last night Andy, Kate, and their friends Marcus and Lori and Bryce and Dana stopped in after the game. Andy asked Nic if he remembered where Bryce is from and Nic immediately replied "Right outside of Placerville"- 100% correct! The brain is truly an amazing and mysterious thing. We'll hope that Nic is in a happier mood tomorrow! Send us a message so that I can read them to Nic and show him Nic's Nation is still out there pulling for him! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-25 01:14:26 (EST)

Sunday evening of the long weekend... I can't believe that it's Memorial Day tomorrow already! Today was filled with visits from friends and family- what better way to start the day? I slept in a bit- always a treat! Kate and Andy spent the night, so I awoke to listening to Andy and Nic chatting in the bedroom next door. A lovely and normal thing to wake up to! They headed home to our grandpuppies and we got Nic up and showered. He ate a GREAT brunch and we prepared for our day of company! Carrie arrived, followed by Kim and Darryl, Tom, Bruce and Lynn. Soon Brian came to see us, accompanied by his dad Jim, in town to run the Boulder Bolder. Brian, Carrie and his dad will be among the 40,000 runners participating in the big race tomorrow. Hope they have good weather and a great time! The rest of the day was fairly uneventful- just Nic and I hanging out! A perfect Sunday. Hope yours was, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-24 01:56:44 (EST)

It's been a good weekend so far around the Classick Corral! Yesterday began with a great session of PT for Nic- more walking with the walker and just Rich holding Nic up a little! Linda and I pushed Nic all the way downtown and met Carrie for lunch. He did really well, and I must say that if I did that every day I would really be in amazing shape! That is a BIG if! Linda and I ran some errands while Nic napped, then entertained Carrie, Brian and Bethany for a few drinks and appetizers after they finished work. Our wonderful Social worker from Craig Hospital, Melissa also came by. It was great to see her- she has been amazing help and one of Nic's best cheerleaders! Linda and I watched a little T.V. then retired for the night. Today we got Nic up and showered and had a big breakfast with him. Alas, it was then time to take Linda to the airport. I miss her already! She and Paul have been amazing friends throughout this entire adventure. We'll see them again soon, I hope! Andy and Kate came this afternoon with a whole group of their friends to hang out before the Nuggets game. Harold and Nick joined the party, too! Nic and I took off to go to a party in Parker hosted by Larry and Carol. Nic is so relaxed and happy with the whole group of Eightolfarts... it was fun! We came home to watch the end of the game with Kate, then Andy and his buds came here to drown a few sorrows after the Nuggets loss. They just all left to go downtown for a while... Oh, to be young again! We are so lucky to not only have our OWN kids coming to see us so often, but their great friends come hang out with us, too! It's always fun to see what Nic talks with them about, and who and what he remembers. We spend lots of the day trying to figure out what he means, but I remind him all the time that we have the rest of our lives for me to help him sort out memories! Here's to making many more memories with all of you! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-22 00:50:48 (EST)

Good evening! Just finished watching the Nuggets beat the Lakers, tattoos and all! What a great game- should be a good series, and we are so excited for our Nuggets! Nic had speech therapy today, and we took off right after that for a Field Trip to Boulder. Linda and I got to see Bethany's new apartment she is sharing for the summer with her friend Marissa. Sadly, it is NOT wheelchair accessible, so Nic and Nurse Larry stayed in the van. We took Beth, Marissa, and Amanda out to lunch at Turley's, the restaurant where Beth is working this summer. We had a good lunch and an even better time! After a nap for Nic Carrie came by and visited for a while. The evening finished with watching the NBA game and Nic stayed up for the whole thing! He talked to Paul on the phone a little bit tonight and is really just coming along SO well. This is very exciting stuff! Hope your day was exciting, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-05-21 00:08:02 (EST)

Hump Day is nearly over, we're almost ready to put Nic to bed and yes, Linda and I are sipping on another glass of wine! Andy and Kate just left... they came after work and had dinner with us tonight. Today Nic had PT and OT again. Nic walked today with the walker and just Rich the PT holding him up with the gait belt. Noone holding him up on either side!! Nic did very, very well and we were all pretty excited! Linda even took video on her camera. Now if we were just smart enough (or young enough!) to put it on YouTube, you could all see it!! OT went well, with Nic working a lot on his upper body strength and coordination. Linda and I went out to a really nice lunch with our friend Pat today, then hit Costco to stock up on food now that Nic is eating more! We're ready to call it a day and hope that you had a very good day, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-21 00:07:49 (EST)

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2009-05-20 00:54:28 (EST)

It was a terrific Tuesday around here... picked Linda up this morning from the airport to begin the day in a wonderful way! I wish you all could have seen Nic's face when he saw Linda. I had, of course been telling Nic for days that Linda was coming. Don't know if he just didn't put it together or what, but when we walked in his face lit up with awe and delight! He gave Linda a big hug and seemed so happy! A neat thing to see. Melissa the nurse and I took Nic to see Dr. Yarnell this afternoon. He took one look at Nic and said "You look like a million dollars!". He did some neurological testing and was impressed with what he saw. After some chatting he determined that we should take Nic off the "tube feed" that he has been on since October of '07. This will mean that we will have to be sure that Nic gets plenty of nourishment and that we monitor his meals and calorie intake each day. A little work, but what a great step toward a normal life!!!!! He's taken some of his medicines by mouth in the past few days and done very well. Another HUGE step! Bethany and Carrie both came this afternoon and joined Linda and I in our quest to find the perfect glass of wine. Carrie's roommate and wonderful friend Gabby came by as well, and we walked downtown for a little dinner. We returned home to catch the end of the Lakers-Nuggets game. A sad outcome for we Nuggets fans, but wait until Thursday!!! We hope that your Tuesday was a great one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-18 23:41:19 (EST)

Happy Monday! Just got Nic to bed and thought I'd take a moment to say hello! It was a action-packed day around here, with all three therapists stopping in to spend their hour with the Big Guy. We worked in PT with Pivot Transfers- standing Nic up, having him pivot with his feet and sit down on the bed or on the wheelchair. He did quite well, and mastering that skill will be HUGE in the quest to be more self-sufficient. The walking wasn't quite as successful today- Nic seemed to be listing to the right quite a bit. As Rich the PT said, his inner gyroscope was a little off today! It's weird, because Nic seems to think he is standing up straight. Just another weird brain trick, I guess! OT brought some fine motor work, and Liliana is amazed at how well that is progressing! Nic always had super fast eye-hand coordination, and it seems to be kicking back in with full force! He even did quite well in Speech- not usually his strong suit! Holly the therapist has a student working with her, and maybe Nic was showing off a little! He told them that his speech is getting much better... and he is right! His cognitive memory was really good today, and he knew who everyone was when questioned today... even me!!! Bethany came down after work today and spent the afternoon and evening with us. I had to run to Target for my biweekly drug run and when I returned Beth had Nic drying dishes! The dishes were usually Nic and the kids' job, so it was great to see that activity starting back up! Tomorrow I pick dear Linda up from the airport, then we go see Dr. Yarnell tomorrow afternoon. You may remember Dr. Yarnell, the neurologist from previous postings. He's the little white haired man who has been a big advocate of Nic's since Kindred Hospital days. I'm anxious to have him see Nic- I think he will be tickled pink! Time to watch a little T.V. before retiring... talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-17 22:27:12 (EST)

Sunday evening, and we are winding down from a good and busy weekend. First thing this morning we popped Nic out of bed, got him ready and headed to Parker! Bethany and her roommate Marissa came along with us, and Larry the nurse lent a hand. We took Nic through the back gate, across the back yard, up the steps onto the deck and in through the back sliding door. Whew! The weather was lovely and Nic seemed to really enjoy being home. He remembered the neighborhood and house, and even though we could only have him on the first floor he really liked being there! Next we headed to the Pinery Country Club for lunch. We have a new clubhouse since Nic's accident, so at least we didn't have to keep asking him if he remembered it!!! Our friends Jim and Claudia and Larry and Carol joined us for lunch. It was great to have all of us at the table! We tooled around the club, saw the driving range and even ran into a few people we knew! On the way back downtown we drove past some other highlights of Parker, like the kids' schools, our favorite grocery store, etc. It was a very fun day, and an enjoyable field trip!! Nic took a little nap when we got home, we had dinner and now we're waiting for Carrie and Brian to pop in to say hi. They spent the weekend in St. Louis for Brian's brother's college graduation. Hope you had a great weekend, too! Love, The Classick Crew

2009-05-17 01:23:12 (EST)

Good evening! My mom called today worrying that I had not written an update for two days. I did do one on Thursday night- don't know what happened to it! I did not do one last night, so here I am, trying to make up for lost time! We've had a good couple of days. The progress continues for the Big Guy. He's happy, healthier every day and is talking more and more. His best walking ever was done yesterday. He walked almost the entire length of our Great Room without stopping, lifted his feet and shifted his weight so well! Even Rich the PT was thrilled and happy, and I think he's seen it all! Beth came down to see us, and we had a nice lunch out. Nic had OT, too and Liliana worked on his neck and shoulders with a cool laser thing that she has. Today was a nice, relaxing day- just as a Saturday should be! Kim and Darryl came by for a visit, as well as Matt. We had a nice time, and we tried to walk Nic... some things should be left to trained professionals, but we gave it a good try! Andy and Kate spent the afternoon and we took Nic out for Mexican food tonight. We had a nice time, and Nic loved his food! It's fun to see him start to enjoy his meals again. He's been a foodie for a long time! I ran to a graduation party tonight for another Kim, one of my Book Club friends. Just got off the phone with Nic's roommate from Craig Hospital's wife. Her husband Dan is home with her, too. It's nice to talk with someone who TRULY understands everything we've gone through! Her husband is improving, too, so we have fun comparing notes. It's late and time for me to say goodnight. Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-05-15 00:31:22 (EST)

Happy Hump Day to all our followers in Nic's Nation! Today was another red-letter day in the long and winding road to recovery. Nic spoke more today than any other day for the past 20 months! Sometimes with voice, sometimes in a loud whisper, but he was Mr. Chatty today! It is very interesting to see what he will come up with, and I must admit that I am EXHAUSTED after listening so hard all day! The connections that are coming back together in his brain must get a little detoured occasionally- sometimes with hilarious results! Nic chatted with me, Nurse Larry, Holly the speech pathologist and Carrie and Brian pretty much non-stop today. At one point Carrie showed Nic a photo of himself, me and Carrie when she was in high school. She pointed to Nic and said "who's that?". He said "Mr. Studley". I was Mrs. Studley, and with Carrie he just pointed to her and said "you". He will know who someone is one minute and then not the next! BUT his speech is becoming more audible, he's using much more facial expression and is talking with his hands a TON- very Nic Classick-like! We keep reminding him that he may get things a little mixed up, but that we'll be around to help get him straightened out! He spoke on the phone to Beth and to Linda today and they could hear most of what he said. I think we're getting him back!!!!! Nic's body is getting much stronger, too. Carrie and Brian helped get him in bed tonight, and they were amazed at how much stronger he's become in the last couple of weeks. Nic told the nurse today that the reason he is talking more is that some days he's a little bummed out, but that today he felt really good. Let's hope and pray that we have many, many more days of him feeling really good!! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-13 22:39:24 (EST)

It's halftime of our Nuggets game and we're ahead 69-55! Let's hope they hang in there for the second half! We had a good day today, especially considering we had a trip to the plastic surgeon. Nic had a strange thing on his face that had been there forever, so we had it taken off today. Luckily it was benign; surely after everything my poor baby has been through NO ONE would be cruel enough to let him have skin cancer! They biopsied it right there so that we knew right away. Whew!! After the Doctor Henry the nurse took Nic out for a little walk while I cleaned house and did laundry. The dreams of the everyday housewife! After a nap for Nic, Carrie arrived, followed by Bethany and her friend Marissa. I made some munchies, we had a little wine and brothers Harold and Craig came by. Beth and Marissa left for the Rockies game, Carrie left to go home, and the brothers went next door to the Nuggets game. I'm sure they are having fun! We'll watch the rest of the game and then call it a day. Hope yours was a great one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-13 00:30:46 (EST)

Another day is done and I am happy to report that it was a good one for the Big Guy! He is definitely beginning to talk more, and continued to talk alot about his job at Oracle today. I must say that he is really rarin' to go to work... He told Andy tonight that he is going to be really busy next week because all of his managers will be in town and we're having them all here for a party! Believe me, I'd like nothing more than to have that great group here for a party! It's kind of hard to know how much we should be correcting Nic about things. I'm SO thrilled that he's talking so much, but I also don't want him to be living in a fantasy world. I keep reminding him that he's on a leave of absence from work, and that all he needs to worry about is getting better! I went into Parker today for my Book Club. It was great to see all of the ladies, and I think I will even try to read the book for June's meeting! Bethany hung out with Nic for most of the day and really had a good time. I ran a few errands and headed back downtown in time to greet Andy. He had dinner with us and then Nic and I went to Andy's softball game. They lost their first game of the season! Dang! It was another beautiful day here today, so sitting outside on a gorgeous evening felt great. My dear friend Linda called tonight and will be here a week from today!!! How lucky we are to have such amazing friends. I can't wait to see her! That made my day, and I'm ready to call it a night with a smile on my face! A good day all around! Hope your day was, too. Love, Chris

2009-05-11 23:55:18 (EST)

A beautiful Monday here in the Centennial State! Perfect weather, visits from both of our daughters, and a productive day for the Big Guy. He awoke this morning and told me "I just sent Paul a note asking him if he'd help me work on a project" and ended the day writing his plan for Oracle's fourth quarter on a piece of paper. Sadly I couldn't read any of it, or I would be sending it out to all you Oracle Angels out there to give you a few tips to get you through the last weeks of the fiscal year!! For someone who hasn't worked for nearly 20 months he still has Oracle on the brain!!! Nic worked very hard on the toughest job of his life today... recovering from this injury! He had a great session of PT and OT, and walked really well again in PT. I think that the idea of shifting his weight, moving forward while working his feet correctly and keeping his balance while pushing the walker is finally coming together! We can almost see his brain working overtime to put all of the components of walking together! Right now Nic's in bed watching the Nuggets game through his eyelids- we're ahead by six points but the fat lady has not sung yet! All in all it was a good day- hope yours was, too! Love, Chris and all

2009-05-10 21:05:23 (EST)

Happy Mother's Day to all of the moms out there! Hope that your day was fabulous, and that you did EXACTLY what you wanted to do! That's what I did... slept in a little, had a leisurely morning, spent time with all of the kids, and went to an amazing brunch at one of our favorite places! We were so happy about how well Nic did while at the hotel for brunch- he ate well, managed his food well and enjoyed the whole family being together. It's amazing how one appreciates the little things after traveling the road that we have been on! My only regret is that I couldn't be with my mom in Iowa, but luckily she was well taken care of by my two brothers and my sister-in-law! Right now Nic and I are watching the Celtics/Magic game and I think that he will be ready to head to bed soon- with all of the festivities today he didn't get a nap in! Hope your weekend and your Mother's Day was fantastic! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-09 22:09:57 (EST)

Hope everyone's Saturday was sensational! We had some beautiful weather here today, and I was actually gone most of the day. I have to admit that it felt pretty good to be away for several hours... is that awful of me??? Anyway, I headed out this morning to go to the Parker house. Before I left, however I had a great conversation with Nic! Who knows why, but he said about four full sentences in a fairly loud voice! It wasn't his usual booming voice, but I could hear every word without straining to hear! Nothing big, no heartfelt declarations of undying love or anything, but a good conversation about what I was heading out to do today! It was wonderful. While I was gone Kim, Darryl and Tom came by. I heard from Larry the nurse that they had a good time, talked some sports and played some checkers. Nic watched the Nuggets game- a true nailbiter! We won with seconds left to be 3-0 against the Mavericks in the second round of the playoffs. Go Nuggets!!! I attended a lovely Bridal shower for Ponz' daughter Erin at her home south of Parker, saw some great friends and had a really nice time. We just finished dinner and are watching more NBA before it's time for Nic to retire for the night. We'll head to brunch tomorrow for Mother's Day, and I will be lucky enough to have all my chicks around me!! What more could a mom ask for??? Have a good day tomorrow, ladies! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-05-09 00:01:57 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the 84th time! Eighty four weeks of checking in with loved ones across the nation and even overseas... wow. Mind boggling if you think about it too hard! I'm sitting watching the Rockies game- Andy and Kate are there, and had dinner with Nic and I before the game tonight. Kate and I shared a bottle of Pinot Grigio... It's very nice when your favorite daughter-in-law shares your taste in wine! We began the day today with a great session of PT- Rich worked on balance, we walked with Nic, and also worked on Pivot transfers. Nic stands, then pivots his feet (with help, of course!) and then sits on the bed, wheelchair or wherever he needs to go. When we get that down to a science it will be wonderful, because just about anyone will be able to transfer Nic! Today was the second day that Nic has been off the anti-seizure medication that he has been on for most of this adventure. So far, so good, and Dr. Ripley at Craig thinks being off the Keppra will be good for Nic's alertness. We hope to wean him off much of his medicines eventually... step by step! I made one of my exciting Target excursions and came home to our friends Jim and Jackie visiting with Nic. We had a great visit, and were joined by Bethany soon after. She is officially finished with her junior year of college! How can we have kids that old??? She will live in Boulder this summer, take a couple of classes and got a job hostessing at an organic restaurant called Turley's (it is Boulder, Colorado, after all!). Carrie just got a new job and will start on Monday. It's here in downtown Denver (great commute for her!) and involves selling support services for a variety of companies. She has three friends who work there and really like it, so she's excited. Nic and I will miss her being here with us helping out, however! Tomorrow I will head to Parker in the morning, do a few things at the house and then drive south to attend a wedding shower. It will be good for me to be out and about for much of the day! Time for bed on this CRAZY Friday night! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-05-07 23:10:48 (EST)

Just got Nic to bed, and I am sitting down for an hour or so before bed. It was a pretty calm day around the Classick Corral today with only Speech Therapy this morning. Nic did some word searches and puzzles in speech, and did a pretty good job writing! We could read most of the words and he got the puzzles right. I need to pick up some crossword puzzle books... that was always Nic's thing on weekend mornings, to do the crossword in the paper (with a little help from his wife!). I think that he is starting to see better and was reading aloud (mouthing the words) out of ESPN magazine the other day. Hooray! One more step toward normalcy! My friend Vicki came today. She hadn't seen Nic for quite a while and really was quite amazed at how much progress he had made. She and I walked downtown for lunch and Carrie and Larry the nurse walked downtown to buy me a Mother's Day card. Carrie said he looked at LOTS of cards before choosing one, so I can't wait to see it on Sunday! They grabbed a sandwich and walked home, enjoying the gorgeous day. After a nap we just hung out for the rest of the day, ate a little dinner and watched some T.V.- a fairly normal evening even BEFORE Nic's accident! Hope your evening was fairly normal, too! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-05-07 00:44:08 (EST)

Today was a happy Hump Day for the Classick Clan. I awoke feeling as if the strange, achy affliction of the past two days had never entered my body, thank heavens! Besides, every mother out there knows that Moms (and now caregivers) can NEVER be sick for more than two days, right? Got some stuff done around here this morning and we were ready for a Co-treat by OT and PT this morning at 10:30. Liliana, the OT brought a HUGE exercise ball and we got Nic on it! Rich the PT had the Gait belt around Nic's chest and Nic was on it for about 30 minutes! He moved his body backward, forward, from side to side and did pretty well balancing. If you've ever tried sitting on one of those balls you know it's not the easiest thing to do! We then walked Nic, and he did really well again. Liliana (all 5'2" of her!) crawled behind Nic and helped him bend his knees as he took steps. I think it helped! Soon after that my friends Judy and Denise came by. We chatted with Nic and Carrie for awhile then walked downtown to have lunch. Lunch was delicious and the company even better! Thanks, ladies! I ran out to do a few errands, Carrie came by again, and we ended the evening with a little dinner and some talk. Nic is trying SO hard to talk out loud- it must be so frustrating for him! I keep hoping that one of these days he'll just wake up in the morning with a full voice! As for Brenda and Runch's suggestions for a December trip... Southern California and Australia are BOTH great ideas! Right now I would take a trip to lovely North Platte, Nebraska just to TAKE A TRIP with my husband! Rest assured, when we can travel again those suggestions will be at the top! We'll even go back to San Francisco- just not to SFGH or to the Red Carpet Club at the airport!! We can't wait to someday travel and see all of the wonderful people who are still hanging in there with us... including each of you! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-05 22:22:58 (EST)

Tuesday night, I am feeling as if I might survive, and Nic's day was a pretty good one! He only had Speech Therapy today, so his day was filled with spending time with his current wife (he used to LOVE to introduce me as his CURRENT wife!) and our three children and lovely daughter-in-law. Carrie was here to begin the day, and took care of her daddy again while I lolled about in bed. Bethany arrived next, in between her job and her finals. She and Henry the nurse took Nic out for a walk down along Cherry Creek. It was a very pretty day today! Andy and Kate arrived after work, we ordered a pizza and chatted awhile, and even now are watching the NBA game that is on before our Nuggets play tonight. Think that I will tape the Nuggets game, as I'm doubtful that I will stay awake for the whole thing, and I am SURE that Nic will not! It was a good day for family time, and here's a neat little story to end the day with. When Bethany was leaving this afternoon she hugged her daddy goodbye. Nic told her " I think about you all the time". Beth, (with tears in her eyes, of course!) said "Dad, do you realize how far you've come?" and Nic nodded. He then said "By December I'm going to be so much better that we'll all go on a big trip together!". You know what? I think that he is right! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-05 22:22:58 (EST)

Tuesday night, I am feeling as if I might survive, and Nic's day was a pretty good one! He only had Speech Therapy today, so his day was filled with spending time with his current wife (he used to LOVE to introduce me as his CURRENT wife!) and our three children and lovely daughter-in-law. Carrie was here to begin the day, and took care of her daddy again while I lolled about in bed. Bethany arrived next, in between her job and her finals. She and Henry the nurse took Nic out for a walk down along Cherry Creek. It was a very pretty day today! Andy and Kate arrived after work, we ordered a pizza and chatted awhile, and even now are watching the NBA game that is on before our Nuggets play tonight. Think that I will tape the Nuggets game, as I'm doubtful that I will stay awake for the whole thing, and I am SURE that Nic will not! It was a good day for family time, and here's a neat little story to end the day with. When Bethany was leaving this afternoon she hugged her daddy goodbye. Nic told her " I think about you all the time". Beth, (with tears in her eyes, of course!) said "Dad, do you realize how far you've come?" and Nic nodded. He then said "By December I'm going to be so much better that we'll all go on a big trip together!". You know what? I think that he is right! Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-05 00:14:41 (EST)

Greetings on a fairly uneventful Monday night! I was feeling a little under the weather today, so Carrie hung out here with her daddy for most of the day and evening while I slept! The highlight of the day was during PT when Nic walked BY FAR the best he ever has! He walked most of the length of our "great room" without stopping and witout getting winded. He REALLY used the walker and moved his feet so well! I would say that for the first time today I feel VERY confident that he will be walking within the next few months! Nic was very proud of himself and felt very encouraged, I think. Good stuff, to be sure! I will end on that bright note and get my poor achy body into bed. Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-05-03 19:26:57 (EST)

Greetings on a lovely Sunday afternoon! Nic and I just returned from watching our Nuggets beat the Mavericks by 14 points! Our dear Jim and Claud got tickets and the five of us (including their son David) had some pretty good seats in the wheelchair accessible section! Andy and Kate and Jim and Claud's son Pat and his girlfriend Paige also were at the game, so it was quite festive... especially with a win! Chuck, the Road Warrior brother left this morning to drive back to Missouri. It was so sad to see him go, but now that Nic is doing better it's not as sad as other times we've said goodbye! We had a great day yesterday. It began with a visit from Kim and Darryl- the weekends are not complete without a visit from them! After that it was a Classick affair, with brothers Harold and Craig and all of their clans coming to spend the day. Kate and Andy, Carrie and Brian joined the group, and we ate, drank and were merry all day and evening! Nic did really well and seemed to really enjoy everyone's company. Poor Beth had to miss the party, as she had TWO finals yesterday. Yes, finals on Saturday- a University of Colorado tradition, I guess! Right now Nic and I are watching a little T.V. I am going to a play tonight with my friend Teri- haven't seen her for a long time, so that will be wonderful! Hope I can stay awake... the neighbors above us were blasting Techno music and screaming along until at least 4:00 this morning. I finally fell asleep then! I would give anything to be awakened by birds singing or foxes barking in my backyard in Parker. I do miss it there! Someday soon, I hope! Thanks for checking in with us, and we will talk again tomorrow. Love, Chris and Company

2009-05-02 01:12:54 (EST)

Friday night and all is well. We had a gray and drizzly day here today- unusual for Denver! Physical Therapy started the day out, with some good walking again for Nic. Occupational Therapy then followed, and by the time that was over Nic was ready for a nap! Carrie and I made a Costco run while brothers Chuck and Harold went out for lunch. The rest of the day was spent visiting with Chuck and also with our friend Larry. After dinner tonight I ran out for a while to an art opening that our next door neighbor here at the loft had- it was fun, and my first official art show! Nic and Chuck had some good bonding time while I was gone, and Chuck and I finished the evening with a little wine (Chuck brought me 12 bottles of Pinot Grigio... now all I need is my dear Linda here to help me in the search for the perfect bottle!). It's a dirty job, but SOMEBODY's got to do it! Anyway, it's time to end this particular Friday. Nic was a little down today- just not as perky as usual- so we hope tomorrow will be better! Until then! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-30 22:34:32 (EST)

4,355 messages on this site from our wonderful members of Nic's Nation! Thanks to our friend Kyle for counting them up for us! I kept thinking I would do it someday, but life keeps getting in the way! I want you to know that the kids and I have read all 4,355 of them, and most of them have been read to Nic, too! Each of them has evoked a great memory, a laugh, a tear and a head shaking in wonderment at how lucky we are to have such a band of amazing family and friends. We have reconnected with people we had lost touch with, heard from old neighbors, classmates and colleagues, and felt a virtual hug each evening when we check Support Circle to see who has taken the time to say hello. Keep those messages coming; each one is precious and special to all of us! Speaking of special, we went to Craig Hospital today to speak to the hospital board of our experience at Craig. We were joined by three other patients and their loved ones, and it was impossible to hold back the tears as we heard their stories related. Each of them has had an unbelievable experience at Craig, too. The best part is that our friend Shelley has joined the board and we got to see her today! We're so proud of her and are touched that she is part of such a wonderful place. We're excited right now because brother Chuck, the Road Warrior is soon to arrive! He should be in Colorado by now and will be here through the weekend! Carrie was here this morning and had breakfast with us, and Bethany was here for dinner! Nic had speech today, but things are just not clicking right now with the voice. Hopefully this too will pass! Once again, thanks for your support, thoughts, messages, visits and prayers. They continue to mean the world to us! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-04-29 23:01:07 (EST)

Greetings to all on this fine Wednesday night. We spent most of the day today at Swedish Hospital, but are home now with a brand new, beautiful feeding tube protruding from my Nic's tummy! All went very well, and the tube is the same type as they put in about a year ago while Nic was a patient at Craig. They gave him a little pain medication which made him drowsy, but otherwise he is doing just fine. Our Nuggets are playing right now and we have it on in the bedroom, but I'm also taping the game... I don't think Nic will be awake for very long! He began the day with PT and did a great job of walking. It was his best effort ever as far as shifting his weight and moving his feet appropriately. Carrie was here for PT, and since she and I are about the same height we do a pretty darn good job of being Physical Therapy assistants on either side of Nic! It was our nurse Bettina's last day today... she graduated from CU/Boulder and is off for a huge adventure in various parts of the world. We will miss her! We've been awfully lucky with our nurses, and I have definitely become a HUGE fan of Home Health Care! More tomorrow... hope your Hump Day was happy! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-28 22:14:51 (EST)

Well, another trip to the hospital today with some good news and some not as good news! Can't say it's BAD news, considering some of the really bad news that we have survived and overcome so far in the past 19 months. The good news is that the endoscopy did not show anything serious. Hooray! No ulcer, no cancer, no horrible lesions, etc. The not so good news is that we go back again tomorrow and get yet another feeding tube! It may come as a shock to you, but the Interventional Radiologist at Presbyterian/St. Luke's hospital did NOT put the tube in correctly back in February and the Gastroenterologist at Swedish Hospital today thinks the tube knicked the inside of Nic's stomach last week to cause the bleeding. Not a good thing, but it could be worse! None of the nurses liked the tube that Nic has had anyway, so we will get the old kind back at Swedish tomorrow. Whew! I feel very happy and relieved, and the procedure is not a big deal (easy for ME to say as I sit in the waiting room tomorrow, right?). We'll go over there at 11:00, have the procedure at 1:00 with a local anesthetic and be home by 3:00 I think! Nic has been fine today and wasn't even sedated for the endoscopy. We stopped for lunch on the way home, he took a nap and Carrie went to see Brian in Boulder. When Nic got up Andy and Kate were here! We took Nic next door for dinner and the two of them just left. Our Nuggets won BIG last night (Only by 58 points... Sorry, New Orleans!) so tomorrow night for the fourth game of the playoffs our neighbor the Pepsi Center should be ROCKIN'!! Go Nuggets! It's time to get Nic to bed, so I will close and say farewell. Hope your Tuesday was terrific! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-27 22:05:05 (EST)

It's halftime of our beloved Nuggets playoff game, and we're winning by a lot... a very good thing! We had a good day today, so this is a good way to end the day! Our nurse that was scheduled for today was ill, so we didn't have a nurse for the first three hours of the day. I am proud to report that I got Nic washed up, dressed and ready to start the day all by myself! Just as I was gearing up to get him out of bed by myself our amazing Carrie arrived. She had a great weekend in California and stopped by first thing this morning to see us. She and I got Nic in his chair and ready to start the day. He had Occupational Therapy and did well- Liliana is very excited how much stronger Nic's upper body is becoming. We had some lunch, hung out for a while and then Nic took a nap. I took that opportunity to go to the mall... good for a small case of STIR-CRAZINESS! We got Nic up when I returned home and have just had a fairly normal time since then. We go to Swedish Hospital tomorrow for an Endoscopy (upper G.I. tract scope) to be sure that there's nothing wrong in there after our incidents of last week. Keep your fingers crossed that all is well! I'll let you all know tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-26 23:12:06 (EST)

A very good and very SOCIAL day for the Big Guy and his cohort in crime, me! We got Nic up and showered, ready to start the day. Our friends Gale and Beth arrived, followed by Bethany. We all sat in the living room having a great visit and were soon joined by Darryl and Kim. A party, to be sure! Soon Brian arrived and hung out until just a few minutes ago. What a guy! Our buddies Nina and matt came by this afternoon and the party continued. After a short nap Brian, Nic and I had some pizza and visited some more, and now we just got Nic to bed. He was very happy and chatty today, and we got MOST of what he was saying, I think! The eating and swallowing is going a little better, and we have had no more episodes of vomiting or choking the last couple of days. Thank God! All in all it was a good, relaxing and social weekend, filled with good friends and family. What more could we ask for? Thanks for continuing on this journey with us... send us a note to say hi when you have a minute or two! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-26 00:15:44 (EST)

Saturday night and all is well. I got home too late to do an update last night... I had dinner with our friend Janice, in town from Kansas. We had a great time... two ladies out on the town on a Friday night! Really, it was just dinner, but we can pretend it was a wild evening! Yesterday was fine- fairly uneventful! We had PT in the morning and Nic did a good job walking. As soon as he gets the idea of lifting his feet up to walk I think it will go even better! After PT we took Nic back to Craig for an appointment with the Gastroenterologist. She didn't seem too concerned with our Wednesday adventure, but we are scheduled for an upper G.I. scope on Tuesday just to make sure all is well. Nic has not had any more scary episodes, so that's a VERY good thing! Bethany, her friends Nicolette and Marissa, Andy and Kate all came by yesterday afternoon. We had a good visit! Andy, Kate and their friends Russ and Alisha came to see Nic after dinner last night. I was gone at dinner myself, but Andy said Nic was very alert and awake when they arrived- even at 10:45 P.M.! Today was a relaxing day, with just Nic, the nurse and I hanging out watching sports most of the day. Later this afternoon our friends David and Janice came by, had a good visit and then took us out to dinner. Nic Classick out and about until 9:00 P.M. Who would have thought? David and Janice hadn't seen Nic since Andy's wedding last June and were quite excited by what they saw this evening. That's good for both of us to hear! Hope that your Saturday was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-23 22:20:26 (EST)

It's almost time to get Nic to bed for the night, and luckily our day went better than yesterday! Nic seemed to feel fine today, and although he had another session of vomiting this morning he has had no more ill effects today. We just hung out for most of the day, visited with Carrie and got a few things done around the house. We had an appointment this afternoon with Dr. Ripley at Craig. It's always fun to go back there... that tells you what an amazing place Craig Hospital is! After six months of being in a hospital it MUST have been a good experience if I'm excited to go BACK there! I really hope that Craig can be part of our lives always- hopefully Nic and I can BOTH volunteer there some day! Anyway, everyone at Craig was very excited about Nic's new forehead and his head should be TWICE as big from all of the compliments he got! Our wonderful social worker, Melissa was there to greet us and stayed with us as we waited for the doctor, took Nic to get him weighed, and talked to our friends on the second floor. Dr. Ripley thought Nic looked great as well, did an exam and found him stronger, more alert and healthier. He is a little perplexed about the vomiting and blood and wants us to see the Gastroenterologist who works with Craig. Melissa will try to get us an appointment for tomorrow or Monday. Nic's vitals are still good, and he says he feels fine. He chatted with our dear Trey and Maribeth on the phone this morning- they were even telling him tales of deals they are trying to close in the fourth quarter of Oracle's fiscal year! How normal is that!?!? He spoke with Bethany on the phone this evening too, and she could hear quite a bit of what he was saying! It will be wonderful when that big voice of his comes back again. Some evenings I swear my ears are worn out from trying to figure out what Nic is trying to say all day long! Tonight it's not just my ears that are worn out... the whole body is joining the party! Good night! Love, Chris and family

2009-04-23 01:30:52 (EST)

Another late update tonight, NOT because I was out doing something fun, unfortunately! Nurse Terry, Carrie, Nic and I just returned from the Emergency Room at St. Anthony's Hospital. Nic vomited a little blood tonight and had some blood coming from his feeding tube in his stomach. We got a little scared and decided to call 911 and have an ambulance come. As soon as I hung up the phone with the 911 operator I heard sirens from the Fire Station a block away. In less than five minutes the paramedics arrived, assessed Nic and had him loaded on a gurney. Good to know that they are there when and if we need them again! They took an X-ray with dye at the hospital and determined that his feeding tube was in place correctly. He has had no more vomiting or blood and his vital signs are good, so this may have to go down in the records as another medical mystery. Nic seems to be doing O.K. and is sound asleep even as the parking lot at the Pepsi Center is crazy with revelers after the Nuggets victory a few moments ago! Go Nuggets! Before our Big Adventure this evening today was fairly uneventful. Nic had a little choking after his lunch today, so we will have to monitor his eating a little more closely. We think he may just be eating too quickly and not chewing well enough. Bret came by this afternoon and we enjoyed his visit! Carrie and Beth both arrived, too. Their daddy (and mom!) were very happy to see them as well. Carrie met us at St. Anthony's this evening and made sure all was well with BOTH the parents! Nic is sound asleep, seemingly no worse for wear. We have an appointment tomorrow with Dr. Ripley at Craig- perhaps he can shed some light on what could be going on with our Big Guy. Hopefully this was just a freak thing that will go unexplained, just like quite a few twists and turns during this adventure. Stay tuned to see what unfolds tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-22 01:28:13 (EST)

A late update this evening, as I actually was out tonight! Carrie and I traveled to Boulder this afternoon, about a 30 minute drive north of here. Beth's sorority culminated their "Greek Week" as they do every year with "Songfest". A sorority and fraternity team up and do a 10 minute themed dance routine. Beth's group had an African theme and came in third place! The talent is amazing, and fun was had by all! Carrie and I stopped and did a little shopping before the show, and then met Brian for drinks and a little dinner. Andy came after work, had dinner with Nic and visited with Leslie (also known as Ponz) and Mike, in town from Seattle. I'll have to hear details tomorrow from Andy about the visit, as he had a softball game later this evening. Nic's day was a good one again. He literally POPPED UP off the side of the bed this morning when Nurse Larry was getting him up, then Nic went on to perform really well in Physical Therapy. We walked him and I think he did the best yet! Those feet are moving better and better, and he is shifting his weight more naturally. How exciting! We took Nic out for a walk again, this time to the shops and restaurants on Larimer Square. It was so great to be out and about! The days are so fun now, just to see what Nic will accomplish. It doesn't seem that long ago that we were THRILLED when he squeezed our hands or looked from side to side. How blessed we are! We'll talk again tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-21 00:30:20 (EST)

What a lovely day! There have been evenings throughout this adventure in which I have sat with the computer on my lap trying to think of ONE good thing to report to all of you. Tonight I have so many good things to report I don't think I can name them all!!! We began the day with a shower for Nic and the usual morning routine. he was pretty chatty this morning, using voice and everything! Carrie, Larry the nurse and I loaded Nic and the van and headed out to Dr. Mouchantat's office. Our favorite plastic surgeon exclaimed over Nic's perfect new forehead for a while and then took the sutures and staples out! The last (we hope!) surgery is officially over, and Nic's job now is to get better every day to come all the way back to us! After the appointment we made an exciting journey to Target to pick up some medicines, hit our local Sonic for a not-so-healthy lunch, and had a picnic at the lake. It was a gorgeous sunny 70 degree day, we walked by the lake and had a great time. After a nap Nic stood in the standing frame for about 45 minutes and could have stood even longer, I think! Early this evening we were sitting and having dinner. Nic said "I miss talking to Leslie". Leslie is our Oracle Angel who was Nic's manager here in Denver, and has a loft in our building with her husband Kevin. Anyway, I called Leslie, and Nic talked to her on the phone! He said enough words aloud that I think she really felt she had a conversation with Nic! I watched them talk with tears rolling down my cheeks. What a wonderfully normal thing to end the evening with! He's snoozing away right now, and I think it's about time for me to call it a day as well. Until tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-20 01:48:43 (EST)

A happy Sunday was had by the Classick Crew, full of good friends and family once again. Bethany came this morning and hung out for quite a while before heading back to Boulder. Nic was good today... alert, happy and engaged with all that was happening around him! Andy and Kate arrived and watched some NBA with us. We got ready for a little "preparty" before our Nuggets played the Hornets across the street at the Pepsi Center. Larry and Carol came by as soon as we got Nic up from a nap- he was happy to see them! Next we walked Nic a little, and he did very well. He is moving his feet so much more quickly! Jeff, Jason and Cole, Andy's buddies from High School came by, and Jim, Claud, their three sons and son Pat's girlfriend Paige arrived. Carrie and Brian came, too and helped me get dinner out and served. We had a good time until the game began. We got Nic to bed, Carrie and I watched a little t.v. while everyone else went to the game. The Nuggets won handily! It's time to call it a day- hope your Sunday was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-19 00:00:31 (EST)

P.S. Beth sent in a new picture today taken last Sunday on Easter. You can see the new forehead! That red streak is pretty much gone now, and he is once again the handsome fellow we all know and love!

2009-04-18 23:58:01 (EST)

Hello to all out there in Nic's Nation! Hope that you are staying warmer and dryer than the Classick Clan... Andy said they had about TWO FEET of snow in Highlands Ranch where he and Kate live! Our snow of yesterday turned to rain today, but it rained all day long. Yesterday brought us the BIGGEST snowflakes I have every seen! It looked like huge cotton balls falling from the sky. Everything should really green up after this mess, I guess! We have had a good last couple of days despite the weather. Yesterday Nic woke up and with full voice said "Where's Bear?" (his pet name for Carrie). I said she's not here, and he again in full voice said "Where is she?". Lucky for her she came by later in the day... I guess we didn't know our 23 year old had to check in with her daddy! Due to the weather yesterday we just kind of hung out all day, played ball, had PT and Speech. They all went well, and Nic's walking improved a little more again. Today started out a little lazy, as Nic was awake in the middle of the night for a couple of hours. I went in when he woke up this morning and told him I was going to go take a shower. He got a silly smile on his face and clapped his hands to tease me and say "it's about time!". Another little step toward normalcy, as Nic has always loved to tease us! Beth arrived this morning as we were finishing Nic's shower. She and Nic hung out for much of the morning and then Kim and Darryl arrived with Starbuck's! Bless them! We had a great visit, Darryl and Nic played ball for awhile, and Kim and Darryl liked what they saw as far as Nic's improvement! Each day since the latest surgery we have seen small improvements both physically and mentally. What a wonderful thing. It makes life pretty exciting! Carrie and Brian arrived just as Nic was going down for a nap, so they visited for a while. An exciting trip to Sam's Club and the gas station ended my hot Saturday night, and now Nic is in bed again. I'm hoping for nice weather tomorrow, but with Nic's improvements it's pretty sunny around here anyway! Hope your day was a sunny one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-17 00:01:27 (EST)

Greetings from rainy, dreary Denver! We are supposed to get snow tomorrow... what happened to the Chamber of Commerce's claim of "more than 300 days per year of sunshine?!!!". Nic and I just returned from our Home Owner's Association meeting for the loft building. It was a pretty intense meeting... lots of issues!- but they had a little party afterward. It was nice to talk to neighbors that we normally just say hi to in the elevator. I miss the Parker house, though! Anyway, we had a good day today. No therapies, but Carrie, Nurse Larry and I worked Nic out here and there all day. Tom, Lynn and Bruce came by for a visit midday and we headed next door to have lunch. We had a really nice time, and thanks for lunch, guys! After a nap we got Nic up and ready for the meeting this evening. Our new nurse is working out very well, and he is extremely efficient while being a good guy. Whew!! Carrie just popped in for a little while again after her volleyball game and Nic was being very Nic-like while telling her goodnight. He was even teasing her a little bit! He has been talking a lot today, but voicing very little. It's hard to understand him, and then we both get frustrated. Maybe one of these mornings he will wake up and his voice will just be there! I can dream, can't I? Hope YOUR dreams tonight are good ones! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-16 00:38:59 (EST)

A happy Tax Day to all! Today was a very good day, because I feel as if Nic has turned yet another corner! We've turned so many corners through this adventure that we all should have a HUGE case of motion sickness! Luckily Nic did not suffer any kind of sickness today and was in a good mood! I suspect that his head is feeling better and that he has recovered from his latest and SIXTH brain surgery... overwhelming, if you give it too much thought! We began the day with PT at 9:00 A.M. That used to be really late for the Big Guy, but now it's pretty hard to get him up and ready for action by then! Nic did very well in PT and walked much better than yesterday. He went about 50 feet without too many breaks, and his feet seemed to cooperate very well with his brain today. Carrie came by to spend some time with me and her daddy... always a highlight of the day! Nic had a quick nap, then a session of OT with Liliana. She worked with Nic on his fine motor skills, and played some ball with Nic. His amazing eye-hand coordination is definitely coming back! We had a wonderful surprise visit from our Lovely Lisa today, and Nic was truly happy to see her. Me, too! We had a call from Runch in Australia this afternoon as well. Nic spoke with him on the phone for a few minutes and had a great smile on his face when Runch told him that he did NOT find his University of Northern Iowa letterman's ring on the beach last weekend. When we visited Runch in Australia in 1980 Nic lost his ring on the beach. It's always been a joke between us that someday Runch would find his ring while at their family beach house! Runch assured Nic that SOME DAY we'll make another trip down under and find that elusive ring! Soon Bethany and four of her friends arrived. Makes a person proud and encouraged that a group of 21 year old girls want to stop and hang with us before a crazy concert this evening! We had a good time with the ladies, and though Nic was outnumbered by the girls he seemd to thoroughly enjoy it! He even knew that I was his wife this evening... always a great reward at the end of the day. Hope that your day was full of great rewards, too! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-04-15 00:55:44 (EST)

Good evening to all! I nearly went to bed without getting on the computer... you'd think that after all this time I would not EVER forget! All in all today was a good day for the Big Guy. We had a new nurse have his first day today, and I think he will work out quite well. He was an Army nurse for 12 years, knows brain injury and was very pleasant to be around. A relief to have a new nurse come in that I really like- we've been so lucky with our nurses I'm always scared we'll get a clunker in the bunch! We started out the morning with PT. Nic did a little bit of walking, but tired out a bit more quickly than before the surgery. It's going to take some time to regain his strength, I think. Carrie arrived in time to help, so with us on either side of him and the PT in front he took quite a few steps. I left right after PT for my Book Club meeting. We met for lunch and actually discussed the book for quite a while! It was good to get out of the house, and Carrie hung out with Nic the whole day. She and the nurse took Nic out for a walk and worked him out a little more as well! When I arrived home Andy was here. We got Nic in the van and took him to Andy's softball game. It was a gorgeous evening and Nic and I had a good time... Andy's team won, too! Nic has seemed a little sad the past few days, so hopefully he will cheer up soon! He has a lot to smile about! Each of you out there give us all a lot to smile about! Thanks for being there. Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-14 00:37:10 (EST)

A decent Monday was enjoyed around here today. Nothing really exciting, but nothing particularly upsetting, either! A quick run to take Bags to the airport, and then the day began. We had a new nurse train here today, a nice man named Larry. He will be on duty tomorrow, so I guess it's a good thing I liked him! He was an Army nurse for 12 years, so surely he can handle Nic Classick! Nic had OT this morning, then Carrie and I took him outside for a walk. He napped, then hung out for the rest of the day with his wife. He was a little dull today- guess we all deserve a day like that sometimes! I'm very excited to be approaching nice weather so that we can get out more often and just take a walk or go downtown and see the sights. That's good for the soul! Nic's incision looks really good, and a week from today the stitches and staples will come out. Won't that be a great thing! We'll touch base tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-13 01:39:49 (EST)

Happy Easter! Hope that everyone had a great day today. Ours was a good one, filled with friends and family, just as a holiday should be! We had brunch here at the loft with all of the kids in attendance. Carrie and Brian did much of the cooking this morning. Andy and Kate arrived, armed with their lovely "restaurant quality" waffle iron, followed by Bethany and three of her friends. Soon Harold and Nick arrived; next in the Classick parade came Craig, Sheridan and Brooks. Nic held court from his chair and listened to the exclamations of everyone regarding his amazing new forehead. He was happy to have all of our chicks around us, and two out of three brothers, too! We ate drank and were merry for most of the day while cheering on the golfers playing in the Master's. Nic complained much less today of his head hurting, so I think we have bypassed the worst of that! He took a two hour nap midday, but otherwise was alert and awake the whole day. I got a great surprise late in the day- my dear friend Bags missed her flight home to New York after a week of skiing, so I got a bonus tonight... hanging with one of my favorite people! We've been yakking away for hours and are just now getting ready for bed. It's been a long time since we've gotten to see each other three times in less than a year! I'll take her to the airport bright and early tomorrow, but that was the end to a pretty great day to spend time with her. Hope your day was great as well! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-10 22:49:29 (EST)

A fervent Thank God it's Friday from the Classicks! I'm sipping a glass of wine and watching the Rockies baseball game (delayed from this afternoon) with my husband by my side. Not really what I expected for this particular Friday! I am still surprised and amazed that we have him home with us, so today I thank God not only for Friday, but for the blessings we have enjoyed. Carrie did a little grocery shopping for us today, then stopped by and had lunch with Nic and I and Jim and Claud. They brought a yummy lunch for us... thanks so much! We had a good visit before Nic went down for a nap. He complained of his head hurting today- I guess it's not surprising that it would hurt a bit after what the poor noggin has been through! After his nap we have just been hanging out enjoying the rest of the day. Now it's almost time to say goodnight once again... where DO these days go? Hope that your Good Friday was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-10 00:19:27 (EST)

There's no place like home... I have no sparkly red shoes nor a blue gingham dress, but after surviving a tornado of health problems for the past many months I have never been so happy to have Nic home!! I arrived at the hospital around 9:00 this morning to find Nic awake, alert and watching a little Sportscenter on ESPN. A big smile and a wave came my way and he was stayed awake all morning! Dr. Yarnell came in to check him out, followed by Dr. Mouchentat. He took the bandages out and stood back to look at Nic. "Boy, that's a nice-looking head!" he exclaimed, and declared Nic fit to be released! He took the drain out, wrapped Nic's head back up in the turban and said he'd see us in two weeks to take the stitches and staples out. Carrie was there all morning, too and helped the nurse and I get Nic ready to go. By 1:00 we were out the door of St. Anthony's and heading home! Henry the nurse arrived, we got Nic in bed for a well-deserved rest. He got up for a little Chinese take-out dinner with Bethany and I, then back to bed for the night. His vitals are great, his head looks wonderful and he's glad to be back home. Brain surgery on Tuesday, home on Thursday! Amazing. Nic is snoozing away, and we'll have a lazy day tomorrow just concentrating on getting better! Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-08 23:34:38 (EST)

Today was a Hump Day that had our Nic going right over the hump and down the home stretch! If all goes well during the night tonight we will be bringing Nic home TOMORROW!!! What fantastic news. I did not get to speak to either Dr. Nichols or Dr. Mouchentat today, but our nurse in the I.C.U. told me this morning that they both see no reason that we can't take him home tomorrow! Nic had a good night and was happy to see Carrie and I this morning. Dr. Yarnell (remember him, the neurologist who has been with us on this entire adventure?) came in this morning, gave me a big hug and was thrilled that Nic is still hanging in there. Mary, Dr. Nichols' nurse and right-hand lady came in and we took Nic's turban bandages off! His head is beautiful!!! It is completely shaved, but I must say it is a better look than the long curls he sported in 1975! His forehead looks fantastic and the best part came when we showed him a mirror. He felt his forehead, smiled and gave himself the thumb-and-finger gun in the mirror as if to say "You look good!". It was a very cool moment, and Carrie and I were pretty happy! Kim came by the hospital around noon and was happy with what she saw, too. Later in the day Bethany, Andy and Kate arrived, played a little ball with Nic and enjoyed their visit. He is a little sleepy, but responsive, personality-filled and seems really glad that this latest hurdle has been crossed. He's amazing! Time to call it a night and get ready for the big homecoming tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-07 22:28:33 (EST)

Day is done, and what a day it was! We left Nic at St. Anthony's just a little while ago, complete with a nice round head!!! He was resting comfortably, was responsive and even gave out kisses to the girls and handshakes to Brian and Andy when we left. He looks a little like a wise Arab with his head swaddled in bandages like a turban, but has NO tubes from his nose or throat and just has an I.V. going into his arm for some fluids. I spoke with Dr. Mouchanthat the plastic surgeon again a few hours after the surgery and he was STILL smiling! Both Doctors were actually jabbering after the surgery with big smiles on their faces and kept repeating that the surgery could not have gone better. Isn't it about time that the Big Guy got a break???? I feel as if the other shoe has finally dropped after waiting for this next step since January 1st, 2008. It was worth waiting for!! I have a really good feeling that this is the start of something really big for Nic, and we are hoping and praying that is true! No more blue helmet, no more "soap dish" forehead, no more waiting to see how the surgery will go! We will hope that Nic will bounce back quickly from this latest glitch in our adventure, and that his brain will enjoy its more "normal" environment. A thirteen hour day at the hospital has made me a little weary, so I will say goodnight and thanks once again. Your love, prayers and support have been the foundation on which we have been able to stand strong for the past 81 or so weeks. We can never begin to repay your kindnesses! Thank you from the bottom of our hearts! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-04-07 14:07:19 (EST)

Hooray, Hooray! The surgery was a HUGE success, Nic was stable throughout the entire thing and he is now the proud owner of a new forehead! The Great Bone Flap Caper is past the scariest part with wonderful results. When the Docs came out of the surgical suite there were amazingly large smiles on their faces. They both (the plastic surgeon and neurosurgeon) said that the surgery could not have gone better, the prosthetic fit just perfectly, and the brain looked great. There was no leakage of cerebral spinal fluid and no tears. The skin was not stuck to the brain, they did not have to put a shunt in for drainage, and both docs would like to have Nic out of the hospital as soon as possible to avoid hospital-borne infections. He is on an antibiotic right now to try to ward off infections and is still in the recovery room for the present. We should be able to see him in an hour or so!!! The surgical suite was reserved for six hours and the surgery was completed in less than four, so that was VERY exciting! All the kids, Brian, Jim and Claud and Tom were all with us, waiting for news. It is a very happy group here right now, and we would like to thank you for your thoughts and prayers. I think they worked!!! I'll update again this evening. Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-06 23:20:40 (EST)

Bone Flap Surgery Day is tomorrow! I am at the same time looking forward to it and dreading it, if that is possible! The phone has been ringing off the wall today with calls from friends and family wishing Nic well. Please keep us in your thoughts and prayers yet AGAIN tomorrow as the Big Guy corrects the flaw in his otherwise perfect body! (One of his favorite things to say!). We have to be at the hospital, St. Anthony's Central by 6:00 A.M. tomorrow and the surgery is supposed to begin at 7:30. I will remind you all that cell phone coverage at "Holy Tony's by the Lake" is spotty at best, but I will take the computer and try to post an update on this site as soon as we know something. We really have no idea how long the surgery will be, but I would expect at least three hours. I will have my St. Anthony's necklace on that our dear Maribeth gave me months ago- it's served us well so far! The kids and Brian will all be by my side, propping me up and keeping me strong as always! Nic was in bed early tonight preparing for the big day, watching the NCAA final game and dozing off here and there. He walked really well in PT today and did OK in Speech. He was a little preoccupied today- maybe that's a good thing because it proves his emotions are coming back full force! After a year and four months of waiting, the Bone Flap will be in its proper place tomorrow! HOORAY! Thanks, as always, for hanging in there with us, and I'll let you know how it went tomorrow! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-04-06 00:29:08 (EST)

Sunday night and all is well. The weekend was a good one for we Classicks, and I'm not even suffering my usual Sunday Night Doldrums tonight! Carrie and Brian just left after having Pizza with Nic and I tonight. Nic was alert and very Nic-like again today. I hope he understands the details of his upcoming surgery as well as he seems to- I think that he gets it! I guess this is the first surgery he has had that I feel he really knows what is happening, and it makes me a little nervous. That sentence didn't really flow, but you know what I mean! Bethany came down today, hung out with us and then she and I went to the mall to find a dress for her upcoming sorority dance. We were successful, and even Nic was happy about our bargains! Harold came by right before he left, and had a good visit with his brother. We had snow here again today, but it's supposed to be sunny and mid-fifties tomorrow. I'm ready for Spring weather! It's so nice to have Nic really coming back to us, I don't really even mind more snow! Hope your weekend was great! Love, Chris and Company

2009-04-05 00:32:58 (EST)

A cold and blustery Saturday here in Denver, but we still managed to get Nic out today! We started the morning out a little slowly, with Nic and I having another good chat before he got out of bed. Mornings seem to be his best time, but he always HAS been a morning person! We had lunch out today with Darryl and Kim, Tom, Andy and Kate and Carrie. We walked down the street and enjoyed a festive time with good friends and family. After some visiting with the kids and a nap, the rest of the day and evening was spent watching the NCAA games... Michigan State and UNC should be a good game on Monday! Nic was engaged, happy and pretty chatty for the entire day, and I write this tonight feeling like a very lucky lady. Hope your Saturday was a good one, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-04-04 00:33:52 (EST)

Friday night, attending a cocktail party complete with good company and delicious food... what a way to say "Thank God it's Friday!". According to our dear friend Bob it's the 80th Friday in this grand adventure (thanks for keeping track for us, Bob!) and I think it could be our best Friday yet! Nic and I just returned from our lovely daughter Carrie's apartment where she and her great roommates hosted a real live, grownup cocktail party. It was so nice, and the roommates' moms and dads were all there. Nic and I enjoyed being out and about! Brian and Carrie helped get Nic in and out of the van, but otherwise it was a nice, normal outing. The entire day was a good one, with Nic doing well in all three therapies today. Carrie spent quite a bit of the day with us, and we had visits from some wonderful friends. Jim and Claudia came by to see us, followed by Larry, Carol and their beautiful four-month-old granddaughter Aurelia. Nic even got to hold her and loved it! After a nap (for Nic, not me unfortunately!) we headed over to Carrie's. He is sound asleep right now and seemed pleased with his day. Hope your Friday was great, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-03 00:51:13 (EST)

Thursday's events proved to be just as positive as the previous week or so! The day began with a simple pleasure- a 30 minute chat with my husband! I sat on the bed and we actually chatted! I spoke, he spoke back, he used expression and looked me in the eye, listened and answered back. What a beautiful thing. We talked about all of the events of the past eighteen-plus months, he was surprised and amazed at most of them, and was truly touched when I described the visits, the help and the support we have received from so many of you! It was definitely one of the highlights of this adventure, and began our day in a wonderful way. After we got Nic up and cleaned up we worked him out a bit. Our friends Jim and Jackie came for a visit, and we walked next door for a little lunch. Thanks, guys! Nic ate well and enjoyed the outing. Next Carrie arrived and helped us greet Marvin and Fancine. We had a great visit with them, Carrie played some ball with her dad and Bret came by! Just as Bret was leaving in came Harold, followed by Bethany! What a fun-filled day! Bethany hung around for the rest of the day and had dinner with Nic and I before heading back to school. A little television watching rounded out the day before we put Nic to bed for a well-deserved rest! Now it's my turn! Goodnight, all. Love, Chris and company

2009-04-02 00:27:25 (EST)

Happy Hump Day once again! A good Wednesday was enjoyed today by the Classick Clan... how many days in a row have I said that now? I don't think I'll ever get tired of it, or ever take a good day for granted again. We started the day with Physical Therapy, and Nic walked quite a ways. He had a little bit harder time moving his feet today, and had a little trouble locking his knees so that he COULD walk. Hopefully Nic will figure out how to remedy that problem! Today was probably his best day yet as far as speaking, reacting and showing his amazing personality. The smiles along could melt your heart... another thing I will never take for granted again! Nic spoke quite a bit today, and used some voice. Carrie got a kick out of how much he was speaking, and when she asked him what he wanted to do this afternoon he clearly said "Play some ball, if that's O.K. with you!". Needless to say they played some ball! Nic spoke with Bethany and Linda both on the phone tonight, and they could even hear part of what he said. Even the crazy snowstorm he had this afternoon (complete with thunder and lightning!) couldn't put a damper on this day. Thanks for checking in with us! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-04-01 01:06:26 (EST)

A late update tonight, as I just returned from a lovely dinner with Fancine, Carrie's roommate (and amazing friend!) Gabby's mom. She is in town for work and a visit with her wonderful daughter and had some free time tonight. We had a great time, and delicious dinner, and enjoyed sharing how fantastic we each think the other's daughter is! What fun when your child's friendship can expand to include new friends for yourself as well! Today, dare I say, was another very good day for Nic. I had an appointment this morning, so Carrie came to hang with her daddy and help with Physical Therapy. Nic walked clear across the room again ( with a little help from his friends) and seemed quite pleased with himself. We heard a little more voicing today, and we took some time to explain to him what pleasure it gives us to hear that great voice of his. Holly came for the Speech Therapy session, and Nic was awake and alert through the whole thing! Bethany came down from Boulder after class, Kate and Andy came after work, and a Classick day was enjoyed by all! Nic's expressions and smiles coming back are so thrilling to see- we have missed them very much! After the kids left tonight I walked downtown for dinner and left Nic in the capable hands of our nurse, Betsy. He woke up when I returned home and gave me such a smile... a fantastic way to end the day! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-03-31 00:24:29 (EST)

The week has started out very well for Nic, and hence for all of the family! Each day for the past week or so has just gotten better and better! Nic has been more alert, more engaged, and generally more Nic-like! One of the best things that I can explain to all of you is that Nic is actually smiling! That is something that has been missing for a long time, and it's something that I have sorely missed! He had no therapies today, so Carrie, Nurse Bettina and I took him on an outing to Target. We needed to pick up a prescription, so we loaded in the van and took off. He actually seemed to enjoy being in a store... not historically his favorite activity! After picking up a few things we had a drink at the Starbucks in Target, and Nic enjoyed a vanilla Frappucino- also not a regular favorite of Nic's! Later in the afternoon Nic took a nap and Carrie and I made a trip to the mall. Carrie walked in with a shopping bag full of stuff and told Nic we'd give him a fashion show. He very clearly said "How much money did you spend?". We loved it! We reminded him what excellent bargain shoppers we are, and he seemed to relax a little! Nic's swallow has really improved over the past few days as well, and he ate two really good meals today. A week from tomorrow is the Great Bone Flap Surgery... I'm feeling a lot better about the surgery, since his latest turn around. Considering we've been waiting for the surgery since January 1st of 2008 I guess that it's about time! What a good way to start the week. Thanks, as always for your support, prayers and messages. It's so great to hear from you! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-03-29 22:42:24 (EST)

A busy Sunday today for the Classick Crew! After relaxing in bed for a good part of the morning we got Nic up and cleaned up. Then the wonderful parade of visitors began! Tom, Darryl and Kim were the first to arrive, followed by Carrie and Brian. Soon brother Craig and his kids Sheridan and Brooks came by, with brother Harold soon to follow. Next Bethany and her friend Nicolette arrived- it was lots of visiting and chatting all day while watching the NCAA games! Nic did a little munching and even voiced a bit during the festivities, and managed to stay awake and alert for the entire day! What a fantastic thing to see. We did pay a bit of a price, as Nic was in bed tonight at about 6:30 again. I feel a little sad about that, but when I can sit and watch Nic enjoy our visitors for an entire day it is a small price to pay! A very good Sunday was enjoyed today around here, and I hope that yours was a good one, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-29 00:55:03 (EST)

Saturday night, the kids have all left for their late night activities, and I am ready to go to bed! It has been a good weekend so far for the Big Guy. Yesterday was pretty action-packed with a visit from our OT, Liliana, time spent with Carrie, and visits from our friends Les, Janet and Larry. Kevin stopped by for a while as well. Nic had such a flurry of visitors that he didn't even get his afternoon nap in! The lack of nap illustrated how much he needs it, as he was in bed and sound asleep by 6:30 last night! That's even early for the Senior Citizen crowd... I don't think we're quite ready for that as a regular practice yet! Bethany arrived back home from California last evening and had a wonderful time. She and I had a late dinner out after I picked her up from the airport, and her daddy woke up just enough to tell her hi and ask her if she had fun! Beth had something to go to this morning, and Carrie and Brian arrived to hang out later in the morning. Andy and Kate came down to see us, Beth got back to the loft and we all took Nic down the street to a restaurant for lunch. He's back to normal enough to order his own lunch and truly enjoy taking his entire family out... one of his favorite things to do. After a nap he got up, stood in the standing frame and helped us to entertain our kids, Brian, Andy's friends Marcus, Lori, Seth, Amanda and Matt, and Carrie's friend Gabby. We watched the NCAA games, had a drink or two (or three or four for the younger set!) and just enjoyed each other's company. What a wonderful thing! As I said, the twenty-somethings then left to go out on the town, we got Nic to bed and here I am, ending my day as usual by writing to all of you. Hope that your day was enjoyable, normal, and filled with the company of family and friends. There's nothing better, is there? Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-26 23:30:59 (EST)

Oh, the weather outside is frightful, and the fire is so delightful... A Christmas Carol, indeed! The words hold very true today here in Denver! It IS Spring; someone just forgot to tell Mother Nature! One good thing about our grand adventure that we are on is that I did not HAVE to go anywhere today and have just hung out with Nic all day long. The excruciating boredom (no offense to my dear husband, but he is not a very interesting conversationalist of late) was relieved in the late afternoon when our friend Kevin came up from their second floor loft to watch a little March Madness with Nic and I. We had a little wine and ate a few unhealthy snacks, and now Nic is in bed, Kevin went back downstairs and I am finishing my day in the usual way by writing an update! I let Henry, our nurse o'the day go home early today. The lovely man is from Indonesia and is new to Colorado. He has never driven in this much snow before, so I thought leaving before it got dark would be a good idea! Joseph, the night nurse arrived safe and sound even though he is a native of Nigeria! Henry and I got Nic in the standing frame today and he did just fine. Nic was a little dull today... perhaps a whole day with his wife was a little too much fun?!!! Anyway, the day was just fine, we're safe and warm, and hope you can say the same! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-25 23:58:01 (EST)

Greetings, all! A big day today, as we had our preliminary meeting with Dr. Mouchantat, the plastic surgeon who will give our Nic the gift of a forehead on April 7th. He is very excited about how wonderful the plastic forehead looks, and if he's excited, who am I to question that? We are to report to St. Anthony's Central Hospital by 6:00 A.M. on the 7th... hopefully it will be as terrific a Tuesday as yesterday was! Nic will be in the hospital for an undetermined amount of time. It will depend on how well he recovers, if Cerebral Spinal Fluid leaks from the site of entry, etc. Who knows what will happen? I guess it is another one of those unknown factors which has governed our lives for the past 18 months. We have learned to be VERY flexible- a good thing as we get older, right? That's what I keep trying to tell myself, anyway! Nic was very alert and responsive again today, and we had a fun evening with Carrie, Brian and Carrie's roommate Lauren. Carrie fixed an delicious dinner, we had a little wine, and now it's time to call it a night! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-24 22:52:41 (EST)

Today has been a pretty Terrific Tuesday. Not really eventful in the grand scheme of things, but the simple pleasures of seeing Nic trying to speak again, looking at a magazine or even just helping transfer from bed to wheelchair is enough to make me shed tears of joy! After a shower this morning we hung out for awhile until Carrie came over. We had a bite to eat, and Nic ate some cheese and crackers and a couple of shrimp. What does that lady at the Swallow Study know?!!! We got Nic up in the standing frame for a half hour or so and he did very well. His neck is still giving him a few problems, and his head hangs more as he gets more weary. Hopefully that will continue to improve, too! Holly came by for speech this afternoon. She did some electronic stimulation on his neck to try to stimulate more swallowing. The jury is still out on whether or not that will help. Andy came by after work today and Nic was glad to see him... so was I! He had to leave to play softball- how many of you reading this used to play softball with Nic back in the day? Those were some fun times. There will be more fun times ahead; I feel really confident about that! Hope your Tuesday was Terrific, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-03-24 00:09:28 (EST)

Monday has come and almost gone, and I can happily say that it has been our best Monday in at least a month! The morning began with another airport trip- this time Bethany is on HER way to California for Spring Break. She'll have a great time! Carrie arrived at the loft and we took off for Swedish Hospital for Nic's Swallow Evaluation. It didn't go too well- the pathologist who administered the test said that Nic's swallow was not so good. We did, however find joy and happiness in our visit to Craig Hospital while we were at Swedish (the two hospitals are connected by an underground tunnel!). It was great to see everyone, and Dan, the Guru of the Gym at Craig even fixed Nic's brakes on his wheelchair! Was a trip to two hospitals enough for Nic Classick? NO! We then dragged Nic to do a little shopping at Costco, or "Combat Shopping" as Nic always has said. We tooled him around and down each and every aisle, and Nic even seemed to enjoy it! Then, just to prove the lady at Swedish Hospital wrong, he ate half of a frozen-yogurt-and-berries sundae in the lovely Costco Foodcourt- only the best for the Big Guy! We will continue to work on his swallow at home in the weeks ahead, and get Nic back to eating regularly again. The rest of the day was fairly uneventful except for a half hour in the standing frame. Nic's attitude and spirits have been very good, and smiles and his famous "looks" are coming back. HOORAY!!! Thanks for tuning in and for cheering us on. Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-23 01:01:46 (EST)

Sunday night and all is well! I just returned from picking Andy and his friend Micky up from the airport. You will be happy to hear that they had a great time in Vegas! Bethany is staying here tonight in preparation for her trip tomorrow... another trip to the airport in the morning! I write this update tonight with a happy heart. Nic had a VERY good day today, and I could even say that he is ALMOST back to how he was before his hospital stays. Bettina the nurse and I got him up and showered this morning and Carrie and Brian came over soon after. They made a nice breakfast for all of us, and Nic even ate a few bites of real food! The first he's had for weeks, so it was pretty exciting. Next we got him up in the standing frame and he did so well with that! We were laughing because I told him he could finally look Brian in the eyes and check out his daughter's boyfriend face to face. He made a little scowling look at Brian as if to tell him he'd better watch his step! Nic's personality is definitely shining through again. For the rest of the day Nic watched the NCAA's and hung out with the kids and with Kim and Darryl. They were pretty tickled with how Nic was interacting today, too! I think that we have turned a corner again, and we couldn't be happier! Tomorrow we go to Swedish Hospital for a Swallow Study. They will X-ray video Nic swallowing a variety of things to make sure there are no problems or obstructions blocking his swallow. Hopefully that will be fine so that we can get back to one of Nic's favorite activities... EATING! Can a fine red wine be far behind??? We had a great weekend, and I hope that you all can say the same! Take care! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-03-21 22:52:22 (EST)

Greetings, all! It's Saturday night, Carrie and I are back from San Francisco, and Nic got along just fine without us while we were gone. Thursday Jim and Claud hung out with Nic for most of the A.M. hours. They were spelled in the early afternoon by Kim and Darryl, with Bret coming by as well. Before too long Bethany arrived... how lucky we are to have so many wonderful people to check in on Nic for us!! Beth spent the night here at the loft before she had to head by to Boulder on Friday morning for mid-terms. She's now on Spring Break and will head to Southern California on Monday for five days with a group of friends. Friday morning Larry came downtown to help with Physical Therapy. Later in the day our Kate came after school and hung out all evening with Nic... Wow! I don't think he even had TIME to miss Carrie and I, and boy did that make me happy! Carrie and I got back late last night and had a good and successful trip to the Bay Area. Thursday was really nice. We saw Viken, Trey, Lynn, Connor, and Steve. Kevin, Michele, Dave and Casey also came to see us, and it was wonderful to spend time with our San Francisco Oracle Angels. They were all such invaluable help to us when Nic was in the hospital there. That month seemed a lot less hellish because of all of them, and we will be forever indebted to them! It was beautiful weather in San Francisco, and we had a good visit. Today brought some quality time with Nic, some time with Carrie and Bethany, a little shopping and dinner out with Beth. The day flew by and now it's time to go to bed! We got Nic up in the standing frame today and he did very well. Hope your day went very well, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-19 00:50:40 (EST)

Good evening! I just returned from the airport, where I dropped Andy and some of his buddies off to fly to Las Vegas. Ahh, Vegas during March Madness and the NCAA playoffs. Better him than me, but he was sure fired up for it! They'll have a great time. Carrie and I are making a fleeting trip to San Francisco tomorrow to attend to a little business. We'll be back Friday night, so there won't be an update tomorrow... tune in Friday for News of Nic's Nation! While we're gone Nic will be in the capable hands of our nurses, Bethany, Kate and a myriad of amazing friends. He had another good day today, with standing and a tiny bit of walking happening in PT. He tried really hard, but it is going to take some time to get those legs strong again. OT brought a whole hour of massage and manipulation of Nic's neck, and he seemed to do a better job today of holding his head up. Dang this setback... it's so frustrating for us to see Nic have to fight back to where he was before the illness and hospital stay. He will do it, though... hasn't he fought with spirit and determination for the past year and a half? The man has spunk. Enjoy the end of your week, and I'll update again on Friday. Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-03-18 00:30:58 (EST)

Dare I say it? I think that Nic has finally, hopefully turned a corner today! By the time Andy and Kate arrived tonight after work Nic seemed to be more engaged, more energetic, and generally more Nic-like!!! It makes me very happy. Rich came today for Physical Therapy and worked hard to get the standing frame all set up for Nic. He stood for about 30 minutes and did quite well! Hopefully we can have him stand every day... it helps his muscles come back and is good for his body! Man was NOT meant to sit or lie down all of the time! Holly came for speech today. Nic was a little bit better during speech too! His swallow still needs lots of work- he's not able to eat anything by mouth yet until his swallow improves. We will set up another "swallow study" at one of the hospitals (outpatient, thank God!). Nic swallows some barium and they watch his swallow on an X-ray type thing. Carrie was by this morning to help with Physical Therapy and hang out with her dad. What would we do without our kids?! Hope that your St. Patty's Day was great! We can all us a little luck o' the Irish, right? Love, Chris and the O'Classicks

2009-03-17 00:33:51 (EST)

Happy Monday! It was a gorgeous day here today, and on a gorgeous day it's much easier to feel positive and upbeat, isn't it? Nic had no therapies today except for the workouts that Carrie and I gave him! We took him out for a long walk along Cherry Creek- there is a great path that winds its way through Denver and is all wheelchair accessible. They say Denver is the second most wheelchair accessible city in the world next to London. Who knew? Haven't we ALL learned a lot throughout this adventure?!! Nic made a few more baby steps toward recovery today, was up in his chair a little longer than yesterday and made a bit more effort to keep his head up and to interact with us. He's been sleeping a lot, so hopefully that means his body is working hard to make a comeback. Our former neighbor in Parker, Paula came to visit this morning. They live in Missouri now, so it was especially good to see her after a couple of years. We walked downtown and had a nice lunch- another fun thing to do on a beautiful day! Hope your day was a beautiful one, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-16 00:05:16 (EST)

Hope everyone out there had a great weekend! Ours was a good one, full of good friends and family. Yesterday was a whirlwind, today busy as well. I'm almost ready to call it a night! Karen, Bags and I went to Carrie's yesterday morning for a little brunch and St. Patrick's Day gathering. Denver has a pretty big parade, and although we didn't attend we enjoyed the pre-party! After a quick trip to the store we hosted Andy and Kate, Bethany, Kim, Darryl and Tom and Harold at the loft. Nic was up and semi-social... he still has a long way to go in his fight to recover from the past couple of weeks, but he's moving in the right direction. His sores he got in the hospital are basically gone... I'm definitely becoming a fan of home health care! Our nurses here work very hard to give Nic the very best care possible. Last evening Andy and his buddies went to the Nuggets game and Kate hung out with Bags, Karen and I. Kate spent the night here so she could play in a volleyball tournament today, so it was fun to have her hangin' with the old ladies last night. This morning we got Nic up and dressed and had Karen's husband and son, Rod and Fletcher come down from skiing. Carrie and Brian and Bethany joined us for brunch, then it was time to say goodbye to my dear friends. Nic was up for brunch and visiting this afternoon, and then again for a couple of hours this evening. He IS getting stronger and more responsive each day, and maybe after another week or so we'll be caught back up to where we were BEFORE our hospital adventures! Keep your fingers crossed for us, Okay? Thanks for hanging in there with us, dear friends and family! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-14 02:00:40 (EST)

T.G.I.F. to all! Today was a busy day, relatively speaking, for our Big Guy. He had a PT session with Rich bright and early this morning, and stood using the walker for the first time since his hospitalization. It appeared that it felt really good to Nic, and it was exciting for us to see! I got a call from our Home Health Care company this morning, and they told me that our home nursing has been approved until JUNE 30th!!!! What a relief, and what an amazing thing to start the weekend with!! Soon after that I was talking to our wonderful Social Worker from Craig Hospital, Melissa. We were discussing various things and the lack of standing frame came up. She then got on Craig's website to find that one had just been donated on Wednesday! Melissa ran downstairs where all of the donated items are, snatched it up and called me back. Bags, Karen and I drove right over to Craig and put it in the van to bring home. After a nice lunch with Melissa we came back and got Nic ready for his appointment with Dr. Spees. The good doctor listened to our issues, examined Nic and changed a few things in his medications. Carrie came along to the appointment, as well as our nurse Henry. The three of us managed to get Nic home safe and sound! While we were gone we came back to find Bags and Karen madly cleaning the loft. What a great surprise, and I'm not sure WHAT I ever did to deserve friends like them! After Nic got to bed the three ladies walked to a place close by to have pizza, then enjoyed a little couch and T.V. time. Now it's time to start all over again tomorrow! Until then, good night! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-13 00:52:01 (EST)

Another day gone by, another day of improvements for the Big Guy! Baby steps, to be sure, but definitely steps in the right direction. After a lazy morning we got Nic showered, dressed and he sat up in his chair for several hours. Our good neighbor friends Jim and Jackie came by for a little brunch and conversation... they even brought the scones! Nic sat at the table and really seemed to enjoy the conversation and be engaged- he even cracked a smile a few times. Nic went down for a nap and Bags, Karen and I made my thousandth trip to Target and then headed up to Boulder. We drove around campus and then toured the sorority house. Bethany, her friend Nicolette, the ladies and I headed out for drinks and appetizers, and Carrie's boyfriend Brian joined us, too! Carrie had a volleyball game so stayed in Denver, and she and her friend Megan were here entertaining Nic when we arrived home. A fun day, and a good day for Nic... FINALLY! Let's hope this trend continues in the right direction, and that tomorrow will be even better! We'll talk then! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-12 00:51:20 (EST)

As I sit down to write this tonight, I am feeling a little happier about Nic's progress. For most of the day Nic was a bit sluggish and unresponsive. He had PT and OT today, but it wasn't real easy to get him to respond. He DID stand a few times from his wheelchair in PT, and for most of the hour in OT Liliana worked out the kinks in Nic's neck and shoulders. We put him down for a nap, and Bags, Karen and I walked downtown for a little shopping and lunch. Carrie hung out with her dad while we were gone- always a good thing for Nic! After getting up from his nap today Nic seemed quite a bit more alert and responsive. He sat with us before dinner and seemed to be feeling better! Andy and Kate came by after work... Nic was very happy to see them, which could explain his improved attitude and demeanor! After a great visit Nic went to bed and the rest of us stepped out for a little dinner. While at dinner I ran into our old friend Dean's brother Dave! Hadn't seen him for twenty years or so, so that was fun! We spent the rest of the evening watching some T.V. and talking- lots to catch up on! Time to end the day... hope yours was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-03-12 00:51:13 (EST)

2009-03-11 01:21:37 (EST)

Hello all! Karen, Bags and I are ready to call it a night, Nic is in bed, and we enjoyed visits from a variety of great people tonight. Mike and Glen came by to say hi, some Oracle Angels in from out of town that we were very happy to see. Carrie and Bethany spent the evening, Carrie's roommate Lauren popped in, and we all enjoyed each other's company! Nic is still pretty tired out from his hospital adventure, but I am confident that each day will improve as his health and attitude improves. We have him home, which I am SURE will be the best medicine ever! Speaking of best medicine; having good, long time friends here to hold us up is better than any pharmaceutical ever invented! Tomorrow will be better, and, as Scarlett said "Tomorrow IS another day!" Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-10 00:28:58 (EST)

Two Mondays in a row we are celebrating "Nic Classick is Home Day". I don't think that the post office and banks have picked up on the new holidays yet, and as far as I know the New York Stock Exchange allowed all of us to lose some big bucks again today! BUT the Classick Clan is happy to celebrate the occasion ONE MORE TIME and Nic is back in his own little hospital bed with Nurse Joseph by his side. Nic has another feeding tube that was installed late this afternoon. No one at the hospital even looked at me sideways when I announced that we WILL be going home today... no matter how late! Linda, Paul, Carrie and I hung out with Nic most of the day. Because of the bad feeding tube he had basically no food, no water and no medicine all day today again. I wonder if they got the memo that all living creatures need food and water to thrive? Anyway, after waiting all day they finally took Nic in at about 3:30 to do the procedure. Because of the timing our dear Carrie drove Linda and Paul to the airport. It was wonderful to have them here, and I'm tearing up as I think how lucky we were in 1986 that Burroughs Corporation decided Nic Classick and Paul Weber were needed in Salt Lake City to be branch managers!!! What amazing friends. They did a few "honey-dos" for me, held me up when I needed it, and were my rocks as they have been for 23 years. Linda and I did not have time to explore many bottles in our search for the perfect Pinot Grigio, but never fear; we will strive on! Two of my oldest friends from home, Karen and Bags arrive tomorrow to continue the continuing saga of amazing friendships! Can't wait! We will all be working hard to get Nic over this latest hump and prepare him for the Bone Flap surgery on April 7th. We'll see if food and water here at home will perhaps perk him up! Do you think it might???? In the meantime, thanks as always for continuing to support our family by your thoughts and prayers. I'll say it again- We are the luckiest people in the world to have been thrust into this horribly unlucky situation!! Until tomorrow, we send you love and good wishes! The Classicks

2009-03-09 00:39:43 (EST)

It's Sunday night, Linda, Paul and I are having a drink before bed. Sadly, the Big Guy is missing in action once again. He is once again spending the night at our dreaded Presbyterian/St. Luke's Hospital. Nic seems to be doing a little bit better than yesterday. He has had no more episodes of diarrhea and vomiting, thank God! When we arrived at the hospital this morning we discovered that Nic's feeding tube had pulled out of his stomach once again! This is getting to be a regular thing, isn't it? Consequently Nic has had nothing to eat for an entire day again as we wait for the Interventional Radiology Department to come back to work tomorrow and fix the big mess that they made over a week ago. An ultrasound was done on Nic's belly today, but those radiologists don't work on the weekend, either! We have no results yet from that. The lab work from the suspected "c diff" bacteria was negative, so they are culturing it again to see what happens. When I left the hospital at 8:30 tonight Nic was resting comfortably and watching the Nuggets lost to the Kings... enough to make anyone want to feel ill! All the kids came by the hospital today, along with Kim and Darryl. Andy, Kate, Carrie, Brian, Bethany, Linda, Paul and I went out to a fun lunch on the patio at a local restaurant and had a good time despite the reason that we were gathered! We have learned throughout this adventure to grab moments of fun and laughter when we can and I must say I'm pretty proud of how we've kept our chins up most of the time! Whatever doesn't kill you DOES make you stronger!!!! Sleep well! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-08 00:02:55 (EST)

Well, this is getting a little repetitive. We took Nic back to the hospital ONCE AGAIN today. He was coughing a ton all night and this morning, then started vomiting again... very much like the girl in "The Exorcist". You know you have amazing friends when your company from Southern California are scrubbing puke off your area rug while you are scurrying around preparing for yet another hospital trip! Linda and Paul came to the hospital, along with Bethany, Carrie and Brian, Andy and Kate. They all waited in the waiting room while Nurse Melissa and I were in the Emergency Room with Nic. They are doing more blood work and tests. The good news is that by the time we got him to a room he had really perked up! We hope and pray that we can bring him back home tomorrow, and that today will be the VERY LAST of our hospital visits for a month. Bone Flap insertion a month from today, so keep your fingers crossed that we can keep him healthy and get him strong before then. After a little dinner out we are back at the loft, watching the news and getting ready to call it a night! A hot Saturday night, to be sure! Hope yours was better than ours! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-05 23:04:26 (EST)

It was a long day today at the Classick Corral, preceded by a long night. Just as I was ready to go to bed last night to be bright-eyed and bushy-tailed for my meeting this morning, our nurse Terry called me into the bedroom where Nic was resting. Nic's new tube had pulled out of the hole in his stomach, and Terry and I thought it best to have it checked out at the hospital. We loaded Nic in the van (sound familiar from two weeks ago?) and took Nic back to Presbyterian/St. Luke's Hospital. Even though I did NOT want to go back there, we thought it best to go to where the tube was put in last Friday. After a wait (it IS an Emergency Room, after all!) the Doc decided we should X-Ray Nic's belly to ensure that the other end of the tube was still where it was supposed to be- in his stomach and intestine. Thank Heavens it was fine! The Doc and Terry pushed the tube back in, it was secured with some tape and bandages and at 2:00 A.M. we made our merry way back to the loft. We've got to stop having these wild evenings! We got Nic back to bed around 3:00, I slept for a whole three hours and walked downtown for my meeting. I even arrived early! After lots of phone calls this afternoon, a visit from both Carrie and Bethany, and spending some time with Nic I am just about ready to retire and call Thursday a done deal. We will probably go back to the hospital next week and have the Interventional Radiologist check the feeding tube out. After our bad hospital experience I'm not too surprised that we are having problems with some of their handiwork! Nic was pretty sleepy again today, and was only up for about an hour and a half. Our dear Paul and Linda are coming tomorrow for a few days, so I am hoping and praying that their visit will perk Nic up! I am positive that it will perk ME up! Until tomorrow, take care of yourselves, and thanks, as always for your continued and loving support. Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-04 23:36:24 (EST)

Greetings to one and all! Another status quo day for the Big Guy. He perhaps is a tiny bit improved over yesterday, which is probably about all we can expect right now. His skin looks a little better, too- amazing what decent care can do, huh? Liliana the occupational therapist was here today and worked on Nic's poor neck for most of the session. Holly the speech pathologist came as well. She worked with Nic on swallowing and thinks that his swallow is a little better than we had thought. I guess that two weeks of not eating anything can wreak havoc with one's swallow! Andy and Kate came for dinner tonight and perked Nic up a little, but he was in bed for most of the day. A long hospital stay can wear anyone out, but for someone in Nic's condition it is even worse! I have a meeting in the morning, so will be out of contact from 8:00 until 12:00 or so. If you need to get ahold of me, try in the afternoon! This legal stuff and paperwork is going to get the best of me if I'm not careful and organized! Here's hoping tomorrow will be a tiny bit better than today... that's not too much to ask, right? I wish the same for all of you! Love, Chris and Company

2009-03-04 00:26:39 (EST)

Greetings to all from the comfort of our home! What a lovely thing to be able to say. Nic's day today was one of sleeping, getting plenty of fluids and starting on the road to recovery. We got him up and showered, then up again later in the day. Carrie was here early in the day and Bethany later in the day... Nic definitely perked up a little for his girls, but it's going to take some time to get him back to where he was! We did hear some good news today... Nic's new forehead will be put in on April 7th! Not quite the promise of "some time in February" that I heard a couple of months ago, but I guess April 7th is not that far away! Nic needs some time to get strong again before another hospital trip, anyway. Mark your calendars... we'll need lots of good thoughts and prayers on that day! It will almost seem weird to see Nic with a bone in his forehead again. Weird in a good way, though! Hope your Tuesday was a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-03-02 22:56:21 (EST)

Hooray, Hooray! I feel as if today should be one of our good old American holidays that fall on Mondays! It's Nic Classick Is Home Day! It was a lot of hard work, begging and being down right obnoxious, but at about 4:15 today we broke out of the hospital!!! I told the nurse this morning that we were leaving today if I had to assemble my own SWAT team of friends and family members. After a delay of only two hours and fifteen minutes Andy and I brought Nic home. Our nurse Bettina met us at home, and she and our Case Manager from the Home Health nursing company worked for the next three hours getting Nic settled, cleaned up and comfortable. The really good news was that they were able to give Nic the last dose of his I.V. antibiotic BEFORE we left, so we came home unencumbered and I.V. free! He will still have to be on an antifungal medicine for the yeast infection, but that will be administered through his feeding tube just like all of the other drugs. Right before we left today an executive from the hospital came in to ask me some questions about our stay... just a spot check about the care we recieved. I'm afraid I gave the poor man quite an earful!! He was probably kicking himself that he picked our room to "spot check", but maybe my criticisms will help someone else that doesn't have someone to advocate for them! I've said it before... don't mess with Chris Classick's people! Anyway, we are home, Nic is asleep in his own little hospital bed, our great nurse Terry is now on duty, and I am happier than I have been in three weeks! I swear Nic has gotten better just in the few hours we have been home, and God willing he'll bounce back from this fiasco quickly! Hope your Monday was AT LEAST as good as ours has turned out to be! Sleep tight! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-03-02 00:22:49 (EST)

Well, I was promised today by two different doctors that we could take Nic home tomorrow... let's hope that they are people of their word! After our not-so-great experience at this hospital I only hope that it ends well and we can start getting him better after his hospital stay! Sadly, his bottom looks worse than it ever has. It will take our group of dedicated Home Health care nurses to get that back to the pristine condition it was in 12 days ago! Tomorrow they are supposed to put a "pic" line in- kind of a fancy I.V.- so that we can continue to administer the I.V. antibiotics for a few more days after we break out of the hospital. I told one of the docs today that I think Nic is suffering from "hospitalitis"- it truly is no place to be when you are sick!!! He really was better today, however, and was a little perkier. Jim and Claud came for a visit today, as well as Harold, taking some time out from his busiest season as a CPA. Bethany brought my mom to the hospital to say goodbye, as I put her on a plane tonight to go back to Des Moines. It was sad to say goodbye, and I feel bad that Mom didn't get to see her favorite (and ONLY!) son-in-law do his therapies, etc. at home. Carrie is finally feeling a little better today, and she and Brian had lunch and hung out with Mom, Bethany and I a while today. Please join me in a fervent wish that by the time I send an update out tomorrow night our Nic will be in his own little hospital bed here at home with our nurse HERE by his side! Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-02-28 23:27:28 (EST)

Not much news tonight from the Classick crew... kind of a status quo day. My fears of last night were correct, and NO, we did not bring Nic home again. I had a difficult time getting anyone to commit to when that may happen... typical Saturday at a hospital. Probably the only highlight of the day was seeing one of the Speech Pathologists from Craig Hospital today! She works on Saturdays at Presbyterian/St. Luke's and worked with Nic today! My mom and Bethany came to the hospital for a while, and our friend Larry came to hang out a while, too. A mystery guest came by as well... all I know is it was a tall man! We were out getting a bite to eat. Thanks, whoever it was! Andy and Kate came to the hospital later and we once again enjoyed a nice dinner out with NO BIG GUY! I am getting very tired of that! Nic did seem just a tiny bit better today, so let's hope that trend continues tomorrow! Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-28 23:27:07 (EST)

Not much news tonight from the Classick crew... kind of a status quo day. My fears of last night were correct, and NO, we did not bring Nic home again. I had a difficult time getting anyone to commit to when that may happen... typical Saturday at a hospital. Probably the only highlight of the day was seeing one of the Speech Pathologists from Craig Hospital today! She works on Saturdays at Presbyterian/St. Luke's and worked with Nic today! My mom and Bethany came to the hospital for a while, and our friend Larry came to hang out a while, too. A mystery guest came by as well... all I know is it was a tall man! We were out getting a bite to eat. Thanks, whoever it was! Andy and Kate came to the hospital later and we once again enjoyed a nice dinner out with NO BIG GUY! I am getting very tired of that! Nic did seem just a tiny bit better today, so let's hope that trend continues tomorrow! Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-28 00:33:13 (EST)

Friday evening and I'm about to call it a night, but couldn't go to bed without giving you the scoop on Nic once again. He was just a little bit better today, and in general it was a pretty productive day for a guy who never got out of bed! Probably the most important thing that occurred today was that Nic's feeding tube was replaced. It was a procedure of less than an hour, and now Nic has a brand new tube that is going into the right places! Although the doc who performed the surgery was a lad of TWELVE or so, it went off without a hitch. Just as I was leaving the hospital to go out to lunch with my dear friend Carol and my mom, we heard that Interventional Radiology was ready for Nic. Carol drove all the way from Parker and took Mom out to lunch anyway... thanks, Carol! The infectious disease doctor came in today with some good news and some bad news. The good news is that the ecoli and pseudomonus bacterias in Nic's poor abused body is cleared up. Good drugs! BUT the bad news is that Nic now has a yeast infection... common after lots of antibiotics. He's on yet another drug to clear that up, so I'm pretty sure we will NOT be coming home tomorrow. Dang!!! With the new tube Nic is now back on tube feed and more water after four days of virtual starvation. More good news! As soon as Nic was out of the procedure today Carrie called. She has had a delayed attack of that horrible stomach virus Nic, Bethany and I had. I was hoping no one else would get it! After delivering a few things to her apartment I went back to the hospital until evening. Bethany and I entertained Nic for awhile, then she, my mom and I went for dinner and a little therapeutic shopping. All in all it was a decent day for the Big Guy... we'll hope for an even better day tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-02-26 23:41:50 (EST)

My mom and I just returned from a nice dinner out with Andy and Kate, Carrie and Brian, and Bethany... the only thing missing was our Nic! He had a little bit better day today, but sadly still has a long way to go. His skin issues have popped up again, and all of the hard work at home to clear up his bottom was for naught. That's pretty upsetting! Nic's feeding tube is not in the correct place into his intestines, so tomorrow he will probably have a procedure to get it back in the right spot. I had a little conference today with the Nurse Manager and the Patient advocate to voice some of my concerns with the care Nic has been getting. They tsked tsked in all of the right places... I know that I feel better getting it off my chest! The doctor told me today that we will try very hard to get Nic back home on Saturday, but I'm not really counting on it! Maybe if I'm not really expecting it, I'll be pleasantly surprised! The antibiotics are still plugging away, Nic should start getting a little more fluids, and hopefully tomorrow will be a better day. Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-26 23:41:43 (EST)

2009-02-25 22:54:07 (EST)

Well, I'm afraid that my excitement of last night was a little premature. Nic's improvements of yesterday were short lived, and he slid back to the previous days' tricks again today. He was pretty sleepy and nonresponsive again, and we are in the process of trying to figure out why. We had a consultation with a neurologist to see if he could get to the bottom of things. We also discovered today that they have been giving Nic his tube feed through the G tube instead of the J tube (they lead to different parts of his stomach and intestine) so that may have something to do with his not feeling well. Kinda scary that this happened in a hospital, huh? Anyway, needless to say we did not bring him home today, and tomorrow is starting to look pretty doubtful. Carrie is there with Nic right now, and they are going to do another chest X-ray to see if anyone can figure out what's going on. It's always something, isn't it? I guess that we just have to hope and pray that he is going to rally again, and that we'll have him home sooner rather than later. Send some good thoughts our way, please? Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-24 23:25:06 (EST)

Good news for Nic's Nation tonight! He made some amazing strides today in his recovery, and there is even a chance that we may be able to take him home tomorrow! His alertness and awareness improved by leaps and bounds today, and although we will have to take him home while still on IV antibiotics, that's what we have had nurses for at home, right? There was a bit of a scare today... they think there may be some sort of bacteria in Nic's blood. The infectious disease Doc came and talked to us, and he doesn't think it's anything to worry about. Dr. Blum is the father of Carrie's sorority little sis, and of course Beth knows her, too! Small world, huh? They are culturing the blood overnight and we will know tomorrow if it's concerning. BUT when I arrived at the hospital this morning Nic waved to me and gave me a little smile... just what the Doctor ordered for ME today! Jim and Claud came by this morning for a visit, and I came back to the loft for a while to work with Carrie on MORE paperwork. We're pretty organized now! Andy and Bethany both came by the hospital tonight after work and class, and Nic was very happy to see them. My mom is coming for a visit tomorrow! It will be great to have her here, and we're all excited for her visit. If we get Nic back home tomorrow it will be a FANTASTIC day! Our dear Linda and Paul will come again next week, and right after that the wonderful Karen and Bags will come. Are we lucky, or what? Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-23 22:39:41 (EST)

Hello, everyone out there in Support Circleland! Today was a status quo day for the Big Guy. He didn't show much improvement today, and we are still waiting for the drugs to kick in and start FINALLY making him better! They did move him to a larger room; he's now in room 1007. There's even room for TWO chairs! As far as I know Carrie and I were the only visitors today, so Nic had plenty of time to rest. An occupational therapist came in today and worked Nic out a bit, sat him up at the edge of the bed and woke him up a little! I had to be gone for an appointment in the middle of the day, and worked on some of the mountains of paperwork that has been piling up! Life goes on, even if your loved one is sick! Hope your Monday was a productive one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-22 23:59:18 (EST)

Sunday night, Nic is out of the ICU and into a regular room! He has made a little bit of progress, is completely off the ventilator and is lying in bed just waiting for those good drugs to get rid of the infection that has wracked his body. A long and hard road so far, but Nic is navigating that road with his usual gusto. Sorry for the lack of update last night... I went home to Parker and couldn't get the internet to work! Yesterday brought visits from Pat, Darryl, Kim and Tom. How lucky we are to have friends like that! Carrie and Brian, Andy and Kate, and Bethany all hung out with Nic, too, which isn't easy in an ICU garbed in plastic gowns and vinyl gloves! Our old foes the psuedomonus and ecoli bacteria have settled in Nic's urinary tract. They're both resistant bugs that need a good whammy of I.V. antibiotics. Nic is also getting treatments of drugs directly into his lungs through a nebulizer. Now we just have to let them do their thing! I picked up Baxter and Wiggum, our grandpuppies last night and they spent the night with me in Parker. It's a comfort sharing our big bed with those two! This morning brought coffee with the Eightlfarts before heading to the hospital. Nic is still pretty out of it, but hopefully tomorrow will be better as he feels better and his usual drugs are introduced back into the mix. Harold came by today, as well as a showing by all of the kids again. Carrie, Brian and I went out for a nice lunch, and by about 5:30 tonight I was ready to come back to the loft and call it a day. I really miss Nic tonight; it seems like he has been gone forever! I guess it will be a few more days before he can get out of the hospital, so keep your fingers crossed that he continues to improve! Thanks for checking up on us... hope your weekend was a little more exciting than ours! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-21 00:44:48 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for, I believe, the 73rd time! Thanks, Bob, for the accounting help! I guess that we are all thanking God today, not just because it's Friday, but because Nic is getting better. He has made steady improvement this week, and has had no steps backward so far. The staff at Presbyterian/St. Luke's took him off the ventilator this morning for three hours. He did so well that they took him off again later in the day, and have also backed down on the sedative. I'm very happy about that, as it is the same sedative they gave him in San Francisco WHILE he was in a coma. I never really understood the logic in sedating a guy in a coma, but what do I know? Nic was a little more responsive today, and had his eyes open while responding with yesses and nos this afternoon. His lungs have shown a slight improvement; it will just take some time to make the infection leave his body. The "Intensivist" (better known as a doctor who specializes in Intensive Care) that is on Nic's case is Dr. Bodoni. The kids and I have been wondering where he is from, as he has a very unique accent. He sounds as if he should be doing a sketch on Saturday Night Live! Anyway, we found out today he is from Transylvania! Another interesting tidbit we have experienced while accompanying Nic on this adventure! It's not every day you meet a guy from the Land of Dracula. Harold came by today, all three kids of course, and our dear friend Kevin popped in as well. I write this tonight feeling a little better about things and a little less terrified about Nic's situation. Hopefully tomorrow night will bring an even better feeling! In the meantime, keep sending those thoughts and prayers... the Big Guy can use a little help from his friends! More tomorrow, Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-02-19 23:00:12 (EST)

Hi to all out there in "Nic's Nation", as our dear Marti said in her message tonight. I like that! If Hilary said it takes a village to raise a child, it surely is taking Nic's Nation to get all of us through this ordeal! I write this tonight feeling much better than last night. Nic looked much better today, if someone in an ICU with tubes down his throat can look better! He had a restful night, his vital signs have stayed steady and we just have to wait while the antibiotics, fluids and that great Nic Classick will to live all kick in! Carrie and I saw the chest X-ray today. His right lung is "whited out": a term that means it's pretty infested with nasty bacteria from the vomit aspiration. The respiratory staff took Nic off the ventilator for an hour today and he breathed just fine on his own. That's a good sign, and we'll take all of those that we can get! Labored breathing is very hard on the body, so he will stay on the ventilator most of the time for at least several more days. They lightened up on the sedative a bit, so he was more responsive today. He opened his eyes a little, squeezed hands and would slightly nod yes and no to questions. He is NOT in a coma, he is just very sedated so that his body rests and he doesn't try to pull out the ventilator or tubes. We think that he understands where he is and who we are, so that is another good sign! The kids were all there with me today, amazing people that they are!! This is a hard thing to take, but that little voice in my head that was screaming "oh my God, oh my God" last night is a little quieter today, and the despair level has dropped just a bit. Nic will prevail, and we will be back on the road to recovery once again; I feel that very strongly. Thanks for hanging in there with us! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-02-18 22:58:51 (EST)

Greetings to all this evening. Sadly, my optimism of last night did not hold true and Nic is now in the ICU at the hospital. His breathing became more and more labored today and the area of his missing forehead became a little swollen. After yet another CTScan of his head the docs do not think he has an infection in his head (thank God!) but feel he has aspirated some vomit and has pneumonia once again. This new development along with the heart history, UTI, compromised immune system because of the flu bug and year and a half of this grand adventure has landed him in the ICU. He is back on a ventilator, is sedated and is being pumped full of a broad spectrum of antibiotics. It is definitely a case of deja vu all over again, as he looks very similar to how he looked in the ICU at San Francisco General back in September and October of 2007. Extremely scary. Please keep the Big Guy in your thoughts and prayers as we navigate yet another hospital, another set of doctors and another rather large bump in the road that we have been traveling. We haven't come this far to have something like this set him back for very long, we hope! I'm home at the loft tonight and am heading to bed with dreams of arriving tomorrow to see an improved version of my dear, sweet husband. Goodnight! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-18 17:51:26 (EST)

2009-02-18 01:08:18 (EST)

A late update tonight from the Classick household! Unfortunately, I have just returned from Presbyterian St. Luke's hospital here in Denver. Nic is OK- just suffering from dehydration and a urinary tract infection. The flu bug that we have had around here took a little more out of the Big Guy than the average person... but when has Nic Classick EVER been average? We thought that we were hydrating Nic just fine, but the past two days he has become more and more lethargic, and this afternoon it started to scare me. I called the doctor's office and they said we'd better head to the hospital. We took him in the van, spent a fun five hour stint in the emergency room and finally got him to a room at about 9:30 this evening. They started an IV of fluids and of an antibiotic, and he was already starting to perk up after a couple of hours. Just another bump in the road on this grand adventure, right? Add another hospital to our list! They are keeping him overnight, but I am hopeful that he'll get to come back home tomorrow. Last night Carrie made a flying trip to Boulder to get Bethany... she is down with the flu and passed out. I had to leave my baby girl here in bed and headed out with Nic to the hospital, where Andy, Carrie and Brian met us this afternoon. Beth is feeling a little better tonight, and I finally can walk across the room without feeling as if I might pass out! Bad stuff! I wouldn't wish this crap on my worst enemy... not EVEN the Doctor at St. Anthony's who admonished me NOT to stick my finger in Nic's trach hole all of those months ago! Haven't we got some fun stories to share? I will get on tomorrow night and let you know how Nic is doing... we ALMOST made it four whole months here at home without any medical emergencies! That's looking on the bright side, right? Thanks, as always for your love, your support, your prayers, and your good wishes. Love to all from Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-15 22:20:30 (EST)

Not exactly how I was picturing the Sunday night after Nic's birthday celebration. You will be happy to hear that we are both still alive but still feeling pretty bad. I think that the worst is over for me, but Nic has just begun the messiest part of the stomach flu, or whatever it is plaguing us! Thanks for all of your messages of support and for all of the birthday wishes for Nic. Hopefully we will be able to reschedule the party for a later date, and that we both we be better tomorrow! Stay healthy! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-14 15:48:53 (EST)

To those planning to attend the open house for Nic's birthday on Sunday, 2/15, we will have to postpone the celebration until a further note. The flu has struck the Classick home, leaving both Nic and Chris sick and in bed. Thank you to everyone who sent Nic birthday wishes!! Nic's 55th birthday open house is CANCELED!

2009-02-12 22:45:53 (EST)

Goodness! Thursday night already. These days just fly by, and most nights I'm a little frustrated that I haven't gotten everything I wanted to do accomplished. Today, however I feel pretty good about things! Carrie spent most of the day helping me wade through the mountains of paperwork that this adventure has thrust upon us. I feel fairly well organized and good about the day's events! Nic had no therapies today, so he hung out with us for most of the day. Henry the nurse took Nic out for a long walk and they enjoyed the fresh air. Henry and I also stood Nic using the grab bars we installed in the bedroom doorway. We were a little frustrated because Nic seemed to be having a hard time standing. After the second try I looked down and realized Nic still had the wheelchair seatbelt on! No wonder! After a good laugh, we told Nic to yell at us next time that happened! Bethany came down from Boulder after her classes today. The girls, Nic and I had some good family time and a nice dinner together. How special small things like that seem now! Family dinners at home two nights in a row. Aren't we lucky? Nic did a little voicing today, and even showed us a little of that funny, Nic Classick attitude tonight. Remind me some day that I once ENJOYED getting a little attitude from my husband! We watched CSI tonight before Carrie left for her volleyball game, and for the first time in a long time Nic seemed to really watch and enjoy a show on television. Another good, normal event! Hope your day was good and normal, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-11 23:53:27 (EST)

Greetings to all of our wonderful supporters out there in Support Circleland! This Hump Day was a good one, with Nic walking the furthest distance EVER in PT this morning! I feel a little like I did when Andy took his first steps at the babysitter while I was at work 26 years ago. I was at my hair appointment and missed him walking about 100 total feet! Our friend Bruce was here helping; I'm very glad he was here but I'm so sorry I missed it! According to our nurse of the day, Bettina, Nic had a good session of OT today as well. When I got back to the loft this afternoon we got Nic up from a nap, got him showered, and had dinner with Kate and Andy. Carrie came by later to complete a great day. As I've said before, Nic is at his very best when the kids are around! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-10 23:28:27 (EST)

I'm on the couch watching the snow fall and thinking that I wish I was on a beach somewhere, lying on a chaise lounge next to my husband! As far as Colorado winters go, this one hasn't been too bad, but I can dream, can't I? Our Tuesday was fairly status quo. No really exciting events, but nothing tragic either! There have been days throughout this adventure that I would have been THRILLED to report that news! Nic did some walking today in PT, and is starting to get the idea of shifting his weight from side to side while taking steps. That's a big deal, according to Rich the PT! We hung out for most of the afternoon until we had a visit from our friends Bruce and Lynn. Lynn brought some delicious pumpkin bread... we'll have more for breakfast tomorrow! Bruce is going to come back in the morning to help Rich with Physical Therapy, since I am actually going to take some time to go to Parker, get my hair cut and have lunch with four of my friends. It should be good for the soul. It should DEFINITELY be good for those who have to look at me every day! No news on the Bone Flap surgery yet. Maybe tomorrow? Hope that your Tuesday was terrific! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-10 00:25:56 (EST)

Happy Monday to all! We truly hope that your week has started out well. It was an average day around the Classick household today. We roused Nic out of bed, gave him a shower and got him ready for OT. He and Liliana had a good session working out his upper body. She continues to be pleased as his muscle strength improves. I really noticed tonight how much better his control of his arms is. While eating dinner tonight he made it to his mouth with the spoon in his hand every time! Who would think we would be rejoicing over an accomplishment like that? Nic seems to be enjoying his food a little more, which means that I'd better start doing a little better when it comes to cooking! I must say I'm out of practice. It's like riding a bike, right? I made one of my bi-weekly trips to Target today while Nic was sleeping, and ran a few other errands. Later this evening our Oracle friend Glen came to visit from Salt Lake. It was great to see him! That's about it for news today... hope all is well with you and yours! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-08 22:19:45 (EST)

Today was truly a Classick day! We spent the morning being a little lazy, as I went back to bed after the nurse's shift change at 7:00. Nic slept in, too! Bethany, finally feeling better, spent most of the day with us, doing laundry, having lunch and hanging with her daddy. The third and fourth brothers of the Classick Four came by and spent most of the afternoon. Harold, Craig, their kids Nick, Sheridan and Brooks entertained us for several hours. All we were missing was Chuck... I'm sure he would have loved to be with us, but Springfield, Missouri is a little far to drive for a Sunday visit! Because of all the activity Nic missed his nap again today, but did quite well! The brothers helped me stand Nic for awhile, and he stood strong and straight. Those legs of his are getting sturdier every day. Tomorrow begins another week of therapy and hard work, and we HOPE to hear about the surgery! Keep your fingers crossed that we get some news! Hope your weekend was grand! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-02-07 22:48:24 (EST)

Hello to all on this Saturday night! We had a great day around the Classick Condo today, and Nic is already in bed recovering! He is nodding off to one of his favorite things on T.V.- NCAA basketball! A year ago we would leave basketball on T.V. hoping that the squeaking sound of the shoes on the court would somehow wake Nic up out of his coma. Now he actually watches and enjoys the games! Our day today was filled with family and friends... the best kind of day! Carrie and Brian arrived first, followed by Kim, Darryl and Tom. Kim, Darryl and I took Nic down the street for a nice lunch (Thanks, Tom!) and I think they were pleased with how well Nic managed his food. It was fun! As soon as we arrived home Larry and Carol arrived, then Andy and Kate popped in. After some visiting time we watched a basketball game of Andy's from several years ago, then some more games on T.V. Poor Bethany has had a terrible cold for the past few days and hopes she will feel well enough to come see us tomorrow! While Larry and Carol, Andy and Kate were here we helped Nic stand several times. He stood straight and tall for a solid TWO MINUTES! Very exciting. Carrie popped back in for a while this evening, and as soon as the kids left it was time for bed for the big guy. A very good day, indeed! Hope yours was, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-07 22:48:16 (EST)

2009-02-06 21:51:21 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the millionth time, it seems to me! One of these days I'll figure out how many weeks we have spent on this grand adventure... tonight my mind just isn't up to it! Today was a pretty good day for Nic, and right now he and I are watching our Denver Nuggets beat the Washington Wizards. It's just the two of us tonight, excepting Nurse Joseph, who is in the bedroom preparing medicines for Nic's nighttime regime. I guess we are used to having the nurses around all the time, and I am EXTREMELY thankful for them! This is a lot of physical work, even with nursing help. You might all be sending ME messages in care of the Looney Bin if we were doing this alone! BUT it beats the heck out of the hospital, and we are fortunate that Nic (knock on wood) has had no medical emergencies or real problems since we've been home. The highlight of the day today was a visit from our Oracle Angel Toby. He had a business meeting here in Denver and worked his flights so that he could visit us! Toby, his wife Kori and their cute son T.J. came to visit us at San Francisco General nearly every evening for the month we were there and truly earned the title of Oracle Angel. What would we have done without that great group of Bay Area Angels all those months ago? Anyway, we had a nice visit with Toby and Nic had OT while he was here. PT also came today for our usual walking session. Nic seemed a little tired during the session, but kept trying really hard anyway! After a nap this afternoon he has been much more lively, and sitting here watching the game seems like such a nice, normal activity! Hope that your weekend is full of nice, normal activities. Drop us a message when you have a minute! We miss hearing from you! Take care, Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-02-06 00:43:45 (EST)

A quick update before bed tonight! It's been a long day, Nic is already asleep and I am not far behind! I needed to run to Parker today for an appointment and also had a whole lot of errands to take care of. I had lunch with Andy and changed a bunch of lightbulbs, flushed toilets and ran water in the sinks at the Parker house, and rushed back downtown. What an exciting life I lead! Nic was under the watchful, competent care of Henry the nurse while I was gone. He just had Speech Therapy today, and Henry took Nic out for a long walk in our 67 degree sunny weather! Our old Unisys and Oracle friend Jim made a quick trip to see us during a layover on his way back to Portland. It was great to see him, and it was so sweet of him to make the effort. Carrie spent the evening with us tonight before her late night volleyball game. We had dinner here, watched a little T.V. and had a good visit. Tonight not only did Nic know my name was Chris, he rattled off lots of details of our wedding in 1979... location, best man and matron of honor's names, honeymoon in the exotic Ozarks! Isn't that something? The brain is an amazing and complex thing, that's for sure! As I keep telling Nic, we have the rest of our lives for me to help him remember things. Along the way we are so very lucky to have all of you in our corner, cheering us on and lending your support. We can never thank you enough! With love and gratitude, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-02-05 00:35:29 (EST)

Good evening! As I hoped last night, Nic had a much better day today. He was rarin' to go for his 9:00 PT session and walked about 60 feet today, straightening his legs, moving his feet and continuing to learn what seems to us an easy task all over again! It's getting a tiny bit easier each time as the brain, the body and the willpower all work together! OT brought lots of work on Nic's arms, shoulders and neck. Liliana feels that he's showing lots of improvements in those areas as well! Speech has not gone quite as well. The voice just doesn't seem to want to come. It's probably due to his brain injury not letting him initiate speech and is probably NOT a problem with his vocal chords or ability to form words. Maybe the Bone Flap surgery will help that, as the brain SHOULD behave better when it is surrounded by cerebral spinal fluid properly. That's the theory, anyway, if the surgery EVER happens! Nic's memory is definitely a little spotty. Yesterday he thought my name was Diane, today it was Patricia. However, when Andy asked him if he remembered where Adrian Dantley (former NBA star and current Nuggets assistant coach) went to college, Nic piped right up and whispered "Notre Dame" without hesitation! Go figure. Andy spent the evening with us tonight, watching an old Mesa State Basketball DVD and then the Nuggets game. Bret also came by this afternoon to spend some time. It was a great day! Love, Chris and family

2009-02-05 00:35:21 (EST)

2009-02-04 00:42:52 (EST)

Tuesday night already! These weeks seem to be flying by. We had very warm weather again today and I walked downtown TWICE- once for lunch with our friend Pat and once to do a little shopping with Bethany! It feels like such a bonus to be walking outside in Denver in February, and an even bigger bonus to be coming back home to my husband! Nic had a pretty lazy day with only Physical Therapy. He had a bit of difficulty standing today... don't exactly know why, but hopefully he'll do a little better tomorrow. He has all three therapies tomorrow, so he needs to bring his A game! Nic seemed a little down today, again for no apparent reason except for the obvious ones... can't talk, can't walk, need help doing just about everything! I guess that he deserves a down day now and then! As Nic's mood goes, that's how mine goes, too. I'm glad that Bethany was with us this afternoon and evening to cheer us up! I also found out tonight that our friend Toby will pop in to see us on Friday, and that Karen will be back in March for a few days. It's good to have things like that to look forward to! Maybe we'll also find out about the Bone Flap Surgery in the next few days. I'll keep you updated about that, and about all of the steps, big and small in this grand adventure! Enjoy a Wonderful Wednesday! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-03 00:36:51 (EST)

Happy Groundhog Day! As a former Kindergarten teacher, it was a big day for the kids, and then for our three kids. Sad to say I don't even know as I write this if the cuddly old fellow (the groundhog, not Nic!) saw his shadow or not! I'll have to check it out when I finish this. It was kind of a blah Monday around here today. Nic just had Speech today and even that was a bit uneventful! I ran a couple of errands this afternoon while Nic napped, and just as the day was looking really blah our friends Gale and Beth popped in! They were headed to the Avalanche game and stopped in to say hi before the game. What a great surprise! It was good to see them and it reminded me to remind all of you how much we enjoy company. If you're ever in the area feel free to pop in! Talk to you Tuesday! Love, Chris and Company

2009-02-02 00:43:35 (EST)

Happy Super Bowl Sunday! Congratulations to all of those Steelers fans out there... I must admit that Nic and I were rooting for the Cardinals... hard to ignore a quarterback who played at our Alma Mater, University of Northern Iowa. It was a great game, however! I just went back to Super Bowl Sunday of 2008 and read the update from that day. We have come a long way from sitting in Nic's hospital room at Kindred! I was so excited that Nic appeared to be trying to catch conversation and lifted his hand as if to try to shake our friend Jim's hand. We spent tonight with the same wonderful, loyal friends as last year... Jim, Claudia, Carol and Larry. This year, however, I drove Nic to Carol and Larry's house, he ate dinner by himself and truly watched the game! We got Nic into their house with no problems and had a really nice evening. I left Nic watching the game and took Jenni to the airport to fly back to Des Moines. I was sad to have her leave- we had a good time! How lucky we are to have such wonderful friends. Carrie, Brian and Bethany came by today for a visit before our trek to Parker for the game. It's always good to hang out with them! I must say that I'm feeling pretty proud of Nic and I tonight. We left Larry and Carol's house by ourselves, got back to the loft, unloaded Nic from the van and got up to our front door ALL BY OURSELVES. This tells me that many more outings are ahead for us, and that we can do it without any help! It's a good feeling to feel independent. Keep your fingers crossed as next week begins that we will hear some more details about the Bone Flap surgery... especially a small detail like the date that it will happen! It's February now... I was promised that it will happen in February! Until tomorrow, Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-02-01 01:00:25 (EST)

Saturday night and all is well! Jenni and I are back at the loft after a delicious Mexican dinner with Carrie, Brian and her roommate Lauren. What a fun evening! We took Nic over to Carrie's apartment for a drink and a little socializing. We brought Nic back home- it was a little late for him!- and headed out for dinner. A tiny skin issue has reared its ugly head (or more appropriately, BUTT!) again, so we have limited his time in the chair today. Bethany came down and went for lunch and a little shopping with Jenni and I this afternoon, and spent some quality time with her daddy. Harold and Nick also came by this afternoon for a visit and spent several hours with us. This morning Darryl and Kim arrived for their usual Saturday visit, and Nic held court around the table. Won't it be fun when he can tell us some of his famous stories again?!! Hope you noticed the new photos on the home page of this site. Bethany posted a few of our latest shots. You can see Nic's improvements, can't you?!! Nic and Andy are at the Nuggets game last week, Nic and I together at Thanksgiving, and several of Nic and crew when the Runcheys were visiting from Australia. I think that my favorite is the one of Nic, Bill and Andy standing. They were having a lot of fun! Nic loves standing with tall people on either side, and it's even better when the tall guys are your beloved son and your best friend from college! We hope that your weekend has been a good one so far... just like ours! We'll talk tomorrow after the Super Bowl. Until then, Love, Chris and The Classick Crew

2009-01-30 01:20:39 (EST)

Time once again to call it a night, but I couldn't go to bed without sending you all a quick note. I picked up Jenni from the airport this evening and we have been jabbering on the couch for the past couple of hours. It's so fun to have her here! Nic had an OK day today. He seemed a little blah today for no apparent reason. I guess we all are allowed to have days like that! He only had speech today with Holly, and she is getting a little frustrated, I think that Nic has not made much progress with the voicing. Tomorrow is another day! Bethany came down from Boulder this evening and had a nice time with her dad. We just hung around here and talked, and by the time she left she had Nic in a better mood! Let's hope tomorrow he's in a good mood ALL day! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-29 00:36:37 (EST)

Hump day is over, it's supposed to be warming up around here, and Nic had a good day. That's life in a nutshell around here! Our friends the Runcheys in Australia emailed me about the awful heat they're enduring downunder- what a difference half a world makes! It was a busy day around the loft. We drug Nic out of bed at 7:30 this morning, got him showered and dressed and he started PT at 9:00. He was very alert and happy today, so I'm thinking maybe we should roust him out of bed early more often! Nic spent nearly the whole hour of PT walking today. It's a ton of work and takes every bit of concentration that Nic can muster, but he seems to enjoy the challenge. His legs and arms are getting so much stronger! After a short break OT arrived. She worked Nic's upper body out for her assigned hour and Nic gave it his all once again. Jim and Claud arrived with lunch to share, and we had a great visit. They even heard some voice when Nic was telling them goodbye! Holly worked with Nic in Speech before Nic went down for a much deserved nap. Andy soon arrived before his business dinner downtown, we got Nic up, then Carrie popped in for a visit. Andy just left again to make his way home, I'm writing this and then I'm going to bed! My good friend Jenni is coming from Des Moines tomorrow for a long weekend. She's been my friend since second grade and I can't wait to see her and spend some "girl time". Can't think of too many people who know me better than she does! I think she still even likes me! We'll talk again tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-28 00:49:52 (EST)

Greetings to everyone on this very cold Tuesday night! I am bundled up on the couch with a fire going, and I'm still cold! It was a fairly uneventful day here today, with Nic only participating in one therapy... PT. I was actually up in Boulder with Beth during PT, but Henry the nurse said it went well and Nic did a little standing. Always a good thing! I spoke with the Marvelous Melissa, our social worker at Craig Hospital today. She has found us a donated standing frame that we can use for Nic here at home! Isn't she something! It's coming from Alaska, and should be here late this week or early next week. This means that we can stand Nic every day, therapists or not! This will, I think, mean a lot in his road to walking again. Some of the great folks at Oracle heard that the big T.V. at Craig was on the blink, and Oracle Angel Tammy worked at the Denver office to raise money for a new one through the Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund. Now the patients will have a T.V. in time to watch the Super Bowl on Sunday! Amazing, heartwarming and SO COOL. The kindnesses, large and small that we have witnessed throughout this adventure keep me in constant awe. What wonderful people have graced our lives... including YOU! Enjoy your day tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-01-28 00:49:42 (EST)

2009-01-27 00:34:11 (EST)

Hi to all! Just checked the messages and am in awe of the people who continue to send their cheers and good wishes to Nic and our family. Bless you all, and I only hope that we can somehow be worthy of the dedication and love that you have given us over the past 16 or so months. We are so very lucky to be able to count each of you among our legion of family and friends. I just returned from a lovely dinner with our Ponz. She popped up to the loft for some time with Nic, and then she and I went out to dinner. We didn't take Nic with us tonight, (it was a little late for our early-to-bed-for-now guy), but it was great to see her and especially to see she and Nic bond and enjoy each other's company! We had OT and Speech today, and the sessions went very well. I do think that sometimes Nic is holding back a bit in Speech, but in OT and PT he usually tries his very best! Liliana, the OT is very excited about Nic's improvements in his upper body strength, and I can even see it in his body. His shoulders and neck are looking much stronger and more muscular, and he is rarely seen hanging his head anymore. Hooray! Nic and I even did a little dancing this evening to one of our favorite CD's... Earth, Wind and Fire. He has some rhythm! I asked him tonight why he doesn't smile more, since he has so much to be thankful for and to be happy about. He quickly pointed to his heart. I asked him if he meant that he was smiling inside, and he nodded his head emphatically. Hopefully the smiles inside will soon transfer on a regular basis to his face. I miss those smiles and that signature Nic Classick animated face! It will come back in time; I'm confident about that! It is getting better all the time. Hope your Monday was a good one! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-01-26 00:36:42 (EST)

Sunday night and another weekend has passed. Time does fly by! We began our morning with a big breakfast attended by Andy, Kate, Carrie, Brian, Nic and I. Another nice, normal Sunday activity! We stood Nic and tried some walking today, and he seems to be pretty proud of himself! Having Andy and Brian, 6'8" and 6'5" respectively on either side of him seems to help as well- they can really support him up high where he is! Later in the afternoon our friends Nina, Matt, Doug and their granddaughter Kaiya paid us a visit. Nic seemed pretty happy to have a baby in the house! Later our friend Pat popped in- another fun surprise! The highlight of the day for Nic was going to the Nugget/Jazz game with Andy. We were big Jazz fans when we lived in Salt Lake, and Andy knew every player and stat by the time he was five! Tonight, however they were both cheering the Nuggets on to victory. What a wonderful thing for my guys to be able to go to a game together once again. It warms my heart to see the two of them hanging out! Carrie and Brian took me out to dinner so that I wouldn't be lonely while Nic was gone, and we had a great time, too. What a wonderful day! Enjoy your Monday! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-24 22:51:41 (EST)

It's the end of a good Saturday around our house, and we hope that you can say the same! I went back to bed this morning after the nurses' sheft change and didn't get up until 8:30! It felt like a week's vacation at a fancy spa. After a shower and shave King Nic was ready to greet his loyal subjects. Tom, Carol and Larry all came by before the kids made their appearances. Carrie, Brian, Gabby, Bethany and her friend Marissa arrived, as well as Andy. We had NCAA Men's basketball on the tube all day while we visited, ate and hung out with Nic. It was pretty lazy for him today with no therapies, but we all need days like that! Joseph the nurse and I just got Nic to bed, and he's sleeping like a baby already. Andy and Nic are going to the Nuggets/Jazz game tomorrow afternoon, so that will be a fun time for both of them! I'll give you an update on that adventure tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-01-24 22:51:26 (EST)

2009-01-24 00:39:59 (EST)

Happy Friday! I just returned from having dinner with the wife of one of Nic's roommates at Craig Hospital. She had not seen Nic since we left there on October 17th, so was SO THRILLED with the progress she saw in Nic this evening! We always kept an eye on each other's husbands while in the hospital, and Nic was very excited to see her tonight. It was fun for me to see her reaction to Nic, and I think it made her a little less frightened to be taking her husband home to Boulder on February 4th or so. It made me realize that she's right... Nic HAS come a long way! Today was a pretty uneventful day with no therapies and no visitors. I was in Boulder this morning for an appointment with Bethany, then just hung out with Nic this afternoon. We've been watching some old videotapes of the kids to try to jog some memories. It's fun for me... hopefully Nic's enjoying it, too! Today's tape was our house in California and our first Christmas there, including a trip to Disneyland with my parents. Great memories! I'm not sure how much Nic is remembering, but as I've said before, we've got the rest of our lives for me to catch him up on old memories! Tonight was fun getting out for dinner. It's good to talk to someone who has walked in my shoes for the past year or so. She definitely understands the ins and outs of this adventure! Hope your weekend is a great one! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-23 00:14:39 (EST)

Is this getting boring to be reading day after day that Nic is improving and had a good day? Hope not! It's certainly not boring for the Classick Crew! We had a great PT session again today, with Nic walking about 40 feet again. He seems to be getting a more natural at moving his feet, shifting his weight and taking his little, sliding steps. We put his "work" shoes, leather-soled loafers on him so that his feet will slide better on the wood floor. He popped right up off of his wheelchair today, with PT and then again showing off in the doorway for Carrie and Brian this evening. They came by before and after Carrie's volleyball game. Nic is always so excited to see the kids! My friend Judy came downtown today for a visit and lunch. She even got to go to the Target that I seem to freqent three or four times a week to pick up prescriptions! It was good to see her. I am going to try to get out a little more now that I am feeling more comfortable with the nurses and especially now that Nic is doing better each day. A Bone Flap update: The prosthetic Bone Flap is finished, in Denver and ready to be "installed". The company representative is supposed to be arranging things with United Health Care (wish him GOOD LUCK!) and we should be getting things scheduled soon. Soon is a relative term, but the nurse at the plastic surgeon's office told me the surgery SHOULD happen in February. I sure hope so! Time to call it a night! Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-01-22 00:35:03 (EST)

Happy Hump Day to all! We had a good day today around the Classick Corral. Nic did some more standing today in PT, using the rigged up doorframe. He showed off again this afternoon for Andy, Kate and Bethany when they arrived for their visit. We went out for dinner and took Nic. What a simple delight, to hop in the car, take your family to a restaurant and enjoy a meal together! We will have to work a bit on Nic ordering more quickly. He looks and looks at the menu. Maybe it's just so amazing to him that he gets to choose what's coming for him to eat after so much time in the hospital! If you would have told me a year ago that slow ordering in a restaurant would be a problem, I never would have believed you! I never allowed myself to even DREAM that going to a restaurant would ever happen! What a difference a year makes. I have spoken with the wives of Nic's two roommates at Craig Hospital over the last few days. Sadly, their husband's improvements do not equal Nic's, so I am feeling pretty blessed and lucky this evening. We could have never come this far without your love and support, so thank you again for that! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-21 18:18:54 (EST)

2009-01-20 23:09:52 (EST)

Happy Inauguration Day! I must admit that Nic and I watched quite a bit of the festivities, hoping for a glimpse of our friend Tom or our niece Chelsea (Chuck's daughter), both attending in D.C. One of Nic's best jobs of voicing came this morning after watching Obama sign his official papers. I commented that I didn't realize Obama was left-handed, like my mom, Andy and me. Nic said "Did you see that he turned the paper when they handed it to him so that he could write better?" He said it with full voice, sounding just like the Nic of old! I guess that I will always remember this day because of that... no matter what happens with the Presidency!!! Nic also stood up today two different times using the new grab bars installed yesterday. With me in front of Nic holding on to the gait belt around his waist Nic can grab on to the bars, stand up and stay standing for two or three minutes! Very cool! We will do this every day so that Nic's strength continues to improve. Just as we were standing today our friend Bret came for a visit. I think he was pretty excited to witness Nic standing! He has been SUCH a faithful friend. We then took Nic out for a walk (almost 70 degrees and sunny here today!) around the Pepsi Center. Tonight we ate dinner, just the two of us, watched a little T.V., and reflected on the good day we had. Hope you had a good one, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-01-19 23:25:57 (EST)

Monday just flew by today. Henry the nurse helped me put some grab bars up in the guest room doorway so that Nic can use them to pull himself up. Henry did most of the work, and we tried them out when Rich the PT was here. I think that it will be a great way for Nic to strenghthen his arms and core muscles. United Health Care has decided that we do not need a standing frame such as Nic used at Craig. The $5000 price tag is keeping me from ordering one without the insurance... we'll keep you posted on that one! Speech and OT came today, too. Nic was pretty sleepy during speech today, but OT worked him out pretty hard before that! Nic walked again today in PT. He is getting the process figured out better and better each day, and is learning to recover and straighten his legs out when his knees start to buckle. He also did better today shifting his weight from side to side as he takes steps. It will take lots of practice and lots of new muscle development, but I KNOW it will happen eventually! Patience, patience! Bethany did not have classes today, so she came down from Boulder to hang out with us. We took Nic next door for a late lunch and Nic did really well! He's eating just about everything now, and is getting much better at managing his food. No more puree or chopped up stuff! It's time to say goodnight! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-19 00:39:19 (EST)

Just a quick note to say hi on this Sunday night. For those of you who have tomorrow off, have fun. For the rest of you who are working, sorry! Nic and I will have just a regular day of work, too. Denver has one of the biggest parades for MLK day- maybe we'll stroll on downtown to see it! Today was a fairly lazy day, and Nic seemed a little down. Andy was here this morning, Carrie and Brian came this afternoon and stayed for dinner. When Nic got up after a nap he was much more engaged and happy. Maybe we all just need a nap every day? That was about it for the day, besides a long walk outside. Our 60 degree sunny day was perfect for strolling outside, and I opened the windows for much of the day to air this place out a bit. It felt great! Hope your weekend was great, too! Love, Chris and Clan

2009-01-17 22:07:54 (EST)

Good evening to all! I'm not sure what happened to my update from last night... all that appeared was "Nic Classick". You KNOW that I wrote more than that! Anyway, yesterday was fairly uneventful, and I was feeling a little sorry for myself anyway! I just was remembering some of the fun Friday nights meeting friends, or just nights when Nic and I would hang out, have some wine and talk. I miss those nights, but I'm confident that we will have them again some day. I did a little therapeutic shopping yesterday afternoon and missed Nina, who stopped by to see Nic. Sorry, Nina! Today was filled with many visitors. It was like an impromptu party! First to arrive was Carrie, Brian and roommate Lauren. Bethany came next, followed by the ever-faithful Kim and Darryl. Andy and Kate joined the party, followed by our wonderful "outlaws", Kate's folks Cindy and Steve. Harold arrived, then Carrie's other roommate Gabby joined the crowd. Whew! Nic did a little standing and walking with a little help from the masses. It was fun to see everyone react to his walking! And we did it without the Physical Therapist! After all of the excitement of the day Nic was tired and happy, so is already in bed for the night. I love having people come by, and so does Nic. We all know what a social animal he is, and nothing has changed. Andy is at the Nuggets game right now with some of his buddies and will spend the night here tonight. He and Nic can take in a little sports on T.V. in the morning, just like old times. Life is good. Thanks for your constant and steadfast support! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-16 18:05:04 (EST)

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2009-01-15 23:46:51 (EST)

Gee, Thursday night already! Where DO the days go? We heard more voicing today from Nic. I so wish that we could always understand everything he says, but it is getting better each day. Nic told his nurse this morning all about some adventure he had with a guy named Benjamin. Hmmm. I have never met or heard of a Benjamin in the past 34 years that I have known Nic. Perhaps he is sneaking out at night and enjoying adventures with some new friends? Anyway, I am very happy that he is at least trying to voice more... no matter what he's saying! He was pretty sleepy in Speech today, so not much was accomplished. OT brought lots of work on Nic's shoulders and upper body. It's interesting to watch the different things the therapists come up with! I made a run to Costco today... Combat shopping, as Nic would say! Bethany spent the afternoon with us and had dinner before heading back up to Boulder, and Carrie stopped by a little while ago before heading to the university across the street to play in a volleyball league. Nic is always so animated when the kids are around! He is a great dad. All in all it was a good day for Nic, and we hope your day was a good one, too! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-15 00:56:19 (EST)

Oops! Just woke up from a little pre-bed snooze on the couch and realized I still needed to touch base with you! I'll keep this short. Nic's day was a good one again today! He walked almost as far in PT today... I think that his legs tired a bit more easily today. He did do an even better job of recovering from his legs buckling a little, so that was great! We had a very nice lunch today with our friends Jim and Jackie. Thanks, guys, and safe journeys! Carrie came by after work today and we had a good time hanging out with Nic. That's about it for the day! Goodnight! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-01-14 00:36:19 (EST)

A postscript to my earlier message: My cell phone accidentally traveled with Bethany back to Boulder this evening. If you need to get ahold of me tomorrow, please call the loft phone: 303 893 6707. Thanks!

2009-01-13 23:39:16 (EST)

Greetings! We hope that this Tuesday evening finds you healthy, happy and enjoying the important things in life! Take a moment to check out our old friend Paul Switzer's message on this site from today. It's a great story that we all can learn a lesson from! Thanks, Paul! We'd love to have a cup of coffee or two with you! Nic may have had his best day yet today. The morning began with him relating, with voice (although a QUIET voice) a dream he had last night. It was about my mom, our friend Christi Ann and an Oracle friend Megan fighting over the last seat on a plane. Nic and Scott (Christi Ann's husband) had to step in and break up the fight!! He told me the whole dream without stopping and admitted it was very weird! He said he has dreams a lot, but this is the first time I've heard of it!! It was definitely the most talking he has done since September 26th, 2007, and it was everything I could do to tear myself away from his bedside to take a shower this morning! Jim and Claud came by and brought lunch again today, and while Jim ran an errand Claud and I witnessed Nic's best Physical Therapy session yet. Nic walked a total of about 50 feet today! This is NOT a typographical error... it was 50 feet! Melissa the nurse and I were on either side of him, Claudia followed behind with the wheelchair, and Rich the PT had him in front with the gait belt on. Nic stood up straight, took steps and persevered like the amazing man he's always been! He walked eight or nine feet six times with determination and guts, all the while with Claud and I crying like babies. Pretty cool! Bethany came this afternoon and she and I took Nic out to a really nice dinner to celebrate. What a fantastic day. That peaceful, everything-will-turn-out-just-fine feeling that has overcome me lately has been interspersed today with a joy that is difficult to put in to words. Judging from the length of this update, I've given it quite a good try! How can I thank each of you for the support and love you have shown our family? Stay tuned for the next chapter of our great adventure, and take good care of yourselves and your loved ones! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-12 23:50:31 (EST)

A cold and snowy Monday here in Colorado, but luckily the sun came out around noon! It was a good day to stay home, get some paperwork done and just hang out with my husband! You can't imagine how fun a simple thing like that is... even if the conversations are a little one-sided! Holly came for a Speech therapy session and it went well. She's a little perplexed about Nic's lack of voice, but we will go onward and keep trying! He did say "Hi, Marge" to my mom on the phone tonight- that was pretty exciting! She could even hear his voice! I'm determined to take Nic out on some sort of outing tomorrow, even if it's to walk around the mall. I'm sure that Nic would not enjoy that as much as I would, but he'd better speak up if he objects! Ha! We are still waiting to hear about the Bone Flap surgery- keep your fingers crossed that this is the week that we will finally hear! Until then, hope your Monday was wonderful, and we'll talk tomorrow. Love, Chris, Nic, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2009-01-11 23:25:11 (EST)

Sunday night and all is well. Condolences go out to all of our Charger fan friends out there, and congrats to the Steeler fans... especially you, Eggy! The game was about the biggest excitement in our lives today as we spent a lazy day at home. Nic slept in, and I did, too! I must say that it felt very nice! Carrie, Brian and Bethany spent most of the day with us and helped me take down the Christmas decorations. Hooray! It's so fun to put them up each year, but not so exciting to put them away. Nic was up in his chair for a long time today, and just went to bed. Our lives are getting more and more normal each day! Yesterday Nic sat in his favorite big chair for a long time, and seemed to enjoy NOT being in a wheelchair! Andy and Kate were here, along with Bethany. When we got him in the chair Nic looked at us and said "I used to sit here like this every morning". So true! Isn't it amazing the pleasures we get from the everyday things? It's a good lesson for all of us! Hope that the everyday things of the upcoming week bring YOU lots of pleasure! Thanks for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-10 01:30:04 (EST)

TGIF to all of our friends, fans and family out there! I have sat down for a moment before bed to check email and say hi to all of you. We hosted the "old Unisys Golf group" here at the loft tonight. The group just left a while ago. It was great to see everyone, have some pizza and drinks and catch up! What a fantastic assortment of friends. We are so lucky! Nic had a good time, we caught the Nuggets game on T.V. and had a nice evening. Today was fairly uneventful for Nic. He had PT and OT, and rested up for tonight. Carrie and Gabby came by after work and then hung out with us before going out for their REAL Friday night activities! Hope that this was a good week for each of you! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2009-01-09 00:22:41 (EST)

Hope that a terrific Thursday was had by all! I have to say that the past two days have been pretty terrific for our Big Guy. We bid a sad goodbye to Bill, Julie and Nicole Runchey yesterday as they boarded a plane to return to Melbourne, Australia. Nic told Bill that we will visit them at the end of March. Don't think we'll be quite ready to travel there in March of '09, but if Nic continues to improve as he has been, we could definitely plan a trip there in March of 2010! We had such a great visit with them and will miss them a lot! Our friends Cyndi, Ebe and Carlyn made the trek downtown from Parker last night and we had a great dinner with Bethany and her friend Nicolette. Nic even came along! Today brought a good speech session for Nic and then a trip to Craig Hospital to see Dr. Ripley and his band of wonderful nurses, aides and therapists. It was good to be back there, but good to be able to come back home after our appointment! Nic has gained about 10 pounds since we left Craig, and he had a good time seeing all of "our people" at Craig. I did too! Dr. Ripley and our amazing social worker Melissa were happy with Nic's progress and pronounced him fit and improving each day! Now if we can just get a date for the Bone Flap surgery! Remember over a year ago when I deemed Bone Flap worthy of capital letters as it was making its way from the Bone and Tissue bank of California? This time it will be made of space age plastic, but important anyway! As soon as it is made the surgery will be scheduled, and all of you will be among the first to know! Take care! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-09 00:22:23 (EST)

Hope that a terrific Thursday was had by all! I have to say that the past two days have been pretty terrific for our Big Guy. We bid a sad goodbye to Bill, Julie and Nicole Runchey yesterday as they boarded a plane to return to Melbourne, Australia. Nic told Bill that we will visit them at the end of March. Don't think we'll be quite ready to travel there in March of '09, but if Nic continues to improve as he has been, we could definitely plan a trip there in March of 2010! We had such a great visit with them and will miss them a lot! Our friends Cyndi, Ebe and Carlyn made the trek downtown from Parker last night and we had a great dinner with Bethany and her friend Nicolette. Nic even came along! Today brought a good speech session for Nic and then a trip to Craig Hospital to see Dr. Ripley and his band of wonderful nurses, aides and therapists. It was good to be back there, but good to be able to come back home after our appointment! Nic has gained about 10 pounds since we left Craig, and he had a good time seeing all of "our people" at Craig. I did too! Dr. Ripley and our amazing social worker Melissa were happy with Nic's progress and pronounced him fit and improving each day! Now if we can just get a date for the Bone Flap surgery! Remember over a year ago when I deemed Bone Flap worthy of capital letters as it was making its way from the Bone and Tissue bank of California? This time it will be made of space age plastic, but important anyway! As soon as it is made the surgery will be scheduled, and all of you will be among the first to know! Take care! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2009-01-07 01:09:58 (EST)

Wow! I just got on the site to check messages and realized that I have not written since Saturday night! Here I left you hanging there, wondering what happened next in the saga of the backed up drain! You will be happy to hear that for a mere $280 our problem was solved by our friendly neighborhood plumber. I have learned throughout this adventure not to sweat the small stuff, and also have learned that brown stuff coming out of the tub drain does NOT have to be the obvious bathroom culprit; it can be the roast beef put down the garbage disposal in the next room the night before!!! I write this update tonight with a very happy heart. Not only have we had a fantastic time with our wonderful Runchey family, but Nic has had probably the best week of improvements since our adventure began! Sunday brought visits from Matt, Nina, Kim and Darryl. We had a fun time hanging out and having them get to know the Runcheys. Carrie, Brian, Bethany and I fixed dinner Sunday night as a farewell for part of the Runchey clan. Their sons Matt and Mike left on Monday. It was sad to tell them goodbye! Carrie, Beth, Nic and I went out to dinner last night with Bill, Julie and Nicole. Nic ate really well and truly enjoyed the dining out experience. Our Oracle friend Ted came by this morning, in town from Texas. He and Nic had not seen each other for about two years, so it was a great reunion! Jim and Claud came by as well, and tonight Andy and Kate came downtown to enjoy dinner with the remaining Runchey clan. Probably the highlight of the past ten days or so was that Nic has taken some steps! He has Rich, the PT in front of him holding on to a "gait belt", someone following behind with the wheelchair, and me helping him hold on to a walker. He walked about six feet yesterday... what a happy sight! Tonight Bill and Andy had Nic standing up between them... I have rarely seen such a great looking threesome! All for one and one for all! I am so glad that the Runcheys have been here to witness such a great week of improvements. Nic even got on the phone tonight to wish our good friend Paul a happy birthday! Paul could hear him, for Nic has been voicing quite a bit more. Happy, happy times for the Classick Clan. Thanks, as always, for walking this long and winding road with us. Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-04 00:31:24 (EST)

Happy Saturday evening to all! We finally got the laptop working- as long as I hold the cord a certain way! Between that and the fact that for some reason our garbage disposal is draining into the master bathroom bathtub, I'm about ready to scream! The good news is that Nic is doing fine. Does anything else really matter? We are continuing to have a great time with the Runcheys. Everyone is getting along great. We all went to Golden today to tour Coors Brewery. Harold and Nick joined us... unfortunately our Nic stayed home and took a nap. It was fun, and the younger members of the group definitely enjoyed the three free beers served at the end of the tour! When we got home Nic was up in his chair and enjoyed hanging out with the rest of the crowd. Hope everyone is enjoying a great weekend! Love, Chris and Company

2009-01-01 16:27:53 (EST)

Wishing all of our friends and relatives a very happy new year! I have the feeling that 2009 will bring many great things to all of us! Starting the day today having coffee and bagels with the Runcheys was a welcome and wonderful contrast to hanging out in the ICU waiting room at St. Anthony's hospital waiting for Nic to come out of surgery!! It gives us an amazing warm and fuzzy feeling to know that so many of you were cheering us on even back then! Presently Nic, Bill, Julie and I are sitting watching Clemson vs. Nebraska on T.V. Quite a normal January 1st... even the part with Nic watching the game through his eyelids! Carrie had a New Year's Eve party last night, and we stopped in for an hour or so with Nic. It looked as if the younger generation was gearing up for a good time, and we have not heard anything from any of them so far today! Andy and Kate flew to Sacramento yesterday to spend a few days with their friends Bryce and Dana. We're sure that they are having a great time! Enjoy the remainder of your holiday, and thanks so much for all of your support, prayers, visits, messages and hugs over the past twelve months of 2008. May this year bring only the best to each of you! Love, Chris, Nic, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-12-31 00:55:23 (EST)

Tuesday night, and a good day was had by all around here today. We continued a great visit with the Runcheys and just finished telling Nicole, their fifteen year old daughter a few old college days stories. Nic and Bill have been friends since 1972 and we have lots of good stories to tell, some with a little censoring involved! Their boys, 21 and 23 are with our girls (of the same age, as fate would have it!) are right now up in Boulder showing the Aussie boys the life of an American college student. I believe some Beer Pong teaching was part of the plan tonight. Isn't it nice to share cultural experiences like that?!! Nic's day was fairly laid back, and he did NOT want to go to bed tonight! We were sitting at the table visiting and he kept asking for TEN MORE MINUTES before he went to bed! My back has improved a bit today, thanks to some muscle relaxants left over from the other time I threw my back out! We're hoping that the last day of 2008 will be a wonderful one for all of you! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-29 21:55:36 (EST)

Hello to all of our family and friends out there in Support Circleland! We have had a good past two days with our friends the Runcheys. That is the good news. The bad news is that I threw my back out again and have been out of commission since yesterday morning. Thank heavens for our children, as they have taken over the entertaining of our friends, most of the cooking, cleaning and helping the nurses with Nic. Speech was the only therapy that Nic had today, and he did fine work with Holly. He was voicing a lot yesterday, and asked the girls if the Runcheys were drinking alcohol last night!!! That's Nic for you, always worrying if everyone is having a good time! Carrie and Beth took the entire Runchey family down to Colorado Springs for a little tourist time yesterday, and now everyone is at the Colorado Avalanche hockey game. All but Carrie that is... she is doing the dishes for me! Nic has been enjoying having our friends around! Bret came by today to spend some time with Nic and I; it was great to see him! Hope that everyone is recovered from the holiday fun and is geared up for a happy new year! Love, Chris and Company

2008-12-28 01:06:59 (EST)

Happy Saturday night! We have had a fun and busy day today. Our dear Australian friends the Runcheys arrived in our fair city today! Nic and Bill played basketball together at University of Northern Iowa in 1972 through 1976. Bill has lived in Australia since '77 and has brought his whole family to see us for ten days! Nic seemed happy to see them, and even as we speak our girls are entertaining their boys (21 and 23, just like our ladies) at Carrie's apartment. They also have a daughter Nicole who is 15. We are looking forward to having a great time with them! We will show them the sights of Denver and the surrounding area, and hopefully Nic can go with us on some of the outings! He had a good day today, but was pretty tuckered out by the time he went to bed tonight. After a good night's sleep we will all be rarin' to go tomorrow! Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-26 01:15:34 (EST)

Merry Christmas! It was a wonderful holiday for our family, as I hope it was for you! As our good buddy Bob said in his message: what a difference a year makes!!! We headed to Andy and Kate's house last night as planned, pulled into their driveway and Andy, Kate's dad Steve and her sister's fiance John were all waiting for us with the ramp. They got Nic inside without a hitch and even up another flight to the kitchen! We all ate way too much delicious food and had a wonderful time. This morning all of the kids were here at the loft, and we were joined by brother Harold for the day. We opened gifts, ate brunch, hung out, ate dinner and just enjoyed each other's company! Isn't that what any holiday is all about? Nic has done very well over the past few days and has enjoyed the Christmas festivities! We are so lucky, and of course the biggest and best gift ever is that he is with us and improving each day! We so appreciate the gift of your support and friendship, too, and wish you the very best life has to offer! Love, Chris, Nic, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-12-24 00:50:28 (EST)

The presents are wrapped, the holiday is planned, a trip to the grocery store tomorrow is my only "to do" left! The best part of all of this is that my husband is lying in bed just a few feet away! Last year on Christmas Eve day we were at St. Anthony's waiting to hear when we would be going back to Kindred. We finally got there at about 8:00 p.m. I think! Tomorrow will be a much better day than that! Nic just had speech today, so his day was pretty uneventful. Bethany and I had a great lunch downtown today with Ponz and Pat. The food was yummy, the wine even better, and the company was fantastic! What a fun time. Beth headed back to Parker tonight and will meet Carrie, Nic and I at Andy and Kate's house tomorrow night. Kate's dad has figured out a ramp to get Nic into their house, so we are really looking forward to that outing! It's great to be looking forward to a holiday... that didn't happen for us for a whole year! We know that you are looking forward to the next few days as well. Enjoy! Love, Chris and Company

2008-12-23 00:24:37 (EST)

Brrrrr! It appears as I watch the news tonight that the entire country is cold tonight! I'm sitting on the couch writing this and thinking that I need a blanket! Hope that you are all staying warm and that the glow of holiday happiness is helping in that effort. I finished my shopping tonight! Bethany and I went out for a few hours, did some shopping and had a nice dinner out. We are at one of those outdoor malls, however- not the best choice for this weather! Nic had a full day of therapies today with all three therapists giving him his hour long workout. He did a little voicing today, and told his speech therapist, Holly "Happy Hanukkah!". Nic's standing in PT was excellent, and he straightened his legs so well! OT worked on his neck a lot, and showed us some more exercises that we can do when she's not around. We watched the Nuggets win against Portland this evening, and Nic is sound asleep right now. Bethany is back spending the night in Parker, Carrie is spending an extra couple of days with Brian and his family in Chicago, so it's just Nic and I (and the nurse, of course!) this evening. Time to call it a night! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-22 01:15:29 (EST)

The weekend has come to an end with a good but fairly uneventful Sunday! It's cold here in Denver, so we stayed fairly close to home today, had a fire going and got some holiday related jobs completed. I rented a carpet cleaner today and Henry the nurse and I cleaned the bedroom carpets. I now know why hospital floors are easy-to-clean tile! Nic played a little UNO with Bethany today, watched the Broncos lose, and had fun hanging out with us, I think! Andy popped in this morning to pick up his car, but otherwise it was a laid back day with just Beth, Nic and I. We're geared up for the holidays and are so excited to have Nic awake, engaged and home with us this year! It might be our best Christmas ever! Hope your weekend was a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-20 23:49:24 (EST)

It's a hot Saturday night here in downtown Denver! Nic is already asleep, and I'm not too far behind! Andy, Kate and Bethany were here with us for most of the day, and are now doing what twenty-somethings SHOULD be doing on a Saturday night... out partying with their friends! Carrie is probably doing the same right now, but is in Chicago with Brian and his family. She hasn't experienced Chicago in the dead of winter before now, but I'm sure that she is having a great time! Nic had a wonderful day today. He watched some football with Andy, and we all went a few doors down to a restaurant to have some lunch. He even ordered himself! He had more voicing today than he has ever had, and we hardly had to ask him to repeat himself! He seemed very happy to be able to communicate with us, and went to bed with a big proud smile on his face. He SHOULD be proud of himself- he has come a very long way! The transfers from bed to chair and back again are coming along nicely as well. While Andy was here he got the honors of helping with the transfers and with his size and strength he makes it look VERY easy! I was planning to wrap a bunch of gifts today and to at least start on my Christmas cards, but none of that happened! Oh well, tomorrow is another day! Remember to take a moment to enjoy the holiday season, and we'll touch base tomorrow. Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-12-20 00:43:20 (EST)

Friday night and all is well. I've lost track of how many weeks this has been... someone with better math skills than me can count them up and let me know! We had a pretty good day today. I would say that Nic had one of his best standing sessions yet in PT, with those legs of his working SO hard to stay upright! OT brought lots of work with his upper body. Nic's eye/hand coordination is getting better and better, and today he was rolling balls back and forth across the table at the same time with both hands using two balls! He always has had very quick reflexes, and I think that those reflexes are coming back! There are days I can almost SEE the parts of Nic's brain rewiring themselves and finding new pathways to travel. After therapies Nic had a little rest and Bethany and I did yet another Target run for some medications and supplies. I definitely should have bought some stock in Target before this adventure began... I seem to spend lots of time there! Later in the afternoon Andy, Kate, Bethany, Harold, his date Julia, Harold's son Nick and his friend all gathered here before the Nuggets/Cavaliers game. Two friends of Andy, Jesse and Darren came by as well! We ate some sushi, watched basketball and had a good visit before most of the crew walked across the street to the game. As I am writing this the score is not looking good for Denver fans! Nic seemed a little sad that he was not going, but was asleep in his bed about five minutes after everyone left! His time will come! We're looking forward to a relaxing weekend, and hope that you are, too! Happy Friday! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-12-19 00:31:58 (EST)

Good evening! Hope that a great Thursday was had by all. It was a good but busy last couple of days for the Classick Clan. Carrie's birthday was yesterday and we had a little party for her last night. Carrie and Brian, Andy and Kate, Bethany all celebrated with us, as well as Carrie's roommates present and past: Gabby, Lauren, Megan and Vanessa. Some wine was consumed, some appetizers and Mud Pie was devoured, and a good time was had by all! Nic seems to be at his very best when a social gathering is happening! Today I was gone for much of the day. I had lunch with Beth in Boulder and then did a little shopping. She is finished with finals as of this morning! Carrie's boyfriend Brian graduated from CU Boulder with an Economics degree and I got to enjoy the day with his family in from Chicago. We had a nice dinner and I headed back home while the younger set got ready to celebrate! Nic was in good hands with his nurse, the speech therapist, the physical therapist and our friend Larry while I was gone! It felt weird but a little bit good to be away for so long today! Tonight has been a comedy of errors with a few small things going wrong with some of Nic's equipment here at home, so I am just now sitting down to relax- just in time to go to bed! We'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris and family

2008-12-17 00:10:54 (EST)

Wishing all of our wonderful friends and family in Support Circleland a happy Tuesday! We hope that all of your holiday plans are coming along nicely, and that you are taking the time to enjoy the festivities along the way! We had a pretty relaxing day here at the loft. We had NO therapies today, so we were on our own schedule! I can't say THAT has happened at all throughout this adventure! We had a new nurse today; an Iowa girl that is a real sweetheart. Nic and I hung out for most of the morning and he "helped" me wrap packages to get ready for the mail. Carrie came by and had a little lunch with her dad. It's her 23rd birthday tomorrow! Wow! It doesn't seem possible. Nic laid down for a nap, and I did the gas station/grocery store/post office errands. Tonight was more of the same, as we just hung out and ate some dinner. Now it's bed time! Where do the days go? Bethany is still taking finals for the end of her first semester. We'll all gather here tomorrow night for drinks and appetizers to celebrate Carrie's birthday- should be fun! Nic seemed a little happier and more energetic today than he was the past few days, so that is a very good thing! More news tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-17 00:10:39 (EST)

2008-12-16 00:20:38 (EST)

Monday night and all is well. No big news out of us for today, but no bad news, either! I just returned from Boulder, where Carrie and Brian, Bethany and four of Beth's friends were nice enough to go out to dinner with me! Finals are happening at University of Colorado, so they took a study break for a little dinner. Carrie and I did a little more shopping while the rest were studying! Nic's day was Ok today. He has been a little bit dull the last few days. He seems to be feeling fine and isn't complaining of aches or pains, but just seems down in the dumps. He did voice a few things in speech today, and worked hard in PT. It's been so cold here- maybe Nic just is tired of winter already! With all of the travel he has done for work the past fifteen or so years, he has NEVER been in the same city every day for over a year! Neither have I! Anyway, we are very lucky that all I'm worried about right now is a little case of the blahs, and not any major problems. I just spent a few minutes looking back at Status updates from a year ago... what a difference a year makes! YOU have made a difference in our lives each day throughout this adventure. Thanks so much for always being there! Love, Chris and Company

2008-12-14 23:46:36 (EST)

Greetings! Hope everyone's Sunday was a good one, and that if you are having weather like ours, you found a way to keep warm! We have had a very cold day today, complete with snow and a little wind. The kind of day I did NOT miss when we lived in Seattle and Southern California!! Nic's day was filled with visits from friends and family. Kim and Darryl and Tom all came by for their usual weekend visit. We had a good time chatting and watching football. Carrie arrived, we all had a bite to eat and chatted some more! Carrie and I then braved the weather to do a little shopping. We had very good luck! One thing good about bad weather is that few other crazy people were out! While we were shopping Harold and nephew Nick came by to see Nic for awhile. Sorry we missed them! We arrived home, showed Nic our purchases and added up how much money we saved him! After his busy day Nic retired fairly early. I sure miss him! It's weird, because we have spent more time together than we EVER have, but I definitely miss him being there to laugh with, hash things over with and figure things out with. That will come eventually, I know! We are very lucky to have him here at all! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company P.S. I've had some requests to give the loft address again, so here it is! 1127 Auraria Parkway Unit 403B Denver, CO 80204

2008-12-13 23:46:33 (EST)

8:30 on a Saturday night, Nic has just gone to bed, and I am thinking that it sounds pretty good to follow his lead! We have had a couple of busy days! Yesterday was PT and OT- Nic did more standing in PT and is definitely getting stronger every day. OT found him working more on arm strength, and both therapists continue to try to get that neck stretched out. He's doing better and better keeping his head up- even when he's tired, like tonight! We had a visit from Carrie yesterday, and Bret came by, too. Evening brought a little Christmas gathering for our group of Parker friends, The Eightlfarts (short for Eight Old Farts!). We had drinks and appetizers and Nic even enjoyed a tiny bit of red wine. He drank it with a straw, which is a little out of the ordinary, but he enjoyed every sip! Today brought a journey of the 25 or so miles south to Parker! Carrie came early this morning, we got Nic up and dressed and headed out in the van to go home. Along the way we pointed out the Oracle offices, the mall, (NOT a favorite haunt of Nic's!), highlights of Parker and the kids' former schools. Our house came next, and although we couldn't get Nic inside (too many stairs!) he hung out in the garage while Carrie and I scurried around and picked up a few things. To end our field trip we met our neighbor friends Jim and Jackie at our club, the Pinery for lunch. We have a new clubhouse which was completed last year while Nic was in a coma, so it was fun for him to see for the first time! Jackie brought some delicious cookies and brownies to sustain us on the drive home- Yum! We got home to the loft and Andy, Kate and Kate's folks Cindy and Steve arrived. Kate's sister Lauren graduated from CU Denver today!!! We had a good visit. Andy and Nic had quite a game of catch going while we watched our Alma Mater, University of Northern Iowa lose a heartbreaker of a football game. Andy reminded us that he looked back on this site to a year ago. I wrote about how exciting it was for us to physically open Nic's eyelids and his eyeballs would move back and forth a little! How thrilling THAT was a year ago... it seems almost silly now! Thanks to Andy we all were reminded how far Nic has come since then! What a blessing. Isn't that what this holiday season is all about? Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-12 00:55:36 (EST)

A bit of a status quo day today for the Big Guy. Remember when we were absolutely THRILLED with status quo? We are so blessed to have had no scares and NO medical emergencies since we have been home for nearly two months!!! Nic had good sessions with Speech and PT today. When Rich and I did our usual standing time today Nic really gave it some extra oomph and I really felt him push through his legs to stand... probably the biggest push I have felt to date. Hooray! Bethany spent most of the day here today before heading back to Boulder for class. We even got a little shopping in! I must say that I am enjoying my little Christmas shopping sprees a LOT more than last year at this time. Not too surprising! The loft is as decorated as it is going to be and looks pretty good. It's only about one-fourth of what I usually do for Christmas, but it's just fine! If I have learned anything in the last thirteen months, I have learned not to sweat the small stuff! I think that we will try again to take Nic to Parker on Saturday. Have a little lunch at the Pinery, see the house and have a nice drive. It will be fun to see if Nic remembers the house and the neighborhood. He was feeling a little blah this evening and went to bed earlier than usual. Carrie and Beth both have colds, so maybe he's got the sniffles, too. 'Tis the season! All in all, things are great here and we are looking very forward to fun holiday festivities! We wish the same for each of you! Love, Chris and The Classick Clan

2008-12-11 00:57:10 (EST)

Greetings on a late Wednesday evening! We had some friends stop by tonight on their way up to ski and just sat down to send our hellos and good wishes to all of you! Nic's day was a good one once again. This morning when I told him I was going to sit at the table to pay bills he very clearly, with voice said "Do we have any money left?". I'm not sure if he was being a smart aleck worrying about ME being the designated bill payer or if he is truly concerned about our finances, but it was certainly great to hear him engaged and interested in what is going on around him! He had good sessions with Speech and OT today, and OT was especially impressed with the advancements in Nic's shoulder and arm strength. He's still got a long way to go, but Lilliana was quite excited today! Nic was thrilled to see our friends tonight, and our visit was everything I had hoped it would be. Andy is in Dallas on business, but Carrie and Brian and Beth all came over today. Beth is spending the night here tonight, but is out with a friend right now. Sadly, I am NOT up to waiting up for her this evening... I guess that's a good thing about having older kids- I don't HAVE to anymore! Hope your day was a good one, too! Love, Chris and Company

2008-12-10 00:28:58 (EST)

Happy Tuesday! Hope that yours was terrific. Nic's past two days have been very good ones, and those baby steps of improvement have continued steadily. We are hearing more voicing, and I heard "I love you" loud and clear last night!! In the 34 1/2 years that we have been together I have heard those words thousands of times, but never have they sounded so sweet! I heard some words yesterday, however, that sounded NEARLY as sweet. Andy talked to an Oracle coworker whose cousin works for United Health Care. The cousin talked to Andy, and then went on to talk to the Oracle Patient Advocate for UHC. Somehow a miracle appears to have occurred, and I heard the sweet words "United Health Care will be paying for Nic's skilled nursing!!!!!". I'm guardedly optimistic and will be ECSTATIC when we have the reimbursement check for the days we have already paid for! An early Christmas miracle, to be sure! Yes, Virginia, there IS a Santa Claus!!! It looks as if Nic will continue to receive the care that he needs at home for as long as he needs it! Nic had a great session of Physical Therapy today. Carrie was here and helped Rich the therapist help Nic stand while I stood in front, blocked his knees and held a walker for Nic to use to support his weight. He did SO well! It is so thrilling to see Nic stand, even if he is supported a bit and is a little wobbly. It's getting better every time! I left after that for Book Club. We had tea at a mansion here in Denver for our Christmas meeting. I don't think we discussed the book at all, which is fine since I still am having a difficult time reading anything except messages on Support Circle! Carrie and I did a little shopping afterward, she left and I just sat down in time for the 10:00 news! Where DO the days go???? Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-07 23:20:42 (EST)

Hope that your weekend was good and full of friends, family and fun... just like ours! Today brought brunch with our friends Cyndi and Ebe. We exchanged Christmas gifts and enjoyed a fun time. Darryl and Kim also came by with a Smoker figurine for Nic- it's so cool! Bethany spent quite a bit of the day with us, too! Nic watched most of the Bronco game (we won!) and took a little nap in the afternoon. Tonight it was just the two of us, hanging out, having a little dinner and watching some T.V.- kind of a normal Sunday! Here's to more and more normal Sundays in the future! Love, Chris and Company

2008-12-07 00:24:01 (EST)

Happy Saturday! It was fun to start a Saturday with something normal... shopping! I took off early this morning while Nic was still asleep and put a slight dent in my holiday shopping! I really do enjoy the sport- I've tried to do some shopping online, but just find myself getting frustrated. I'd rather be in the trenches, elbow to elbow with other crazy ladies! Anyway, I got home and a fun day of company began! Carrie and Brian started the influx. They stopped by on their way up to the mountains for a couple of days. Harold arrived, followed by Andy and Kate, followed by Tom. Soon Nina, Matt and Doug appeared and we all watched football with Nic for much of the afternoon. No sooner did they leave then Larry came by! What a fun day! Nic and I had a little dinner, then he was ready to go to bed by about 8:00. He's sound asleep, and I will not be far behind! Hope that your day was productive and fun as well! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-06 01:37:23 (EST)

Hi! Hope that your Friday was a great one. We just returned from a Holiday party at the home of Katie, an Oracle friend here in Denver. It was lovely! Most of our favorite Oracle people were there, and it was a festive occasion enjoyed by all. What a great thing to be able to take Nic out and enjoy a "normal" thing like a Christmas party. It was wonderful! We had a visit yesterday from our friends Bruce and Lynn- forgot to mention that last night! Nic and Bruce have been friends since Burroughs days, and they are great people. Our lives are so filled with great people... that's been one of the things that has gotten us through this ordeal, that's for sure! I had lunch today with my friends Kelli and Teri- it was so fun to catch up with them. This afternoon Beth and her friend Nicolette came by for a visit. They helped me decorate the loft for Christmas and we had a good time. Andy and Kate arrived after work and then went with us to the party. Nic had all three therapies this morning and did so well! His standing is improving by leaps and bounds, and Rich the PT even brought a walker today for Nic to try. He can't walk with it yet, but he will be able to use his arms to try to keep himself upright. Each day brings more and more joys to us, and I think that Nic is beginning to realize how far he has come. He did very well at the party this evening and enjoyed himself so much- not quite the Nic Classick Party Boy of years gone by, but that will come back before we know it! Thanks for tuning in! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-05 00:02:20 (EST)

What a great day for Nic today! He began his day with an excellent session of physical therapy. His balance has really improved; sitting on the edge of his chair and bending over forward and from side to side has shown SO much improvement! Then came the standing. With Rich and I on either side of Nic he really stood well today! He is using his legs more and more and I can see the determination in his face each time he attempts to stand. Hooray! I think that it hit me today. With all of the hours of therapies throughout this adventure Nic has never ONCE said he couldn't do something, or refused to try. That has to be some kind of record, don't you think? Nic was up in his chair from 9:30 this morning until 8:00 this evening. THAT definitely breaks his personal record for sitting time! He was awake and engaged for at least 75% of the time and only went to bed at 8:00 tonight because I insisted! Pretty exciting stuff, at least for the Classick Clan! Carrie came by this evening after work and we had a nice dinner. Nic even ate steak! Small bites of steak, but real beef tenderloin! A huge step. It was cold, snowy and dreary today in Denver, but our little corner of the world was bright and cheery. It's fun to end the day with a happy and upbeat message to you all, and we thank you for your continued love and support. Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-12-04 00:56:43 (EST)

Happy Hump Day! It was a cold and gray day here today, and Nic and I hunkered down all day and really didn't accomplish too much. Nic had Speech and OT today and they went well. OT continues to work on Nic's poor neck- she says that it's not going to get better without quite a bit of massage and therapy. Poor baby- sometimes when we put him in bed it can take him a couple of hours to relax his neck enough to put his head down all the way on the pillow! We think it's just from being in bed so much, but I suppose it's feasible that he had some damage from his fall fourteen months ago. This too shall pass, I hope! Nic's eating is going better each day. He eats small amounts, and it takes a long time to get a meal completed, but he is eating!! Tonight after dinner I asked him if he was finished. He said "No, I want some dessert" in an almost-audible voice. I got up to get the only dessert I had in the house- Pepperidge Farm Milano cookies. I gave him one and he motioned to the bag and then to me as if to say "There, join me and have a cookie". I told him that was the last one. He smiled, broke the cookie in half and handed it to me! That big generous heart of his may be a little damaged, but it's as generous and sweet as ever! Hope you had some sweet and generous moments in your day! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-12-03 00:27:07 (EST)

Hi everybody! It was a good day today for the Big Guy- no huge news, no great advances, just more of the same baby steps of improvements! He did a good job of standing today with Rich the PT and I holding on to each side under his armpits. We are helping less and he is standing more quickly and for stays up for slightly longer times. It must feel so good to be on his feet after being in bed or in the chair for so very long! I must say that it is my personal favorite part of each PT session! Speech went well, too today. He is really trying to use his voice and it must be so frustrating to try to communicate and not be able to get the sounds out. It will come in time! Our friend Scott came by tonight after work and we had a great visit. Nic really lights up when we have company and it is good for both of us! Carrie also came by tonight. We had a little dinner (the last of the Thanksgiving leftovers) and she traveled the two miles to her apartment afterward. It's nice having her so close! Time to call it a day- we'll touch base tomorrow! Love, Chris and family

2008-12-02 01:01:08 (EST)

A good Monday evening to all! I guess that my internet was gearing up for Cyber Monday last night, because I could not get a connection to save my soul! But the first Holiday Miracle was that it was working just fine this morning, and here I am, as usual, ending my day with a chat with each of you. Bethany is here tonight with her friend Kristen. Another friend Lauren just left, and two will stay the night. They are just beginning their homework, and I am finishing mine! Nic had a good day again today. It was pretty restful, with no therapies scheduled. Jim and Claud came and brought a delicious lunch again... do we have the best friends imaginable?? We had a good visit, and Nic was pretty chatty today. Not a lot of voice yet, but he is talking a ton. I told him today that I had rented a storage unit in the garage for additional treasures we have accumulated. He very seriously asked me "How much is THAT every month?". That's the first time he really has been interested in any of the finances since his accident- He will be WELCOME to take that chore off my hands one of these days! I hate it! I should be saving all of the financial pages so that he can see that the disasters in our finances are NOT all my fault... it's worldwide!! Ha! Our nurse tonight, Terry had not been here for about a week and has been thrilled with the progress that Nic has made. His transfers are really going well and he is helping with everything more and more each day. He's trying to do so much himself, and I find myself getting "the look" quite often when I try to help him. All good signs! Hope that you had a great Monday, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-30 00:15:53 (EST)

Wishing you all a good Saturday evening. Where has the long Thanksgiving weekend gone? It's been a good one, relaxing and full of family and friends... just how a holiday weekend should be! Nic is doing very well, getting stronger with each day. We have been transferring him from bed to chair and back again almost all the time using the transfer board instead of the lift. Most times it is working very well and Nic is putting lots of effort in to the transfers. We had a little chat this evening about Nic trying to use his voice some more. Nic did say "Hi Linda, how are you?" on the phone to Linda last night loudly enough for her to hear all the way in California! We just hope that the voicing will start coming more frequently... we miss his voice and his stories! We still have 24/7 nursing, but I think that I may begin cutting down to 12 hour days. It's so expensive, and the insurance NOR the Worker's comp appeals have come through. It will be difficult, but probably another two weeks or so I will try cutting back. Carrie and Bethany were here for much of the days today and yesterday, and the girls and I even went out for a bit of Black Friday shopping yesterday. Darryl and Kim came by today and hung out for quite a while. They are amazingly faithful friends!! Tomorrow the girls, Brian and I will do a little Christmas decorating... I'm excited to decorate with a much happier anticipation of the holiday season this year! Hope all is well with you and yours! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-28 00:52:47 (EST)

Happy Thanksgiving to one and all! The dishwasher is running, the crumbs have been wiped up and a good holiday was had by all of the Classick Crew. We ate too much and should have invited half of Denver's Homeless population in to share with us... we cooked WAY more than we needed! What a lot we have to be thankful for, and how lucky we are to have our Nic with us as we end this wonderful holiday. Hope you had a fantastic day! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-11-27 00:27:51 (EST)

Happy Thanksgiving eve! Bethany and I are sitting here at the loft... we just returned from dinner and a couple of drinks with Carrie in downtown Denver. For those of you with little ones, there is nothing better than going out and having fun with your grownup kids! We had a lovely evening and a great dinner, and here it is 10:00 p.m. and we are ready to call it a night! Could it be that Mom cramps the style of the ladies just a tad bit? No!!! Nic had a wonderful day again today. I just scrolled back and read the update from Thanksgiving Eve of 2007. How far we have come! I remember going to the store to buy supplies for dinner. A sad thing, with your husband in a coma!! We had a very nice day, with our friends Cyndi and Ebe and brother Harold coming over to the house in Parker. I remember trying so hard to feel a little bit happy about the holiday, and trying to make it a nice day. BUT life is so much better now! Nic is awake, he is interacting with people and improving! We are so fortunate and so thankful. Nic's OT was so impressed today with the improvements that he has made since she started working with him. She thinks that his upper body strength has improved amazingly, and was exclaiming about the changes and improvements in his abilities today. He has started teasing the kids... one of his true talents... and impresses me each day with his memory and ability to interact with whomever comes along. I am so lucky to be as in love with my husband today as I was back in 1974... come what may! We have a lot to be thankful for, and we count each of you as a true blessing in our lives! Thanks for being a part of our life! Happy Thanksgiving! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-11-26 00:19:13 (EST)

A good Tuesday evening to all! Hope it's not getting tedious to hear that Nic had yet another good day today! I swear his personality is coming through more and more each day, his expressions more like Nic, and his attitude improving by leaps and bounds. I wish that I could explain it better! Nic just had speech therapy today. That might be the most frustrating thing right now... I really just need him to talk! It will come: patience needed here! When things seem too slow I am trying to stop and remember the bleak feeling of despair that we all felt last year at this time, and a smile immediately comes to my face! SO, we will just keep plugging away. Bethany hung out here all morning and then headed to Colorado Springs to see some of her friends from camp. Carrie came by after work tonight and we had a great time with Nic. He was mouthing words along to a song tonight while using a piece of celery as a microphone... what a guy! He's still got it! Thanks for tuning in again tonight... Love, Chris and Company

2008-11-25 00:18:21 (EST)

Greetings to all of our gang out there in Support Circleland! Hope that a good Monday was had by all. Nic definitely had a good Monday! He started out the day a little slow and sleepy, but quickly caught up with himself and had a great session with Rich, the Physical Therapist. The hour was a productive one, with Nic working very diligently on his exercises. My favorite part (and Nic's, too, I think!) is when we help Nic stand. Jim and Claud were here, and Jim and Rich stood on either side of Nic while I helped to hold his knees. He stood really well and is getting stronger every day! We went out for lunch after PT with Jim and Claud, Bethany and Bret. A festive time, to be sure! It was a gorgeous day and we walked a few doors down. How fun to do something so normal! Beth and I made yet another Target run while Nic was napping, and we got Nic up again for a few hours this evening. We played some music and Nic even mouthed the words to a few of the oldies-but-goodies! It was a fun evening, but now it's time to say goodnight! Love, Chris and family

2008-11-24 00:02:50 (EST)

Happy Sunday night! Sorry for the lack of update the past couple of days. I guess that I have just been a little spacey or preoccupied! OR maybe I'm just happy! Nic has had a really good weekend. He has been up in his chair a lot, enjoying a great variety of guests and having a good time! The kids have all hung out with us a lot over the weekend. Bethany has all week off from school next week, so spent the night here at the loft last night, and was here all day today. Andy and Kate came by yesterday, and we took Nic to the Mesa State basketball game! They played in a tournament at Colorado School of Mines in Golden (yes, it's also the home of Coors beer!). Nic enjoyed the game so much and was glad to see the coaches and a few of the parents still around from Andy's playing days. I'm getting more and more confident in taking Nic out and about- I see some road trips in our future! Carrie was here yesterday and today, and brought Brian with her today. We also had Kim and Darryl visit today, Harold, Craig and his kids Sheridan and Brooks, and Ponz and Kevin! What a fun-filled group! Nic was up entertaining us for FIVE hours today and did just great. We had him standing a little today, and he was counting "one, two, three, GO!" when he was ready to stand up. It's a quiet voice, but it's a voice!!! I just know that Nic's big, booming voice will come back to us one of these days. All in all, it was a fantastic weekend, and we hope that yours was, too!!!! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-21 02:16:05 (EST)

A late night for the Classicks tonight! We returned at about 9:30 from the Avalanche Vs. Calgary Flames game. Sadly, the home team lost, but our seats were right on the glass, wheelchair accessible and we had a great time anyway! I'm glad that glass is strong, or I would have had several players from each team in my lap at one time or another throughout the game! Nic did SO well- watched the whole game and really seemed to enjoy it. Andy and Kate came for dinner first and we headed over to the game. It was great, and such a "normal" evening! The whole day was a good one. Bethany hung out until 1:00 or so, Nic had a great PT session, and I transferred him from bed to chair and back again all by myself! It will take some practice, but it felt OK! Nic laid down for a nap for much of the afternoon, then was raring to go when the game began. I hope that this is an indication of many things that we can start doing. I think we'll take him to the Mesa State Basketball game here in Golden on Saturday night... we'll see Andy's former team and coaches! I'm a firm believer that one of the reasons that Nic has continued to improve is that we have been blessed by being surrounded by family and friends constantly since the very beginning of our grand adventure! We are so lucky to count each of you out there in our circle... whether you are close by or way too far away! Thanks for always being there! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-21 02:15:53 (EST)

2008-11-20 00:56:54 (EST)

Hope that everyone's Hump Day was a good one! This Hump Day brought a bit of a slump for Nic... nothing awful, just kind of a blah day for some reason! He seemed tired today, although no apparent reason for it. I guess that we all deserve a down day now and again! He had Speech and OT today, and did just fine. He played a little Scrabble in speech, and in OT she worked a lot on his neck and shoulder muscles today. We also went a whole day without using the lift- just the transfer board to get him from chair to bed and back again. I guess that is a workout on its own! We had visits today from Kelli and Bret. Kelli brought some beautiful flowers and a complete delicious meal that she made... Thanks so much! We all had a good visit! Bethany came tonight after her classes were finished, and will spend the night tonight. AFTER she returns from going out in downtown Denver for her friend Lauren's birthday! She left to go out just a few minutes ago~ just as I am getting ready to go to bed! Oh, to be young again! It was a gorgeous day here again today- in the 70's! BUT we are supposed to have freezing rain tomorrow! That's Colorado weather for you! We'll hope that Nic has a little more energy tomorrow- we are going to the Avalanche Hockey game across the street at the Pepsi Center tomorrow night! I'll update you on that experience then! Please send your phone numbers to me so that I can update my phone~ classickmama@yahoo.com. Thanks! Until tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-11-18 00:05:55 (EST)

Happy Monday! I hope that a good weekend was had by all. It was a busy but great one for the Classick clan. Sunday was a little quieter than we had anticipated. Nic had a little intestinal distress on Sunday, so the road trip to Parker, the house and the Pinery had to be postponed. Too bad, because it was a truly gorgeous day! Karen and I did some more cleaning and organizing around the loft and even actually sat down and watched a movie on DVD last night! I think that it is the first movie that I have watched for MONTHS! It felt pretty good! Our good neighbor friends Jim and Jackie came by yesterday afternoon, then Karen and I left for the airport to pick up Carrie. Harold was here, too and then stayed to have a little dinner with us. This morning brought a trip to Parker, where Karen and I hit the ground running! We did lots of errands and went to the house to pick up some Christmas decorations and a few other items I decided we needed at the loft. When we returned Nic was already up in his chair, ready for Physical Therapy. Rich worked him out really hard and worked a lot on transferring Nic from the bed to his chair. He did SO well! He is truly getting stronger before our eyes. The nurse, Terry and I transferred him without the lift a couple more times tonight, and we are getting it down to a science! I had to take Karen to the airport tonight. I hate seeing our friends leave! I know that she'll be back, though. She's a ton of help and awfully good with Nic. She's REALLY good for me! As part of our errands this morning we got a new cell phone for me! Sadly, I did NOT have my contact list backed up, so it's back to the drawing board to get all of my many numbers back in my phone. A request! IF you wouldn't mind shooting me an email with your phone nummbers I would love it! My email address is classickmama@yahoo.com. Please send the information when you get a minute- I will be lost without them! Thanks, and we'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-16 00:40:48 (EST)

Karen and I just had a fun night out on the town in Denver; drinks and a lovely dinner. It sometimes amazes me that life goes on even when my Nic is lying in bed not having that much fun! Each moment of life, however is NOT filled with despair anymore, and I fervently believe that our Nic is coming back to us in full force! A facial expression, a few words spoken aloud, a big smile first thing in the morning. All of these wondrous accomplishments make each day an exciting adventure! Who would have thought a year ago that we would be celebrating these milestones?!!! I must admit that there were fleeting moments when things seemed hopeless. THEN I would remember that it is Nic Classick that we were dealing with!! Nic's day was a good one again today. We had a leisurely morning, with Karen and I hanging out with Nic. We got him up, dressed, in his chair and ready for the day. I went to a lovely baby shower for our dear Jim and Claud's daughter-in-law and upcoming grandchild. Karen and our great nurse Trish gave Nic quite the workout while I was gone, and by the time I returned he was snoozing away in bed! Bethany came by on her way to see friends in Colorado Springs. Carrie surprised her boyfriend Brian by meeting him in Las Vegas- hope she's having a wonderful time! Andy, Kate and their friend Steve came by on their way to another friends' house and had a great visit with Nic. Karen and I decided we deserved a little time out, so we walked downtown and had a fantastic evening. How lucky we are to have such fabulous friends!!!! It's almost time to call it a night and go to tuck Nic in for the night. Hope your Saturday was super! I still have not found my cell phone; Karen's is hanging out at Denver International Airport. One out of two phones found is not bad odds! I think that we will take Nic to Parker tomorrow, show him the house and have lunch at the Pinery to show him our new clubhouse. Should be a full and fun day! Hope yours is full of fun, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-15 00:22:32 (EST)

The fifty-eighth week of our adventure is upon us! Thank Goodness it's Friday! It has been an excellent week for Nic! Today brought all three therapies with good sessions. We think that Nic was up a little too much yesterday, so we kept him down in bed a bit more than usual today. He did, however, do some transfers from bed to chair and back again using the sliding board. It's been a long time since we've done that, and it went really well! It will be a very good thing if we can do that all of the time- transferring him using the sling and "Guldmann Lift" is very time consuming! All went well today until an hour or so ago when Karen (just in from Iowa) and I returned home from the airport, making a Target run and having dinner and discovered that BOTH of our cell phones are missing in action! I wish that I could say that a wild time involving copious amounts of alcohol was part of the mix, but no!! Just two middle aged women oblivious to their surroundings! We are hopeful that the phones will turn up, but in the meantime you can reach me on the loft phone at 303 893 5707. If I owe you a phone call I apologize- It may be awhile since I have no phone numbers! Nic is sound asleep in the bedroom, and I'm about to call it a night as well. Thanks for checking in! Love, Chris and Company

2008-11-13 23:07:53 (EST)

The good days for Nic just keep rolling along! We started out the day today with a visit from one of our Oracle friends, Mark. He was in town from Seattle and hadn't seen Nic for quite awhile... I think that he was pleased with what he saw! Bethany popped in next and had a little lunch with her daddy. Soon Matt and Larry arrived, and I put them to work! They put new hinges on the bedroom door. These hinges give us another two inches of doorway in order to more easily go through the door with Nic's chair. Smart idea... I don't know why all hinges aren't like these! After their hard work we had a good visit. The very best work that they did was to stand on either side of Nic with the Physical Therapist's help and Nic STOOD UP COMPLETELY ON HIS OWN TWO FEET!!!!!!! Matt and Larry are both very tall and were able to help Nic go completely upright, since they could reach!!! It was very exciting, and made the day a huge success. As if that wasn't enough, Andy came by after work today and he and I and NIC went out for dinner! We walked to a restaurant a few doors down from the loft, and Nic did so well! All of these months of dining out, and never has the experience been so wonderful and sweet as tonight. SO exciting! Soon after we got back home Carrie arrived, and we had a great end to a very great day. I end this update with a smile on my face and a very sleepy husband in bed, recovering from his busy but happy day. Hooray for the Big guy! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-11-12 22:54:30 (EST)

Happy Hump Day! As Hump Days go, it was a good one for the Big Guy. A wild morning of showering, dressing and then speech therapy. Holly had him do a little writing and work on some papers and a puzzle. She has determined that Nic does much better responding while in a social situation such as playing a game or working on something while trying to get him to chat with her. Is anyone out there surprised that Nic does well in social situations?!!! I know that I'm not! Jim and Claud came and brought lunch. Nic was very excited to see them and they got to sit in on the last part of speech. Next it was down for a rest (Nic, not me, darn it!) then up again to go for a check up with Dr. Ripley at Craig. Our lovely Melissa met us and spent much of the afternoon with us. The checkup went well, and the visit to Craig went even better! It was wonderful to see everyone, and we were surrounded by throngs of our favorite staff! Some of the therapists even clapped when we entered the gym! It was a fantastic afternoon at an amazing facility. Nic, however was pretty worn out after being the center of attention and being hugged by all of his Craig buddies. We also got to see a few of our favorite patients and were thrilled by the progress that we saw in them! We got home, put Nic down for a rest, and he's been resting ever since! A very good day for us; hope yours was, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-11-12 00:11:51 (EST)

Hello to all of our wonderful residents of Support Circle Land! It's such a great ending to the day to sit down (finally!) and get on this site to see who has checked in to say hello! All of these months and it never gets old! Thanks to all who continue to send us messages. It is STILL inspiring and touching to hear from you! Today was an OK day for Nic. He seemed a little blah today; possibly a little tired. Nothing alarming, just not quite himself. We had a visit again from Jeff this morning. I told him that I wished he lived here instead of Florida! He is very good at pushing Nic to do things! Bethany spent much of the day here, too and made her dad some sugar cookies. He enjoyed them a lot! I went downtown this afternoon to make my UMPTEENTH trip to Walgreens, and even did a little retail therapy. Carrie and her roommate Lauren came by this evening, had a glass of wine with me and hung out with Nic. We are so lucky to have people popping in to see us! Even if you are too far away to pop in to see us, it's good to know that you are out there! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-10 23:13:08 (EST)

Monday evening, the end of an uncharacteristically dreary day here in the Mile High City! I'm not ready for winter! Nic's day went fairly well. It started out early with OT at 8:30 this morning. His therapist had to catch a flight for a seminar. Next came a shower, then PT. He stood again today numerous times, this time with a little less effort than the last! Hooray! Rich the therapist and I stand on either side of Nic and hook our arms under Nic's armpits. Rich says "one, two, three" and Nic stands with a little support from us. He really tries hard and always has a very determined look on his face! Carol and Ellen came and visited for a while, and we grabbed a bite to eat. Nic's high school buddy, Jeff is in town from Florida and he spent all afternoon with Nic while I was running some errands. Nic was very glad to see Jeff and propelled his wheelchair with his arms the whole length of the loft and back! Another Ames High boy, Kent arrived and we had a good visit. Nic is worn out but happy tonight! In response to Sharon's question about visiting us at the loft: My cell number is probably the best way to reach us and see if it is a good time for a visit. The number is 303 519 5699. The loft number is 303 893 6707. We love visitors! Karen is coming back on Friday from Iowa and will help me finish getting an online calendar set up. I'll post the site, and then you all should be able to get on and see what's happening with us! I feel as if things are finally organized and fairly routine by now, so life should be settling down just a bit! Thanks, as always for your interest, your friendships, your love and support. Aren't we a lucky family?!!! Love to all, Chris and Company

2008-11-10 00:42:04 (EST)

The weekend is over, and it's always nice to sit here at the end of one and feel as if it was a really good few days! Nic continued to enjoy everyone around him and to interact with our friends and family who gathered around us. Yesterday we had to tell our beloved Linda goodbye for awhile again; we don't have a plan for the next visit, which always makes me sad! Wish Nic and I could hop a plane and head to Southern California to see she and Paul and our great friends out there! Last night the kids and I, Brian, Gabby, Kristen, Rachel and Marissa all went out to dinner to "officially" celebrate Bethany's birthday. We had a great time and most of the twenty-somethings went out on the town after dinner. This morning Kate's parents Cindy and Steve came for a visit, Carrie and Gabby, Bethany and Marissa popped in. I made a big pot of chili and Gale and Beth, Tom, Kim and Darryl, Scott, Andy, Lynn and Bruce all brought goodies. We had a wonderful visit with Nic and then the guys went to the Nuggets game. All but poor Nic! By this time next year he WILL be at the game and all of this will be a not-so-fond memory! Time for bed- hope that your weekend was fasntastic! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-07 23:18:27 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the fifty-seventh time! The end of a very great week for Nic, and hence for all of us! Linda and I are watching a little T.V. before calling it a night, after staying in tonight and only sampling one glass in our quest to find the perfect Pinot Grigio. Nic's day was once again a good one. I had an appointment this morning, so missed most of his therapies. He worked very hard, according to my lovely assistant Linda! OT worked a lot on showing Nic how to help us get him dressed, turn him and more. Hopefully by the time the stupid insurance company responds to our second appeal Nic will be strong enough that we won't NEED nursing help!!! Our favorite social worker from Craig Hospital, Melissa stopped by this afternoon and went out to lunch with Linda and I. Nic seemed really happy to see her, and she even helped me with a few issues I've been dealing with. Chuck stopped by this morning before he started on his twelve hour road trip back to Springfield, Missouri. What a great brother! Nic ate a good dinner tonight, hung out with Linda and I for a while this evening, and now is watching the triumphant return of Chauncey Billups to the Denver Nuggets! A good, good day. Hope yours was, too! Love, Chris and Company

2008-11-07 00:30:31 (EST)

What a great day! Mark November 6, 2008 as perhaps the best day that Nic Classick has experienced since our adventure began more than 13 months ago! Nic was happy, engaged, full of chatter and VERY determined all day today and was up until 9:00 P.M. tonight! From the moment that Nic got up in his chair today he was sitting up straight, talking in a very quiet voice, and really into what was going on around him. He was very determined to do many things independently and gave me "the look" many times when I tried to help. He had a great session of Physical Therapy today, propelled his chair with his feet, got his neck worked on for quite and while, worked on his sitting balance, and, my personal favorite, stood up from his chair again! He stood up the furthest to date- almost all the way! When he didn't have his feet planted correctly one time he hit his leg with his fist as if to say "dang it!" Probably the most emotion that Nic has shown since his accident! Nic rested for quite a bit of the afternoon and hung out with brother Chuck. Linda and I made an exciting trip to the medical supply store and to Target after having a nice lunch together. It's been great having her here! We got Nic back up in his chair at around 6:00- just in time to entertain Linda and I, our friend Cyndi, all three brothers, Craig's wife Beth, and Carrie! We ordered pizza, munched on some goodies that Cyndi bought, had a few drinks and watched the Broncos. Nic held court for a full three hours and thoroughly enjoyed our family and friends. What a great night! Even as Nurse Joseph and I were putting Nic to bed he was helping with his nighttime routine! What a great day! I am very, very happy tonight as I sign off and tell you all goodnight. Thanks for always being there for us!!!! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-06 00:59:24 (EST)

Good evening, all! I'm sitting here at the loft watching a little Leno with Linda! Bethany is spending the night here with us, Chuck spent the day here, and Harold came this afternoon. Quite the day! Our nurse, Henry went with Nic to Dr. Spees' office. The doc was pleased with Nic's progress in the past few weeks. Probably the best news of all is that the doctor reviewed Nic's blood sugars over the past two weeks and has decided that Nic no longer needs to be on insulin! Many times brain injuries mess with the insulin levels in the body, so Nic has been on pills and shots for a very long time since his injury. After reviewing his blood sugar numbers he decided that we will still check him every morning, but he will not need insulin unless his blood sugar count is greater than 180! What fabulous news! Nic was pretty alert and responsive this morning, but after our return from the doctor he was bent over and seemed really tired. It's always something, isn't it??? All in all, however, it was a good day, and we cannot tell you how much we appreciate your faithful and loving support! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-05 00:28:59 (EST)

We have a new President! I am a little surprised at the outcome; I just hope that he really does something about the Healthcare issue! For some reason that is first an foremost on my mind lately!!! Nic continues to improve each day here at home. He is more and more interactive and "Nic-like" each day- it's so much fun to see what will unfold! We have an appointment with Dr. Spees our Internist tomorrow and I am hoping that we can begin cutting down on a few of Nic's medications. His feeding tube is clogged, so hopefully it will unclog by itself, or we may have to have a new one put in! We have tried putting Coke down it- the carbonation and acid in the soda sometimes will unclog the tube. So far no luck! It's always something! Carrie and I went to Parker to vote this morning and found no lines- that was a happy surprise! Jim and Claud came by with lunch, and Carrie worked out of the loft for much of the day. Nic was up in his chair for about six hours total today- no skin issues! He had no therapy today, so it was nice to be on our own schedule. Bret visited in the late afternoon, and Brother Chuck, the Road Warrior has just arrived safe and sound from Missouri. It's great to have him here! Nic even woke up to visit for awhile! Andy is on a business trip to Omaha (place of his and Carrie's birth) so will not be home until Thursday night. Our Linda comes tomorrow morning- all kinds of excitement! All of this excitement has worn me out, so I will bid you a fond farewell for tonight. Hope your day was a great one! Love, Chris and family

2008-11-04 00:31:40 (EST)

Hi everybody! A good but busy day again today for the Big Guy. We went to the plastic surgeon's office to consult about the upcoming "cranioplasty" (new forehead) for Nic. Previously Dr. Mouchantat had thought that we would have to go through a grueling tissue expansion process so that Nic's forehead skin could stretch over his new (and hopefully improved!) forehead. BUT after careful examination, measuring, stretching and prodding he (the good doctor) has determined that the skin is plentiful and pliable enough that NO TISSUE EXPANDERS WILL BE NEEDED! Hooray, hooray once again! The doc did warn me that there is a slight chance that once they get in there to do the actual replacement in January there MIGHT not be enough skin, but he is quite confident that we will be fine. SO we will go to St. Anthony's for yet another CTscan, then they will use a computer-aided drafting type of process to make a space-age plastic forehead! It was excellent news today! The trip to and from the Doc went just fine, with the new van serving its purpose quite nicely. Rich, our PT had his hour long session today, and Nic stood up even further than the last time! He seems very determined to stand on his own- wonderful! Nic's speech session with Holly went well too- he seems to like her a lot, and appreciates her humor! Matt stopped by this afternoon, then I went out for a quick trip to buy a few medical supplies. The company we had for the first two weeks is not a United Health Care Preferred Provider, and with many calls today I still haven't found a medical supply company here who is! Raise your hand if you are surprised that we are having yet another problem with our beloved UHC!!! What's a little more money out of pocket??? Larry and Carol came downtown tonight and brought some delicious pizzas. We watched Monday Night Football and Nic stayed up until 8:30! What a big boy! He is zonked out right now, and I am not far behind him! Did I tell you that our Lovely Linda is coming back on Wednesday? Can't wait to see her! Carrie is picking me up at 7:15 tomorrow morning to go to Parker to vote- I could kick myself for not doing it early! I can't imagine what I have been doing that got in the way of that!! Happy Election Eve! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-03 00:13:27 (EST)

Hope that the weekend was as good for all of you as it was for the Classick family! Nic had a really great day today! It was a day that found him happy, engaged, talking quite a bit and just generally very Nic-like! His expressions are coming back even more, he was up for a long time today, and he truly enjoyed the many visitors that we entertained! Andy and Kate spent the night here last night so joined us for breakfast. Carrie and Brian arrived, followed by Bethany. Nina, Meredith and her lovely baby girl Kaiya came along and we had so much fun with her! Steve came to attend the Broncos game with Andy, then Taylor, Tyler and their baby Kross gave us even more of a baby fix! Last, but not least were Les and Janet, who popped in before the Avalanche game! It was wonderful to see everyone, and Nic enjoyed everyone's company. We go to the plastic surgeon tomorrow to get the ball rolling on the bone flap replacement surgery. Nic will need tissue expanders to prepare his forehead skin for the prosthetic forehead bone! It will be interesting to talk to the doctor about the process. Nic's stomach was in distress today, but that didn't seem to stop him from being very social and engaged. That's our boy! Hope your day was a good one, too! Love, Chris and Company

2008-11-02 00:21:02 (EST)

Happy Saturday night! It was a busy day for the Classicks today. I headed to Parker to host a baby shower for our friends Carol and Larry's daughter. Claud and Jim did most of the work, but it was at our house. It went well! Soon it was time to stop at Andy and Kate's to feed the dogs and drive back downtown. Andy, Kate and Bethany supervised Nic all day and things went just fine. Kim, Darryl and Gale visited and Nic was up for about three hours. He seems a little weary tonight and just finished watching the Nuggets lose to the Lakers. That would make anyone weary! Tomorrow will probably bring more visitors... just how we like it! Hope that your Saturday was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-11-01 00:22:41 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the fifty-sixth week! Maybe we should restart the countdown and call this the second week anniversary of the day we brought Nic home! Happy Halloween, too! This is the first time in a very long time that I did not give out one piece of candy to one trick-or-treater! BUT it was a very good day again today! This might be getting boring! Busy times for the Big Guy, but that's always been how he likes it! Nic had all three therapies today, was up twice in his chair for about three hours each, had a shower and entertained guests this evening! In PT he stood up again- this time about twelve times, but got his rear up off of the chair about eight inches each time! The look of determination on his face was wonderful as he pushed through his feet and worked so hard to get those muscles working again. In OT Lilliana worked very hard on Nic's neck muscles again, and then helped him practice feeding himself. He did really well! Speech found him forming some words, playing cards with Holly and eating a whole Three Musketeers mini candy bar! Later in the day I ran some errands and came home to find Harold and Nic hanging out. Carrie and Brian soon arrived, and we had a little impromptu cocktail party! Nic sat at the table with us as we all enjoyed some appetizers and drinks... our favorite way to spend a Friday night! Nic seemed to have a really good time, and so did I! By about 8:00 it was time for him to call it a day and he is snoozing away right now. Hope your Halloween was frightfully fun! Love, Chris and Company

2008-10-31 00:38:15 (EST)

Hi there! Thursday night and all is well. I feel as if I finally have a handle on things here at home, and am happy that Nic is asleep in the next room... not at a hospital! He just really helped Joseph the nurse and I turn him in bed, and generally had a very good day today. He had no therapies today, but was up in is chair for about five hours total. And the butt still looks fine! Carrie came by this morning and reported a successful business trip- her first trade show. She had a lunch in downtown Denver and then headed to Boulder for work and an outing for her sister's birthday tonight! Beth popped in today, opened gifts with Nic and I and had perhaps the best gift ever- She heard her daddy say "happy birthday" with voice! We were all very excited. He voiced a lot today, spent some time outside on the deck, and watched the Avalanche game on T.V. tonight. It is coming along very nicely! Bethany and I walked downtown for lunch (and a drink... after all, it's her 21st birthday!) and had a great time. I really don't know where the days go, but today went quickly and happily. Hope yours was happy, too! Love, Chris and Company

2008-10-30 00:35:47 (EST)

Nic stood up 18 times today! Thought that I should start this update out with the best news of quite a while! Mind you, it was not up to a full standing position, but with the PT, Rich on one side and me on the other Nic got his famous rear end up about five inches and off of the wheelchair seat three sets of six times each! He definitely gets the concept of pushing through his legs to try to stand- with practice who knows WHAT might happen! It was very exciting and Nic seemed to be pretty thrilled. Exhausted, but very happy. Kind of like me!! We had no nurse this morning until 10:00, so it was a frenzied morning! I am a little less nervous about having full responsibility for Nic, and am not shaking anymore as I prepare and administer his long list of medications. A nurse's aide came at 10:00 and was great help with the day; nurse's aides can't give medicines or really do much technical stuff, but having another set of hands was invaluable. As we all know, Nic is a big guy! Jim and Claud spent a good part of the day with us, and we went out on the deck with Nic to enjoy the gorgeous day. Speech came for an hour, but Nic was pretty sleepy while she was here. OT worked for most of the hour on Nic's neck, and by the time she left he was relaxing his neck quite well. The highlight was, of course, PT and the valiant attempts at standing. What an amazing thing! Brian came by today after work, hung out with Nic and I, and then Brian and I went out for pizza. He'll pick Carrie up at the airport at midnight tonight. Her business trip went very well! I just talked to Bethany- her 21st birthday is tomorrow, and she and some friends are going out for a drink at midnight just because she CAN! What fun! With all of the Halloween festivities in the next few days we will celebrate her birthday NEXT weekend- She can't miss Halloween in Boulder... it is a highlight of college! To all of our dear friends to whom I owe a phone call... bear with me; right now there are just not enough hours in the day! Time to go kiss my husband goodnight and call it a day. Thanks for tuning in! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-10-29 00:05:42 (EST)

Another day at home for Nic, and another day that went well! The morning found us completing the shower, shave, teeth brushed and dressed in less than an hour! The nurse and I are getting pretty speedy at this chore! Nic took a little rest then got up for Speech. I like the therapist, Holly and she is good with Nic. Bethany came and hung out with Karen and I for a while, then Karen and I walked downtown for lunch and a few errands. It was GORGEOUS here today and we had a good time. Soon it was time to take Karen to the airport. I'm very sad that she is leaving. She has been amazing help and support, and I don't know how I would have survived the past three weeks without her! We've even had a little fun along the way! Carrie is in Seattle for her first business trip, so her boyfriend Brian came over and hung out with Nic while I did the airport trip. What a great guy! We sat and talked for a bit and he just left. I think that I will retire early tonight! Nic is already asleep watching T.V.- he continues to try to voice quite a bit and is getting stronger all of the time. Even on nights such as this one when I am very tired I know that it was the right thing to bring him home. It's been good for him! Thanks for your continued support! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-28 01:25:07 (EST)

Monday night and all is well. Karen and I just returned from watching Andy and his softball team win their League Championship! It's fun to be able to see him still playing a sport, and they had a great time. Today was a good day again for Nic. He really is trying to talk much more, he seems happy and determined more than ever to get better! We had no nurse today from 7:00 A.M. until 7:00 P.M. They are having a hard time staffing people to come in, and I must say that it is not easy to get through the day without professional help. BUT between Karen and I we did a pretty good job of taking care of the Big Guy, training or no training! It is exhausting but satisfying to complete a 12 hour shift and have Nic safe, happy and all of his needs addressed. I do hope that the staffing issues resolve very soon... Karen is going back to Iowa tomorrow! Nic had PT today and did lots of work with his arms and legs in his wheelchair. Rich the PT also worked a lot on Nic's neck and shoulders. He's holding his head up better already! Bret came by this afternoon and we took Nic outside for a walk around the Pepsi Center. Nic seemed to enjoy the fresh air! Andy and Kate brought in dinner tonight before Andy's game, and Joseph the nurse arrived to spell us for the evening. Nic watched baseball tonight and is sleeping like a baby right now! I think that it's time for me to do the same... Goodnight! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-27 00:53:12 (EST)

A social day for the Classick Clan today, with nearly every moment from sun up until sundown filled with visits from friends and family. Andy, Kate and their friend Lori spent the night here last night, so it was farewell to them this morning. Next Jim and Claud arrived with coffee for Karen and I, and Ponz and Kevin joined us. We got Nic up and dressed so that he could enjoy our little gathering! Soon Carrie and Brian arrived, followed by Bethany. All of this before noon! The girls and Brian left to do a little shopping, Karen and I made yet another Target run, and we got back to the loft just in time to go out for a late lunch with the shopping trio. We arrived back downtown, got Nic up again and soon Carol and Larry arrived with drinks and appetizers for a little cocktail hour! Nic had a bite to eat with us and seemed to enjoy sitting and socializing. I made a few phone calls, set the coffee pot to go off in the morning, and, as usual, am ending the evening with an update to all of you! Whew! Nic is continuing to show that he is gaining strength each day, and you will all be glad to hear that his skin on his behind is looking about 90% healed! Hooray! Could it be that you may NEVER again have to hear details about Nic Classick's butt? You can only hope and pray! All in all it was a VERY good day for our Big Guy- his favorite kind of day, surrounded by many of his loved ones. I know that he is only hoping that one of these days he'll be joining in the conversation and regaling us with one of his famous stories. I miss those stories... even the ones that I have heard thirty or forty times! With that thought I will end MY storytelling for the night and bid you a fond farewell. Love, Chris and Company

2008-10-26 00:48:29 (EST)

Good evening! I just helped our nurse Joseph turn Nic for the last time of the night for me, and it's almost time to turn in. Andy, Kate, Carrie, Bethany, Karen and I celebrated Andy's birthday tonight at one of our favorite Mexican restaurants in downtown Denver. We had a great time, and then the younger set went on to celebrate some more! Oh, to be young again! I may be happy to be my age when I wake up tomorrow morning without a headache, however! We had a good day today. I picked up Karen at the airport this morning and Carrie came over to sit with her dad while I was gone. We got Nic up and showered and he spent some time hanging out with us for a couple of hours. We even got him out on the deck, compliments of our cool new ramp! Bethany arrived to spend the day, then Darryl, Kim and Tom came for their usual Saturday visit. Kim and Darryl brought ice cream for all and we had a good afternoon. Nic is a little tired- perhaps still some left over weariness from the party on Thursday. He was happy to see everyone, though! I'm still not really used to having someone here all of the time to take care of Nic, but I know that I need help. It's just weird to have strange people around 24/7! I must say that when I get six or so hours of uninterrupted sleep I don't mind quite as much! Speaking of sleep, my bed is calling me. Hope that your Saturday was a great one! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-26 00:48:20 (EST)

2008-10-25 01:04:48 (EST)

T.G.I.F! I'd say for how many weeks, but I'm not sure that my brain could wrap around that concept right now! I'm too tired to count past fifty tonight. There was a nursing glitch today and we did not have a nurse from 11:00 A.M. until 7:00 tonight. When the evening nurse was giving Nic's medicines at around nine tonight we discovered that the second sketchiest Walgreens in Denver had forgotten a few medicines. So, yes, I was off in the wheelchair van to the SKETCHIEST Walgreens in Denver to pick up the medicine! It wasn't nearly as much fun this time as last Friday... my cohort Karen wasn't with me! I returned unscathed and am about to go to bed! My friend Vicki came to the loft today and brought a great Chinese Food lunch. It was great to see her! Most of the day was spent taking care of Nic and trying to keep up on things around the house. My back is reminding me tonight that "my husband is a big guy, you know!!!" I know that I can't do this by myself very often... hopefully the insurance gods will smile upon us and that issue will be resolved. Nic was pretty tired today, so slept alot. We met his new OT, Lilliana. She is from Columbia and is very sweet. She said that working on stiff and sore necks is one of her specialties, so maybe she can help with Nic's poor sore and tight neck. She will come twice a week for an hour... I'm going to have to do a lot with Nic on my own, since we were used to so much more therapy at Craig. It's a good thing that the amazing therapists at Craig taught me well! Today is our wonderful Andy's birthday... surely Nic and I are too young to have a 26 year old! We are going to celebrate as a family tomorrow. I pick Karen up at the airport in the morning. She's coming back for a few more days! Hooray! I've spent most of the day thinking about the party last night, and the memories leave me with a wonderful and warm feeling. A million thanks to Pat and to Lisa for all of their hard work. What great people. Speaking of great people, pat yourself on the back to being among the greatest! Thanks for your support, as always! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-10-24 00:50:34 (EST)

A happy but busy day today for the Classick family. Nic had and hour speech session this morning and seemed to enjoy it! He has a kazoo to practice humming with. Holly, his new speech therapist is very nice and seems to enjoy her job! Nic is trying really hard to hum into the kazoo. Nic has always hummed a lot around the house, so it's fun to see him trying. His sessions of therapy at home are an hour long, so he's exhausted by the end of them! Physical therapy came today as well, and Rich, his therapist worked Nic pretty hard. He worked him in bed and had him sit on the edge of the bed. Nic did a really good job of scooting his bottom along the bed and pushing through his legs to try to stand. After PT we let Nic rest until about 3:00 what it was time to GET READY TO PARTY!!! Bethany, the nurse and I got Nic all ready to go, we loaded him in the van and were pulling out of the parking lot right on time! I love when that happens! We arrived at Cool River Cafe and got the event started. It was a big success! There were about 90 people there, and the place was hopping. Cocktails and appetizers were served, with a special drink in Nic's honor... Classick Coors Light! Nic's favorite drink was the drink of the day. The President of Craig Hospital gave a little talk, I spoke, and our friend Shelly let all of the Oracle people know that Oracle would match any donation up to $300. If you are reading this and would like to contribute to Craig as an Oracle employee, be sure you submit it so that it is matched! There was a doorprize drawing and our friend Larry won, so that was fun. I think that I got around to chat with just about everyone and it was so great to have such a good turn out. Nic seemed to have a great time and even played a little pool. We got back home without incident, Nic told Carrie he wasn't tired, and then proceeded to fall asleep in about one minute! I don't think it will take me much longer than that, so I will close and say goodnight. Thanks to all who came out for the gathering tonight, and thanks to those of you who sent donations or intend to. It's a very good cause! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-23 00:50:36 (EST)

Hi everybody! Hump day is about over and it seems as if the week has already been about twelve days long! I absolutely ADORE having Nic home, but there are just not enough hours in the day! I start the morning and think "Wow, I don't have to drive to the hospital, I'll get a TON accomplished!" and the next thing I know it's time to crawl into bed. BUT it is definitely the right thing to have Nic at home. He is happy, "talking" a lot, consistently voicing YES and mouthing words much more clearly. The smiling is the best thing. Up until this point he has smiled at people when they arrive or say hi. Now he is smiling at other times, too, and is more engaged with everyone. Our amazing neighbor friends Jim and Jackie came by this morning bearing delicious oatmeal cookies and a PERFECT little ramp that Jim and Gordon made so that we can get Nic out on to our little deck here. He painted it black to match the floor of the deck and even put sand in the paint so that it's not slippery. The best thing about that is that the sand is from the 4th hole sandtrap on our club golf course right behind his house! We have a little piece of the Pinery downtown with us! Thanks so much! Nic had his doctor appointment this afternoon. The nurse went with us and all went well. They did a urine culture and blood work; we suspect that Nic may have another UTI. Dang! I walked downtown to a not-quite-as-sketchy-as-Friday-night Walgreens to submit Nic's prescriptions and pick up some pictures. It turned cold this afternoon and I looked pretty silly walking in my flip flops! Carrie and her two roommates Gabby and Lauren came by this evening. The girls fixed dinner while I played nurse and gave Nic his medications. We were without a nurse for a few hours tonight due to a scheduling problem, but we did just fine. When Carrie was here Nic started to doze a little. Carrie told him "That's o.k., Dad, you can go to sleep." Nic mouthed "But I don't want to sleep,YOU'RE here". Sweet, huh? Each day at home he has improved more and more. Keep your fingers crossed that he has a great time at the party tomorrow night! I'm looking forward to seeing family, lots of our friends, Oracle buddies and Craig people, too! I'll let you know tomorrow night how well it turns out! Hope your day was a great one! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-10-22 00:30:52 (EST)

A quick bedtime update! I am a little tuckered out tonight and am planning on hopping in bed as soon as I finish this! Nic continues to improve and enjoy the home setting. I can't tell you how great it is to walk in the room at any time and see him! We got him shaved, showered, dressed and teeth brushed this morning in about an hour. It was the nurse and I working feverishly, but we got it done! He stayed up for another hour and a half and Karen, Bethany and I hung out with him. He ate some cereal for breakfast and seemed to enjoy it! Bethany made Karen and I a delicious lunch and then sadly I took Karen to the airport. Sad for both of us, but she is coming back for another four days on Saturday! It's weird sitting here by myself! Nic is asleep and the nurse is in the master bedroom with him. He had speech evaluation today, but I was at the airport, Costco and picking up some things in Parker. What a fun life I lead!!!! I'll see the Speech Therapist on Thursday and let you know what she thinks! We go to Dr. Spees, our internist from Craig tomorrow. Nic will continue to see him as his regular Doc, which is GREAT. He's a neat guy, a good doctor and knows all about Nic already! It's just a checkup to get established in his private practice. ROAD TRIP!!! Time to say goodnight... Love, Chris and Company

2008-10-21 00:57:12 (EST)

We have completed nearly 84 hours of "Operation Homecoming" and we are hanging in there! Nic has had another excellent day today. He was up for about three hours today with NO ill effects on the behind. Hooray, hooray! I miss our buddies at Craig Hospital and the spirit of hope that abounds there. As I told the staff and patients at Nic's Farewell party at Craig- "you haven't seen the last of the Classicks!" I am excited for our party to benefit patients at Craig on Thursday night, and some of our favorites from Craig will attend. Back to Nic! He did some foot propelling of his chair today backwards! Karen said that he was moonwalking- didn't you always think that Nic and Michael Jackson have a lot in common? Nic has been so alert and happy ever since we have been home. He continues to smile a lot and I actually HEARD "I love you" come out of his mouth today for the first time! He has mouthed it before, but never has there been sound. It was truly music to my ears. Our new PT, Rich came today to evaluate Nic. He seems like a great guy and Nic responded to him very well. I think that it will be a good fit. The nurses coming in have done well, and we truly seem to be working things out. Karen works harder than three normal people, and I don't know what I would be doing without her! She had to prop me up a few times today when we received the news that United Health Care has denied our appeal and will not be paying for ANY nursing care for Nic. I would like anyone in that company to come here and see how easy it is to handle a 230 pound, 6'6" man on a day to day basis. They feel that Nic is a "custodial" patient and only needs someone to help in his basic needs. Our policy only covers "skilled" nursing. We will appeal again and hopefully the right will prevail. Anyway, I cannot do this alone even with the help of our family and friends, so we will figure it out! The ONLY important thing is that Nic continue to improve and get better each and every day to come back to us. The rest is just details!!! All in all it was a fantastic day, Nic is home and we are very fortunate people!!! We count each of you as part of our fortune. Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-20 02:17:56 (EST)

What a great weekend! Having Nic home is just fantastic. I liken it to bringing a new baby home. Pure joy, lots of work, unending laundry, a bit of a frightened feeling, little sleep and an amazing warm feeling inside! We are so happy to have him right here with us! Nic seems very glad to be home, and has smiled more the past three days than he EVER has! He is also attempting to speak and voice words quite a bit, and we are even understanding him lots of the time! We have had a great three days with little drama. His vitals have been good and he is really helping with turns in bed. He got a shower this morning in our very own, newly remodeled bathroom! Lots of visitors have stopped by in the past two days. Yesterday we greeted Andy and Kate, Bethany, Darryl and Kim, Tom, Jim and Claud. Nic held court in our VERY OWN LIVING ROOM and truly enjoyed the visits. Ponz, Erin and John popped in last night right before Karen, Beth and I ran out for a little Chinese food. This morning found me lolling about the loft until 10:00 in my bathrobe! What a wonderful thing. First time THAT has happened since September 26th, 2007! After his shower this morning we had a visit from Ponz and Kevin, then Nic snoozed for a while and Karen, Beth and I walked downtown for lunch and a little shopping. Matt and Harold came by for a visit this afternoon and Nic was able to get up and hang out with us for a couple of hours. The nurses who have been with us have been very nice and efficient, and I think that I will get used to the idea of having someone here. Of course, the nursing visits will all depend on the wisdom of United Health Care! Scary thought! One last thing before I close. Some of you may have noticed a golf ball picture on the website. This has a story to it! When my brother Steve was here for Andy and Kate's wedding I gave Steve (an avid golfer, like my husband!) a dozen Oracle golf balls with Nic Classick printed on them. Steve gave a sleeve of them to his good friend Jon Turner. Jon made a hole in one with one of the balls! Cool, huh? Perhaps a good omen; maybe this means that some day Nic will be golfing again with a golf ball with Jon's name on it and Nic will make HIS second hole in one! Let's hope that happens! In the meantime, Nic is home, we are well-organized and ready for anything, and I close tonight with a feeling of great anticipation and hope. Just a reminder: We hope that many of you are able to come to the kickoff party for the Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund on Thursday night. If you can, please email your R.S.V.P. to lisa.johnson@oracle.com. If you would like to contribute to this fund you can do so by logging on to craighospital.org/foundation/donateonline. Help us to help the amazing hospital that has done so much for Nic, and for our family as well! Thanks for tuning in, and for your continued support. More tomorrow, as long as we have no more problems with our internet connection! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-18 01:06:38 (EST)

A very quick update tonight before I fall into bed! NIC IS HOME!!!!! It has been an exhausting but VERY happy day! The departure from the hospital was on time and a little hectic, but it went smoothly. I have many details to share, including Karen and I making a rushing trip at 10:00 P.M. to Walgreens Pharmacy on Colfax in downtown Denver for insulin syringes!!! It was scary, but we made it back O.K.! More tomorrow! I am soooooo happy! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-16 22:15:13 (EST)

Good Thursday evening! I am sure that some of you have been wondering what has happened to my updates! We have had some pretty poor luck for the past two days with internet access at the loft- sorry! Karen and I have been working so hard to get ready for Nic's homecoming that I have not even tried the computer until 11:30 at night, then no luck! Finally it is working tonight, so here we go! First of all, tomorrow IS THE DAY!!!!! We will bring Nic home around noon tomorrow. All systems are go, the bed is here, the lift is here, the van is ready, I feel confident in all aspects of his care, and tomorrow is HOMECOMING DAY!!!! I feel as if I should be wearing a big Homecoming mum like Nic got me in 1974; purple and gold with a big purple UNI made out of pipecleaners! Lovely. Anyway, we have been moving furniture, cleaning out closets and organizing everything. Karen and I called each other Ama and Zon, the Amazon Sisters in high school since we were a head taller than most of our friends. The Amazonian tendencies have paid off on this, our latest adventure! Bethany, Jim and Claud spent most of the morning with us today and we met our speech therapist that will work with us at home. She seemed really nice! We rushed back to the loft at noon for the bed delivery. I was so happy to get it I almost kissed the strange little man that delivered it! Back to the hospital for the rest of the day, where the Therapy staff at Craig held a little "Farewell Party" for Nic. They all said lots of nice things and made us promise to come back to visit. I told them they're not getting rid of the Classicks THAT easily! It was sad, and of course I cried... that's just me! What a great bunch of people! Andy came after work and helped Karen and I load some more of Nic's stuff into the van. Now we are home cleaning, returning phone calls and FINALLY writing an update! I am so excited for tomorrow. I feel as if we are ready for a new phase to begin in Nic's recovery. It's VERY scary, but we are ready to have him HOME!!!! We will have nurses for the first few days, insurance or no insurance, and hopefully will know by Monday or so what the status of the appeal to United Health Care is. Keep your fingers crossed once again, and you might add in a little prayer that all goes well tomorrow!! Thanks for your continued support and love! Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-14 01:15:26 (EST)

A good Monday evening to all! It was a challenging day at Craig today for Nic and, consequently for all near and dear to us. We began the morning with a call from Melissa, our Social Worker at Craig. There has been yet another insurance glitch, and right now United Health Care will be paying for ZERO home health care for Nic. Quite a change from the 24/7 care that we were told would happen on Friday afternoon! Within an hour's time the "decision" was overturned by people in corporate who have never seen Nic or been aware of the progress that he has made. You can probably imagine my RAGE at hearing this! We have already set the ball in motion to appeal the decision, and should know in 72 hours or so. Good way to start the work week! BUT Nic is fine, no medical emergencies. He is safe, improving and getting better every day. THAT'S the important thing! The rest is just numbers and details... kind of like the economy lately, right? It is LUDICROUS to think that our health insurance will not be paying anything for home health care, but as long as Nic is improving that is the crucial thing to be concerned with. More to follow! Karen and I began the day with a fast and furious cleaning of the loft. Our day at Craig was filled with stupid details of insurance. The hospital bed is on its way, so a Friday homecoming should be on the schedule. Thank God! Nic's skin is not looking too good, so he was in bed for most of the day again today. Jim and Claud were already with Nic when we arrived this morning, followed by our grat friend Cyndi. We missed Mark while we were grabbing a sandwich this afternoon. Harold and Andy were hanging out with Nic for a little male bonding time when we left tonight. We met our neighbor friends Jim and Jackie at the loft. Jim is going to rig something up so that we can get Nic out on our little deck here at the loft. We had a drink and went out for dinner downtown. They brought our huge bag of mail from Parker that our sweet neighbors Russ and Doris have been fetching for me. A busy day, filled with disappointments and frustrations from things that seem trivial in the grand scheme of life! Onward and upward is the theme for Tuesday! Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-10-11 22:56:29 (EST)

What a festive day at Craig Hospital! Nic was definitely voted "most popular" today, as we took over the entire "family room" at Craig for much of the morning! Karen and I arrived at the hospital just as they were getting Nic up for the day. Soon Kim and Darryl arrived, then Carrie and Brian, Ponz and Kevin, and the anxiously-awaited Trey! We had such a good time visiting and Nic ate a little lunch with Carrie's help. Soon everyone had to leave and Nic was a tired boy! I think that he was asleep before we even got him all the way down into bed. Karen and I ran some errands and missed Kate's parents, Cindy and Steve. Darn! We got him back up in the afternoon for a couple of hours. Nic did an AMAZING job feeding himself with an iced tea spoon that our OT, Shauna had bent at the right angle to allow Nic optimum results in eating. He insisted on cleaning off his lap tray himself with a damp paper towel... could this mean that he will take over house cleaning duties when he has recovered? I'll add that to my list of prayers!!! I helped his tech, Yvonne get him showered this evening, and when we left tonight he was snoozing already with the T.V. on. Karen and I had a sandwich at home and are ready to watch a movie tonight and eat some popcorn and apples (one of Nic's favorite things!). It's cool and rainy tonight- a perfect night to stay in! We're tired, too! Hope that your evening has been perfect! Love, Chris and Clan

2008-10-11 00:05:42 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the fifty fourth time! Fifty four weeks of blood, sweat, tears and even a few chuckles! Thank God that you have all been along with us on this roller coaster ride of a life that has befallen us! We were supposed to be home right now, so I am a little sad tonight. BUT we have survived worse disappointments, and hopefully the next time that I write T.G.I.F. it will be with Nic beside me in our very own home! Today was a pretty good day, with Nic up in his chair for his therapies. The skin is looking almost healed again, he was in a good mood today, and worked hard in his classes. The standing frame was a success today with a full half hour standing. Nic worked hard in speech and mouthed lots of words when Melea asked him to name pictures she showed him. Even bizarre ones like "harp" and "unicorn"! Jody, our physical therapist asked another therapist to work on Nic's neck and shoulders today. They laid him flat on a massage-type table and Celeste, the other therapist worked for over an hour stretching and massaging his shoulders and neck. Celeste has had extensive training in this sort of thing, and feels that Nic's tendons and muscles in that area need lots of work. This is probably why he has such a difficult time holding his head up some days. We will hope to find someone that can continue this therapy when we reach home. Nic seemed to relax and almost enjoy the process, so maybe this is what he's needed all along! Harold hung out with us for most of the afternoon today, Karen and I got some errands accomplished and some paperwork taken care of. Trey was unable to come today because of work, so will be at Craig tomorrow morning for a little while. All in all it was a good day for the Big Guy, and I think that he is feeling better from the UTI. Thank heavens! Hope that you're looking forward to a great weekend! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-10-10 00:30:53 (EST)

P.S. I neglected to include our wonderful neighbor friends Jim and Jackie in our visitors today! Sorry!

2008-10-10 00:19:04 (EST)

Today was kind of a status quo day at Craig Hospital for the Classick Clan. Many of you who have been faithful Support Circle groupies may remember the early days back in San Francisco General Hospital ICU when we were all THRILLED with status quo!!! Nic got to be up in his wheelchair for 90 minutes this morning, and another 90 this afternoon. He even got to get up a third time for a little dinner! He is on IV antibiotics and we are hoping that this rotten urinary tract infection will be a not-so-fond memory. Jim and Claud visited this morning and sat in on speech therapy. They got to hear quite a bit of voicing, and it was pretty loud! Hooray! Nic also got to be in the standing frame again, and one has been ordered for us to use at home. It's REALLY nice to see Nic standing up- I almost forget how tall he is! Bethany, Karen, Jim, Claud and I went out for a nice lunch, then the afternoon flew by. Progress has been made on the bed- it definitely should be here by next Wednesday or Thursday, which means Homecoming should be on track for Thursday or Friday. Andy and Carrie both came to see us after work, and Carrie fed Nic a decent dinner. Pureed Pizza seems to be one of his favorites! We're working out a few more details for home, and I still need to be trained on a few more things... where do the days go? Karen and I did a little more work at the loft tonight, ate a little dinner and are watching some quality t.v. this evening. She is great company and amazing help! Check your calendars for Nic's party on October 23rd, and don't forget to R.S.V.P. to lisajohnson@oracle.com. If you're not in the area and would like to help out with the Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund, log on to https://www.craighospital.org/Foundation/donateonline.asp There is a link that says "Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund. You can figure it out from there! We're excited for the opportunity to help the wonderful place that has done so much for Nic! We're also excited for a visit tomorrow from our dear Trey, in town from San Francisco! What would we have done a year ago without him?!!! Thanks, as always, for your prayers, your messages and your support. We are very lucky to have you in our lives! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-10-09 00:53:24 (EST)

Hello to all! This was definitely a good news/bad news kind of day, once again! First the bad news: Nic will NOT be coming home on Friday. It is very sad, disappointing and upsetting, but as I said yesterday it is not a big surprise. The main reason for the delay is that the hospital bed has not arrived in Denver yet. An insurance delay... again not surprising! Everyone at Craig, especially our wonderful social worker Melissa, has worked so hard to make our homecoming happen. It just was not in the cards! Onward and upward from here! Nic had a scope done today to be sure that he has not had any more bladder stones. They are gone! Good news number one! Dr. Karakussis, the infectious disease doc came in and looked at Nic today. He was asked to try to figure out 1. Why Nic keeps having urinary tract infections 2. What could be causing these attacks of sudden sweatiness and change in the color of his face. The doctor will let us know what he thinks! After the bladder scope today Nic's skin looked pretty bad again, so he was in bed for the entire day. Bummer! More good news: He was quite happy and alert, even while in bed! Judy came by today and we had a great visit. Next came our faithful Bret, then Gary, Andy, Kate and Bethany. It was another wild day with hardly a moment to sit down or even spend much time with Nic! The home health people came to visit today as well, and I really liked the two women. They will not be working with Nic; they staff and organize the people who will come. We will start with a nurse 24 hours a day, Occupational, Physical and Speech therapies three to five times per week. Right now we are HOPING to come home a week from tomorrow, October the 16th. Keep your fingers crossed again, please! Beth spent the night at the loft tonight with Karen and I, and we are all ready to end this day! Until tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-10-08 00:36:34 (EST)

Tuesday night, the end of a stressful day at Craig Hospital. No real tragedies; just a disjointed day filled with more tests for Nic, bed rest again for most of the day and a little uncertainty regarding whether he'll be ready to go home on Friday. The good news is that the stress test showed nothing alarming. There is a little damage to his heart where the heart attack back in San Francisco occured, which is to be expected. They did an EKG as well today, and it looked fine, too. Nic also had a chest X-ray to be sure that all was well there. Dr. Spees, the internist said today that he would like another scope of Nic's bladder performed. He's suspicious that there may be some more bladder stones, as Nic's urinary tract infection is not cleared up. There have been some episodes of Nic becoming very sweaty and clammy very quickly today as well- perhaps a blood pressure issue. SO, it was NOT Nic's best day today! When he was awake he was fairly responsive, but it was a much different day than yesterday! We still have a few equipment problems as well, so dealing with those today was a bit aggravating. Tomorrow the people from the home health network, Maxim, will come to Craig to meet us, watch therapy and talk to the nursing staff about Nic's needs when we do get home. I am anxious to meet them! Karen arrived safely from Des Moines today and has already been great help and support! All three of the kids came to Craig today... that always brightens both Nic's and my day! Hopefully tomorrow will be a better one, most of the testing will be over, and Nic will be feeling more like the big, loveable guy that he is! Thanks for tuning in! Love, Chris and Crew

2008-10-07 09:22:01 (EST)

Good morning to all! Changing it up a little with a morning update, since I spaced out doing one last night! It is a little crazy around here with preparations for Nic's homecoming. We are still on for Friday afternoon barring the hospital bed not being delivered on time. There is a bit of a holdup waiting for insurance approval- surprise, surprise! I am picking up our dear Karen this morning at the airport. She will be here for two weeks to help me problem solve, organize and get in to a routine around Nic's homecoming. What a great friend. Who would have thought that the girl next to me in Sophomore English in high school would prove to be a person by my side for all of these years! She also has the energy of a 16 year old, so her help will be invaluable! The support of our family and friends touches us, inspires us and makes us feel very fortunate. Thank you all once again! I am happy to report that Nic has been FANTASTIC the past few days. He is very happy, alert and responsive and spoke yesterday more than he has EVER!!!! Some of what he says is still a little hard to decipher, but he named all of our family yesterday with voice and very clearly. He repeatedly named me as "Christine"- he's getting very formal in his old age! Nic was on bed rest for much of the day again yesterday, due to that old skin issue. That did not slow him down! He had a heart stress test yesterday- we'll have a baseline test before he leaves the hospital to be sure that all is well. I don't know the results yet, but you all will be among the first to know! Since Nic couldn't do the usual tread mill test I guess they did something with drugs to test his heart when stressed. I did lots of errands yesterday in preparation for Friday. Sorry that I missed Gale! Bret came by just as they were getting Nic ready to go to the hospital next door to Craig for his test, but I did get to show him the new van! It drives very well and I am excited about it! Andy and Kate came to Craig after work and then I went with them to Andy's softball game. We had dinner afterward with Carrie downtown before turning in for the night. Where do these days go?!! Time to close and get started on a new day... hope that yours is a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-10-06 00:54:48 (EST)

Hope that a super Sunday was had by all! Nic's day was a good one, barring the fact that he was only up out of bed for about three hours today! The skin issue is still problematic: if we can ever get past this problem we'll be very happy campers! Nic did get to be in bed in front of the television to see the Broncos win- hooray! We had visits today from Andy and Kate, Carrie and Brian and Bethany. Tom was there to weight shift Nic while watching a little football, and Carrie helped Nic eat a very good lunch, including a whole piece of cheesecake with strawberries! Brothers Harold and Craig and our niece Sheridan also came by and had a good visit with their big brother. Nic's alertness and personality have really been great the past few days. That definitely puts a spring in all of our steps! This evening our friends Matt and Nina, Larry and Carol helped me put the finishing touches on the loft bathroom in preparation for Nic's homecoming on FRIDAY! We had a little pizza and enjoyed a good evening. I can't wait until Nic can join in to gatherings like tonight! It won't be long now! Hope your weekend was a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-05 00:02:16 (EST)

Saturday night, I just returned home to Parker. Nic had a good day today, even if he was in bed for all but two hours today. When I arrived at Craig this morning Kim and Darryl were already there talking with Nic. We got him up and took him outside so that he was finally able to see our new van! Between the three of us we figured everything out, got him up the ramp, locked in to the passenger seat and ready to head on down the highway! Nic seemed to like the van and we will hope to have lots of good times ahead in it! I missed Pat this morning... thanks for the delicious pie! Andy and Kate came by this afternoon to hang out for awhile with us at Craig. We got Nic up again this afternoon and he ate a pretty good dinner. His swallowing is getting better! All in all it was a good day. Hope that your was, too! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-04 02:14:41 (EST)

A quick update before I retire for the night! Just returned from a fun night out with Carrie, some of her girlfriends and some of their moms. We met at the loft, had a great dinner downtown and had a nightcap here at the loft to end a very nice evening. Just what the doctor ordered after spending the last two nights at the hospital! Nic had a good but fairly uneventful day today. Sadly, the skin problem has reared its ugly head once again and Nic was on bedrest for most of the day. That is the bad news. The good news is that he was very alert and happy for most of the day, and did lots of mouthing words and communicating! We had our family meeting today with all of our wonderful staff at Craig. It looks as if next Friday will be the day to start the next stage of our journey, this time in our own home! It will be challenging but will feel really good to be out of an institutional setting! Andy, Carrie and Bethany were all at the meeting today, and we also enjoyed a visit from Bruce and Lynn. Sorry to have missed Nina while we were in our meeting! I must say that my own bed sounds very nice tonight, so I think that I will close and get ready to call it a night! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-10-03 00:38:02 (EST)

Greetings to all of our wonderful family and friends out there in Support Circleland! I am writing this once again from the extra bed in room 206 at Craig Hospital. I did survive another night, and just finished my new job as nurse and drug pusher! I am feeling more and more confident about taking Nic home, and I know that with some help we will be able to successfully execute "Operation Home"! Nic slept really well again last night, and I got a good four or so hours. I woke up this morning with a strange man's backside in my face... a student nurse, bent over my husband! Quite the wake up call! Nic's morning went well, he did quite well on his "Test Tray" for speech. MeLea tried several different foods and textures. The swallowing was pretty good except for the ground meat. SO he will be advancing to chopped foods in all food groups except meats. No more baby food texture! Our friend Carol came today and went to lunch with Bethany and I. It was great to see her! When we got back from lunch Nic was in bed. He has another questionable area on his rear end, so it was bed rest for the rest of the day. He has, however, been very alert and responsive this afternoon and evening, and has even voiced a few things! Nic and Andy watched some baseball this evening... just like old times! I will close and extend the invitation that I spoke of last night. Here it is! We would love for anyone who is able to attend on October 23rd! Dear Friends, The Classick Family and Craig Hospital would like to invite you and your family to a celebration of Nic's progress over the last twelve months. We are going to gather on Thursday, October 23rd (just one day shy of the year's anniversary of when Nic came back to Colorado from San Francisco!)in the Billiards Room at Cool River Cafe', 8000 E. Belleview Avenue, Greenwood Village at 5:00 p.m. Please join us for after work adult refreshments and light hors d'oeuvres, short presentations and great camaraderie. We're going to be launching the Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund so that others may be helped along the way as we have been so blessed. We are setting some pretty ambitious goals (but then what Oracle goal isn't?) and hope you will join us. Please pass this invitation along to others who wold be interested and let us know if you can come by RSVPing to Lisa Geil at lisa.johnson@oracle.com no later than Monday, October 20th. We are looking forward to seeing you all on the 23rd. As always, gratefully yours, Chris and Nic and family We have heard from Lisa that she has had some people inquire if they can donate to the fund even if they are not able to attend. Here is the link to the Craig Foundation website: https://www.craighospital.org/Foundation/donateonline.asp I hope that all of you know that we appreciate your support of our family so very much! We'll talk tomorrow! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-10-01 23:30:17 (EST)

Happy Hump Day! Today the only hump that I was worrying about is the one that will develop on the back of Nic's neck if he doesn't start holding his head up! It is worrisome, indeed! Everyone here is a bit perplexed over his head. It definitely gets worse when he is tired, but today it was pretty bad for most of the day. Sorry about the lack of update last night. I spent the day with Bethany at the Doctor- everything's fine- so didn't have much to report! Andy and Carrie both spent time with their dad yesterday and it was a fairly uneventful day! Our dear friends Jim and Claud helped me get Nic's Durango started and fixed, so it is road-worthy again! I must admit that it was a good feeling to play mom all day yesterday- I haven't had enough of that in the past year! Nic had all of his therapies today and did a great job riding the bike today. Andy was there cheering him on and he went very fast and furious with his legs! Harold came by this afternoon and sat with us while Nic tried to eat this dinner. It didn't go too well today- it's hard to eat and swallow when your chin is hanging almost to your chest! Nic seemed a little blah today- perhaps it is just that he is tired of being in the hospital! I know that I am! I am sitting at Craig tonight. Nic and I are going to have another slumber party tonight, and I will probably stay at Craig again tomorrow night. It is very good for me to learn all of the aspects of his care before we go home in NINE DAYS!! Watch this website tomorrow for exciting news of a "Nic Classick Patient Assistance Fund" that we will be starting this month. We'll launch it with a party on October 23rd. We want to support Craig Hospital patients who are not as fortunate as we are... More to come tomorrow! Time to crush Nic's medications with my VERY OWN mortar and pestle in preparation for giving them to him very soon... do I lead an exciting life, or WHAT?!!! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-10-01 23:04:20 (EST)

2008-09-29 21:39:19 (EST)

Another work week has begun, the day has flown by, and here I am updating you once again! My second night at the hospital was a little better than the first and I actually slept for quite a bit of the night. BUT if you've ever been in the hospital you know that sleep is not the easiest thing to come by! I got to give Nic more of his medications and am really learning a lot. I even gave him his insulin shot last night! It's common of brain injury patients to have trouble with their blood sugar, and we are hoping that this doesn't mean Nic is diabetic for life. Anyway, giving a shot was not as creepy as I had expected! Does this mean I am interested in a second career as a nurse? Lord, no! But bless those of you out there that are! Nic got to be up for his classes today, with a rest at lunch and then back to bed at 3:00 after his last therapy. He was quite responsive today and seemed to be in good spirits. We heard a tiny bit of voicing, and he is really back to attempting to talk a lot, even if it's just a whisper or mouthed words. Nic did a great job in PT again today, and was able to push through his legs again to raise his rear off the chair. It's the beginning of standing up! A huge deal! Jim and Claud showed up at Craig this morning with a mocha for me (the hospital coffee is NOT great!) and spent lots of the morning with Nic and I. What fantastic friends we have! Andy came by after work and hung out with his dad, as I left a little early today. Tomorrow I'll be with Bethany at an appointment, so I'm not sure when and if I'll make it to Craig. I'm sure Nic will be in good hands! Hope your Monday was a good one! Love, Chris and Crew

2008-09-28 22:29:20 (EST)

Good evening! It is the end of another weekend; a good one all in all for our little corner of the world. I survived a night sleeping at the hospital, have done lots of Nic's medication administering (supervised by an RN, of course!) gave him a shower tonight, helped with turning him and have been even more hands on than usual! This amazing staff here act as if me knowing the ins and outs of Nic's daily care is extremely important to THEM, not just to Nic and our family! Where do they find these fabulous people?!!! Several of the techs have offered their phone numbers so that I can call them if we need some extra help after we are home. It's very interesting to meet some of the night shift- they know Nic so well, but since I usually leave around 6:00 or so I don't know them at all! Nic slept like a baby last night; I slept as if I had a new baby! No sleep until 3:30 this morning, then fitful snoozing. Oh well, maybe that means I'll sleep better tonight! We spent most of today watching football (the sad appearance by the Broncos) and talking with Tom, Carrie and Brian and Bethany. Beth and I were out for a bite to eat and were sorry to miss our friends Gale and Beth. It was a gorgeous fall day here in Denver, but I'm not too excited about the end of yet another season as we endure this experience. I love summer! Make this week a great one! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-09-27 22:37:50 (EST)

A relatively early update tonight, due to the fact that I am in Nic's room at Craig for the night! Hospital evenings are not too thrilling, and I will probably crawl in to bed and watch a little T.V. before too long! The double bed did not work out too well for Nic last night. He kept sliding around so is now back in a hospital bed. They kept the double bed for me to sleep in, but it will not be quite like being home! Nic has had an upset stomach for the last few days and has a bit of a skin issue again. He's on bed rest for at least today and tomorrow, so there goes my plan of loading him in the new van tomorrow and taking him to Parker for a few hours! He's been in pretty good spirits today despite yet another small setback! Carrie and her boyfriend Brian spent much of the morning with Nic while I was picking up the van. It's nice! It drives very well, is full of fun little amenities and has that good new car smell! Alas, it is no fun little convertible, but it will definitely make getting Nic around pretty easy! Bethany came down from Boulder again today and we went out for a bite to eat before she headed to Parker for the night. She'll stay with Andy and Kate's dogs tonight while I'm having a slumber party with Nic at Craig. Nic and I have the Nebraska football game on... it's not looking too good for Big Red right now. Hope your day was a good one! Love, Chris and family

2008-09-27 01:00:22 (EST)

September 26th, 2007 was without a doubt a life-altering day for the Classick family, and also for our legion of family and friends. It's amazing that one day, even one fleeting moment can change so much. I write this update tonight with tears in my eyes. I just completed reading the messages that so many of you posted today, and they made me realize once again how fortunate we are to count each of you in our circle. Nic's journey so far has been a painfully difficult one, full of peaks and valleys, joys and sorrows. BUT he is still with us, as my dear Bags (my friend since elementary school) said in her message tonight CLAWING his way back to us. I miss Nic so much it is truly a physical pain, but there is comfort in holding his hand, getting a smile and seeing him work to hard to regain himself. Today would have been my dear dad's 80th birthday, too. I think Daddy would be proud of his family as we have tried so hard to handle this adventure with positivity, grace, dignity and humor. We moved Nic in to a private room today, and he is sleeping in a real double bed! I will stay at the hospital tomorrow night and Sunday night, and then part of next week, too. Wow, sleeping in the same room as my husband for the first time in over a year! It will be strange to stay at Craig, but it will feel great to experience everything involved in Nic's care. I missed Bret and Kelli at the hospital today- sorry, guys! Bethany came after classes today and Harold and Larry hung out with us this afternoon, too. Nic did a little better swallowing his dinner tonight and ate nearly all of his meal! He is now in room 206 in the same building as always. We will be able to keep the same nurses and techs who have been by our side since April- Thank God! I received lots of phone calls today from friends sending their good wishes. I will try to return them all in the next few days! Andy and Kate are visiting her folks this weekend, so the dogs are with Grandma again tonight. They are good company! Carrie will be with Nic tomorrow morning as I am picking up the new van! Nic's chair was fitted today with a bolt under the chair. This bolt will lock in to a plate on the floor of the van so that it will be really easy to secure him in place, the passenger seat right next to me! Our dear Jim and Claud will take me to pick up the van in the morning. I'm kind of excited! A symbol of our independence as we begin the second year of this journey. Please know that my heart is full and my head is spinning right now as I think of all of you and how you have given us your support, your love, your time and your never-ending optimism over the past year. May God bless each of you and keep you from harm. We appreciate you all so very much! Raise your glasses in a toast to the next 365 days and all of the joys that they will bring! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-09-26 00:29:09 (EST)

Another decent day today, on this, our 355th day of this grand adventure! Nic was up bright and early, did his two sessions each of speech, occupational therapy and speech therapies, rode the bike and stood for a half hour in the standing frame. Bethany came down from Boulder for much of the day, and Jim and Claud spent some time at Craig with us as well! Lisa also popped in to see us, in town from Wyoming. A full morning! Nic seems to be having some trouble swallowing his food, and didn't have much luck in eating his yummy pureed food today. We'll have to get to the bottom of that! He did not move rooms today as we thought- it may be another day or two. Andy came by after work this evening as usual, and Scott came as well and hung out with us in the T-Zone! I've spent the evening tonight at the loft talking on the phone and returning a few emails- I think that it's about time to call it a night! Tomorrow will probably be a tough day, marking the year anniversary. BUT as our dear Karen pointed out tonight on the phone, it's really a day to celebrate! We still have our Nic with us, and look how far he has come! More tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-09-26 00:29:09 (EST)

Another decent day today, on this, our 355th day of this grand adventure! Nic was up bright and early, did his two sessions each of speech, occupational therapy and speech therapies, rode the bike and stood for a half hour in the standing frame. Bethany came down from Boulder for much of the day, and Jim and Claud spent some time at Craig with us as well! Lisa also popped in to see us, in town from Wyoming. A full morning! Nic seems to be having some trouble swallowing his food, and didn't have much luck in eating his yummy pureed food today. We'll have to get to the bottom of that! He did not move rooms today as we thought- it may be another day or two. Andy came by after work this evening as usual, and Scott came as well and hung out with us in the T-Zone! I've spent the evening tonight at the loft talking on the phone and returning a few emails- I think that it's about time to call it a night! Tomorrow will probably be a tough day, marking the year anniversary. BUT as our dear Karen pointed out tonight on the phone, it's really a day to celebrate! We still have our Nic with us, and look how far he has come! More tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-09-24 22:18:07 (EST)

Happy Hump Day! It was a fairly good day for the Big Guy- he got to go on a field trip! The Craig staff took two big busloads to an area in the foothills outside Denver that has handicapped-accessible trails. I heard that they were gravel... poor Jody, our Physical Therapist that was Nic's buddy for the day! I'm sure that she got a workout pushing Nic around all afternoon! Not to mention the fact that she is in her late fifties and about 100 pounds! She's little but very mighty, so I'm sure that she did just fine. I'll hear more details of the trip tomorrow! I only got to see one session of Speech today before the outing. I stayed behind to sit on a panel for Craig's Foundation Board of Directors. It was very interesting, and I spoke of our story and my general impression of Craig Hospital and its staff. You can imagine that it was a glowing report! I hope to continue our association with Craig as a volunteer in the future, and try to give back to the place that has been such an amazing force in our lives for the past six months. It looks as if Nic will move to a private room tomorrow at Craig. I will stay there for much of the time until Nic is released to go home. This will enable me to do much of his required care while the hospital staff is there to assist me and to answer the MILLIONS of questions that will arise. I'm not looking forward to being at the hospital 24/7, but I know that I will be glad to have had the experience when October 10th arrives and it is time to go home to the loft! I'm not sure when I will start staying there, but it will be in the next five or six days. Our neighbor friends Jim and Jackie came by today, and our friend Matt as well. How lucky we are to have people still coming to visit and lend their offers of support! I love it! I'll close now and have a very late dinner! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-23 21:45:10 (EST)

A good evening to all of our family and friends in Support Circle Land! Hope that your Tuesday was just a little better than your Monday was... I can say that for Nic's day! He seemed a little better and happier today than yesterday. The hanging head is still a problem, and the staff at Craig are working hard to get to the bottom of the matter. No bottom jokes here for now! When I arrived at Craig this morning Bethany, Jim and Claud were already there. Nic had been in Speech, but with his head hanging down it's hard to get much speech out of him! I had to go sign paperwork on the van. By Friday or so I should be tooling around in an Ocean Mist Honda Odyssey! Our friend Pat came by today as well, and it was great to see her. Beth helped Nic eat some lunch, then Nic laid down for a rest while Beth and I went to "The Breakfast Queen" for lunch. I expect to walk out of there on to a street in a small town in Iowa- good food, nice people, great prices. Beth headed back to classes in Boulder, Nic was at another test when I returned. It was a test to make sure everything is fine with his kidneys and other plumbing in that area. I'm not sure why it was ordered, except to figure out why Nic keeps getting infections in that area. Nic rode the bike, stood in the standing frame and then entertained Carrie, Andy and I in the garden. Back in to the hospital for dinner, then we went our separate ways. Time to close and eat a little dinner myself! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-09-22 21:26:12 (EST)

A bit of a blah Monday for the Classick Crew. Nic was a little tired and unresponsive today... Could it have been too much excitement in the Wide World of Sports yesterday? I must say that this adventure could be compared to the television show, for we have surely experienced the thrill of victory and the agony of defeat many times over the past year. Nic was hanging his head again today- that is a hard one for me to handle. I am hoping that he was just tired, and that tomorrow will be a better day. I definitely have a good old fashioned cold, so I left the hospital a little early today. Hopefully I won't give it to Nic! Tammy and Sharon came by today just as Nic was given his lunch tray. It was good to see them! He had a difficult time with most of his therapies today, threw up this morning and just was not himself. Days such as these are so tough to take! BUT I am confident that the old Classick spirit will kick back in. He needs to finish this year with a flourish! Andy came by today at lunch as well, and got to see his Dad in the standing frame for a while. As I've said many times, I prefer this long and winding road to a short abrupt one, and would rather be going to the hospital each day than taking flowers to a cemetery! We are fortunate to still have our Nic with us, and as this adventure continues to unfold I know that you will continue to support us and send us messages of hope. We are so grateful! Here's to a better Tuesday! Love, Chris and family

2008-09-21 23:10:23 (EST)

Sunday evening, the good old U.S.A. won the Ryder Cup, our Broncos beat the Saints, and I'm on the couch watching the Emmy Awards. It has hit me this evening that I have watched very little T.V. this year... wish that I could say it's because Nic and I have been traveling or something equally fun! Anyway, I came home early today from the hospital. Think I'm getting a cold or the flu! It's my own fault; I just told someone last week that I've only been sick once in the last year! Nic was doing O.K. today. We sat in the Family Room at Craig and watched the Ryder Cup for most of the time I was there today, and Nic seemed very interested in it. It IS one of his favorite sporting events of the year, after all! Tom and I hung out while Nic ate his lunch. He fed himself much of his lunch and did pretty well! Carrie and Beth came by this afternoon and spent the rest of the day with Nic while I came home and laid on the couch. Hopefully I can nip this thing in the bud! Harold and Nick popped in to the hospital as well this afternoon- sorry to have missed you, guys! Here's hoping that the 52nd week of this adventure is a happy and productive one for our favorite patient! Tune in tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-20 23:48:18 (EST)

Saturday night and all is well in Classickland. I spent most of the day at the hospital, and Nic and I had lots of quality togetherness time! A very slow day at Craig today, and we hung out in the T-Zone for much of the day watching college football with a few other patients. Our friend Kelli came by with a friend of hers and we had a great visit. Nic tried doing some more foot propelling of his wheelchair, but was a little on the lazy side today- not unusual for a Saturday afternoon when football and the Ryder Cup is on T.V.! I left a little early today and met Kelli and her husband Andy at the loft. Andy's company made us a custom cupboard for the new bathroom, and it is the crowning touch! It looks great, and we went out for a sandwich before they headed back to Parker. How lucky are we to have friends with talent like that! I'm downtown tonight at the loft, hanging out and tying up a few loose ends. Andy and Kate went by to see Nic today after I left the hospital before picking up their hounds from our Parker house. It was fun to babysit last night! Tomorrow will be more of the same... is it any wonder I get mixed up which day is which? Hope that your Saturday was a good one! Love, Chris and Company

2008-09-19 23:32:50 (EST)

Fifty-one weeks of declaring Thank God It's Friday! Amazing! This adventure is not one that I would wish on my worst enemy, but we are indeed lucky to have all of you in our corner cheering us on and holding us up when we need it! And speaking of UP, Nic kind of stood up from his wheelchair today! Kevin was visiting and Nic was working with Jody in PT. Jody told Nic that his legs were getting so much stronger, maybe he should try using them to stand himself up. With Jody on one side and me on the other he used his legs to get his rear about three to four inches off of the seat of his chair!!!!! This is huge. He proceeded to do it four more times with great determination and fortitude. The gym was cheering for him and I had my usual tears of joy running down my face. Pretty cool. Nic then proceeded to propel himself the length of the gym in his chair using his feet. Both feet, methodically one after the other, even turning himself a bit when he would encounter an obstacle. Cheers all around again! When Dr. Yarnell arrived Nic propelled himself again to show off, and Dr. Yarnell just kept saying "This is FANTASTIC!" The sweet old guy gave me a huge hug and just kept shaking his head in amazement. A super good day for the big guy, and a wonderful way to end the week. Other big news of the day is that the Honda Odyssey fit down the ramp in the parking garage. It is very tight, and I will NOT be able to have a glass of wine before trying it, but the fact that it made it is very exciting! I gave the salesman a check to hold it for me, they will get the paperwork going, and by midweek next week we will be the proud owners of an Ocean Blue van. I said in 2000 that I would never again drive a minivan- just goes to show you to NEVER say never! I snuck out to lunch today with our friend Carol after we helped Nic eat his lunch. Kate had just arrived when I had to leave the hospital this afternoon for an appointment, and Andy wasn't far behind her. Grandma Chris gets to dog sit again this evening while Kate and Andy have a nice dinner and evening downtown at the loft. Carrie is in the mountains with her roommates this weekend, and Beth is deep into Recruitment stuff for the sorority. Busy, busy! That's how it should be, right? It's time to call it a day for me- I end this update with a smile on my face and lots of hope in my heart. Thanks, as always for your support! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-19 01:27:37 (EST)

A late update tonight- I did a bunch of stuff around the loft, and finished the famous shower curtain! Another strange medical glitch occured today. Remember the "Mystery of the Missing Blood" from many months ago? We all know that Nic is not an average kind of guy in any way, but this was crazy today! I was almost ready to leave to go to the hospital this morning and my phone rang. It was Nic's nurse at Craig. She said "Hey, Chris, Nic is just fine. We just have a question. Does Nic have a gall bladder; they can't find it during his ultrasound!". I proceeded to tell her that yes, as far as I know it should be there, right where the gall bladder is supposed to be. I guess that they never really saw the whole thing- perhaps it's a case of Alien Abduction! Nic was a little down again today- he did O.K. in his classes, but hung his head for most of the day and didn't have that urge to try hard that he usually does. Bethany spent most of the day with us and helped Nic eat his lunch. He did pretty well! The good news for the day was that Nic and I both looked at a converted Honda Odyssey today. He fit in it just fine (He IS a big guy, you know!) and I think that we will buy it. He gave me a thumbs up when I asked what he thought we should do. Even though the vehicle costs more than our first house, I am pretty sure that we'll take the plunge. Harold arrived as we were looking, and gave the thumbs up, too. Andy, Carrie and Brian came by after work to hang out with us in the T-Zone for awhile. Tomorrow morning the car salesman will bring the van to the loft to make sure it will fit in the underground parking garage for our building. Keep your fingers crossed! More from the Classicks tomorrow! Love, Chris and Crew

2008-09-18 01:43:20 (EST)

Hump Day is just about over, and today Nic had a little trouble getting over the hump. He was just a little blah today- he says that his stomach hurts again. He does have yet another U.T.I.- that may have something to do with his lack of energy. I should take a few minutes and count up how many Urinary Tract Infections that he has had in the past year. I know that it is too many! He will have an ultrasound tomorrow for his gall bladder- the doctor was gone by the time I found out about it today, so I don't know why it has been ordered. More tomorrow! Nic had a swallow test today to see if he could move on to less pureed foods. He was not a huge success at it- he did fine with the fruits and veggies, but had a problem with the meat. It was kind of a ground beef texture, and Nic had a hard time getting it down. He'll be on pureed food for a while longer, but is drinking out of a glass much better! Good and bad news, I guess! Bret came by this afternoon and we had a great visit out in the garden. Andy came by after work, and hung out for quite awhile until he left for Kate's volleyball game. Tomorrow the salesman for the other van dealer in Denver will bring a Honda Odyssey to Craig for us to try with Nic. I am getting a little bit excited for a new vehicle purchase- I'd prefer a fun convertible for Nic and I to tool around in on fun cross-country jaunts, but for now a wheelchair van will have to do! I'm at the loft tonight, doing a little laundry and making a few phone calls. Hope that your evening was a great one! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and Company

2008-09-17 00:32:27 (EST)

Happy Tuesday to all! Sorry about the lack of update last night... by the time that we finished all of the "honeydo's" at the loft it was almost midnight! I love you all, but not enough to get back out of bed to do an update for! Yesterday and today have been good ones again. Linda, Paul and I spent most of the day yesterday at the hospital, leaving only to have lunch and run errands in preparation for the work at the loft. One trip to Costco and one to Lowe's later we were ready to roll! We now have a t.v. mounted in the guest room, a new shelf up in the new bathroom, a cupboard mounted on the wall in the kitchen, and a myriad of smaller but no less important details handled. Andy set up a new digital video recorder on the t.v. as well- what would I do without all of their help?!! Andy, Kate and Carrie had dinner at the loft with us last night as well. Busy day! Nic did a great job in all of his classes yesterday and today- supreme effort is paying off in all areas! Andy, Carrie and Beth were all at the hospital this morning by the time Linda, Paul and I arrived, and we made quite the entourage for Nic! He was in the standing frame and had lots to keep him occupied! Jim and Claud came by just in time to take Nic downstairs at Craig to the cafeteria, and we all enjoyed lunch. We then went to the Transportation Clinic. We tried Nic out in a converted Toyota Sienna and a Chevy Uplander. The Toyota fit him just fine, and will be an option for a vehicle. I still want to try him in the Honda Odyssey, and hopefully will accomplish that this week. The good news is that I'll be driving a minivan, not a full-sized van... much better! Linda and Paul attended Nic's Speech Therapy session this afternoon and were very pleased with what they saw. He voiced several times, and even answered "Laguna Niguel" when Melea asked him where Linda and Paul were flying back to. Hooray! He said my name again, too- double hooray! I had to take them to the airport this afternoon, which made us very sad. BUT I think that they will be back again; that's the amazing friends that they are. What would we do without all of you?! We're glad that we don't have to find out! Thanks for checking in with us- Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-09-15 12:20:27 (EST)

2008-09-15 01:16:19 (EST)

Another very good day for Nic today! He was up in his chair all day, watching football on T.V. and visiting with friends and family. Tom was already there when I arrived, and Nic had just finished a whole bowl of pureed pizza... yum! Bruce and Lynn arrived for a visit as well, and we had a nice time hanging out in Craig's family room. Bethany arrived soon after I left to pick up our dear Paul and Linda at the airport. Nic was very happy to see them and we watched football and talked for the rest of the afternoon. Nic's facial expressions were priceless today- he is on his way BACK! We all went out for dinner, talked to Carrie and Brian for awhile at the loft, and Paul had already figured out how he is going to tackle the honeydo's that I have in store for him! A happy and productive day! Hope you can say the same! Love, Chris and family

2008-09-13 23:46:26 (EST)

Could it be? Two great updates on Nic in a row! YES!! Another very, very good day today, spent entertaining friends and family all day long. When Chuck and I arrived at Craig this morning they were getting him out of bed to start his day. With no therapy on the weekends, the patients get to be a little lazy! Darryl and Kim arrived, and we headed to the "T-Zone"- a room filled with games, tables and a big screen T.V. Our friends Gale and Beth arrived next, and the Classick Crew and Co. proceeded to occupy that room for the rest of the day as we were blessed with many waves of company. Nic held court just as he has so many times, ate lunch and dinner in there, played ball, and even held our friends Nina and Matt's granddaughter Kaiya. Andy, Carrie and Brian, Bethany and her friend Marissa, brother Craig and his kids Sheridan and Brooks, our friend Larry and brother Harold and his son Nick all graced our presence today! Nic was very engaged and interested in all that was happening and really seemed to enjoy himself all day. He did a little bit of voicing again and seemed Nic-like each step of the way. From around 11:00 this morning until 6:00 this evening we held our Open House, and I can't tell you how good it felt that Nic was there, awake and engaged for the entire time. The brothers, niece and nephews, Andy, Kate and I went out for pizza afterward. It was a festive atmosphere, to be sure! Dare we hope for a THIRD day in a row tomorrow? Tune in and find out! Linda and Paul arrive tomorrow for another visit... I sure hope that they get to witness the new and improved Nic! Keep those fingers crossed once again! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-09-12 22:47:28 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the 50th week! Wow. We couldn't have celebrated 50 weeks of this grand adventure any better than we did today, for Nic was GOLDEN today. It was probably one of his best days in the last 350 days... truly a great one! When Chuck and I arrived at Craig this morning Toby was already there, hanging out with Nic, watching him eat his yummy pureed breakfast and attending his classes. Nic sat on the edge of the mat in Physical therapy, stood in the standing frame, worked on rolling and trying to help with his dressing in bed. Toby and Chuck went to speech, where they got to hear Nic speak aloud several times, use controlled breath to blow some bubbles, and do a little more eating and drinking. Nic actually said Toby, Chuck, and (drumroll please...) CHRIS! He actually said my name for the first time since September 26th, and I must say it sounded quite nice!!!! Nic ate three meals (such as they are) today, went to the transportation clinic at Craig, played UNO, and let me transfer him pretty much by myself from his bed to his chair. We will be able to take home a portable lift from Craig, and I tried it on my own today. Jody, his Physical Therapist supervised, but I was able to do it pretty well by myself. A big relief! Nic actually beat Chuck and Harold in UNO later on in the afternoon. He was very smiley today, held his head up well and was so much like our Nic that I found myself tearing up numerous times today! What a glorious day! Chuck, Harold, nephew Nick and I went out for a very nice dinner tonight (thanks, Harold!) and now Chuck and I are going to watch a movie at home. I feel as if we should be having a party... wish you were all here! Keep your fingers crossed that I can say the same thing tomorrow! Love, Chris and all

2008-09-12 00:26:10 (EST)

Thursday night and all is well. Chuck and I spent most of the day with Nic at Craig, attending his classes and hanging out! Bethany was there for much of the morning, so Nic had quite the entourage today! It was a pretty good day for him, though he was perhaps a little under the weather. He did get sick this morning as they were getting him up and dressed, and complained that his stomach hurt again. Hmmm- it always seems to be something! Chuck and I took off at noon and went to look at Wheelchair vans. We found a Honda Odyssey that we really liked, so tomorrow we will find out at Craig's Transportation Clinic if Nic will fit in it! As I have heard almost every day for nearly a year... "He's a big guy, you know!". After classes this afternoon we hung out with Nic in the family room and I fed him a little dinner. He can eat real (pureed) food again, and now can even take sips of real liquids out of a glass! The liquids don't need to be thickened as they previously were, so I think that sips of real ice water tasted mighty good to the Big Guy tonight! A nice Merlot out of a stemmed glass perhaps would be more appealing, but we'll take this one day at a time. Our friend Toby is popping in tomorrow. He is one of our original Oracle Angels from San Francisco, and we have not seen him since we left there. Can't wait to see him! Hope that your day was a great one, and we appreciate that you continue to check in on us! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-10 22:11:10 (EST)

Happy Hump Day... made even happier because Nic's day today seemed to get him out of the slump of the past several months and over the hump! He had an extremely busy day today, with no time to even have a rest in the middle of the day! He went next door to Swedish Hospital for another Video Swallow Evaluation today. Melea, his therapist for Speech thought that the swallowing was a lot better than she had expected, and Nic gets to try some real food tomorrow! He had to take bites of various foods of varying thicknesses that were laced with that yummy taste treat, BARIUM! An X-Ray type thing showed each swallow, timed how long it took, and showed the food go "through the teeth, over the gums, look out stomach, here it comes!". I can't help but think that if the food really tasted good he would swallow it even more quickly, but hopefully that will come in good time. We've had a little trouble with Nic hanging his head recently, so the staff tried a neck brace thing today. The jury is still out on whether it will work or not, but I'm sure they will all put their heads together and figure out the problem, as usual! Just in case you had forgotten the Saga of Nic's Butt, I did get a good look at it this evening, and it is looking mighty fine! We still have to "weight shift" him in his chair every 30 minutes, but right now there are no problems with his skin. Hooray! Weight shifts consist of us tipping him back in his wheelchair so that the weight is off his behind. We can also bend him way forward so that his head is almost on his knees, but it's a little more difficult. Nic Classick has never been known for his Gymnastics skills! We had visits today from Jeff, the man who helped remodel our Parker house, our friend Judy, and our favorite daughter-in-law, Kate. I'm in Parker right now waiting for the arrival of Chuck... he should be here any time, saddle sores and all! (I guess that I can't help but reference Classick behinds, can I?). All in all it was a good day, with Nic giving his all to his therapies and responding very well. What more can we ask? Until tomorrow, enjoy the rest of your evening! Love, Chris and family

2008-09-10 01:29:28 (EST)

Good evening to our friends and family in the Mountain and Western time zones, and good morning to all in the Central and Eastern zones! A late update tonight, due to the fact that I finally had some energy and have been sewing this evening! Those sewing lessons from my Great Grandma Ida, Grandma Wigton and my dear Mom have come in handy over the years, and I am making a shower curtain for the loft bathroom! Even someone like me with well-honed shopping skills could not find the perfect shower curtain, so the Domestic Goddess in me prevailed. It's about 3/4ths finished, and I must say it's looking good! The energy that I have had tonight is in direct proportion to the day that my amazing husband had today. He had another really great day! He worked SO hard in all of his classes, working very diligently on the mat, stood in the standing frame for his 30 minute stint, did a wonderful job swallowing and did LOTS of mouthing of words. He remembered that we've been married for 29 years, and that we dated for five years before our marriage. He couldn't quite get my name again, but who cares? I can remind him as many times as he needs it! As I told his speech therapist, Terry, back at Kindred- I don't care if he calls me SCUMBAG as long as he just says SOMETHING! Bethany hung out with her dad for a long time today while I had an appointment. She was very happy with how Nic was doing, and entertained our friend Matt while she was there. Carrie came by after work today and was playing a mean game of catch with Nic when I spoke with her. She, too was tickled with how responsive Nic was today! The staff at Craig has Nic back in a narrower hospital bed that has extra length at the end. They're evaluating whether or not a bed such as that will work for us when we go home in a MONTH!!!! A month from now... hard to believe. It's scary, but exciting at the same time. Brother Chuck, the Road Warrior will make the drive from Missouri tomorrow- it will be good for both Nic and I to spend some time with him! Time for bed... thanks for checking in with us once again! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany.

2008-09-09 00:52:42 (EST)

I dragged myself off the couch to come into the office to write this, and truly enjoyed the messages posted this evening. It sometimes boggles my mind to realize how lucky we are to still be receiving encouraging words from many of you, from all areas of the world and all walks of life. We are truly blessed and feel unending gratitude that each of you have touched our lives. Thank you so very much! Today was a very busy one for our favorite patient. He was not as tired as I expected after his big day yesterday, and he sailed through his classes today. Biking and standing has been added back to his schedule, so he is an even busier boy. His swallow has improved again, and it shouldn't be long before he is "pleasure eating" again. Jim and Claud spent several hours this morning with us, and we had a nice lunch together, too. Sorry to have missed Les and Janet- I'm sure Nic enjoyed your visit! I got home this evening after running some errands fully planning on doing a few more things this evening, but phone calls and the couch beckoned! Ah well, there is always tomorrow! Wishing you a Terrific Tuesday tomorrow... we'll chat tomorrow night! Love, Chris and all

2008-09-07 23:07:47 (EST)

Sunday evening, Nic is resting comfortably back at Craig after a very happy and successful afternoon at the loft! We were picked up at 2:00 at Craig by a transportation company that specializes in wheelchair mobility. Our very nice driver drove us downtown, where we were met by Carrie and Brian, ready to escort us upstairs. Just as I had hoped, our building proved to be very accessible, and Brian got Nic upstairs with Carrie and I following in hot pursuit! Bethany was already there, we hung out and did a little cooking after giving Nic the tour. I'm not sure he really remembered the place, but we had a good time showing him around and telling stories of all the fun we had buying, furnishing and decorating! The new bathroom should work out very well, and we were able to go all through the condo with no problems. Whew! Harold soon arrived, as well as Kate and Carrie's roommates Gabby and Lauren (Andy is in San Francisco all week on Oracle business). Nic did really well for a full four hours, and we arrived back at Craig just as he was seeming very tired. I write to you tonight feeling very pleased with the outing, and confident that we'll do just fine in a month or so when we bring Nic home for good. It was a good day, and I hope that you can say the same! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-06 21:55:19 (EST)

Happy Saturday, everyone! It's been a good day for the Classick Crew. I arrived at Craig this morning to find Nic still in bed... they don't usually get him up on the weekends until I arrive, which is just fine. He seemed happy to see me- a very good thing after all of these years! We tooled around the hospital for awhile until our Super Saturday group, Darryl, Kim and Tom arrived. We took over the conference room for a great visit, until I had to leave to attend a wedding reception for our friends Jim and Claud's son Tim and his bride Lindsey. The Eightolfarts picked me up downtown and we had a great time celebrating the newlyweds! Carrie spent the afternoon with her dad and reported that he was doing very well while she was there... HOORAY! The amantadine has kicked in and we have our Nic back. What a great thing! Tomorrow we are taking Nic to the loft for a few hours. Carrie and Beth will come, too, as well as brothers Harold, Craig and their families. I hope that seeing one of our homes for the first time in almost a year will perk him up! It will be very interesting to see if he remembers it. Even though we have only had the loft for three years we have already made lots of wonderful memories there- some of them with many of you! The bathroom is finished except for a few details, so it will be ready for Nic to come home in a month or so. I can't wait! Hope that your weekend is going well- thanks for checking in! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-09-05 23:13:58 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for, as our dear friend Bob tells us, the forty-ninth week! This workweek ended fairly well, as Nic seemed to be doing a little better today. He had a very full day of therapies, worked on the mat for about an hour and a half total, and even did a little eating of some Italian Ice in Speech! His own wheelchair looks pretty good, and he told his PT today that it felt comfortable. He still tends to hang his head a bit, which looks very painful! He must be sick of me asking him to straighten up his neck and put his shoulders back! He tried very hard today in all of his classes, rode the bike and generally had a good day. Harold, Andy and Kate all came by after work today and we had a good visit. We watched a DVD that our Oracle friend Glenn put together for Nic with craziness and messages from Oracle people in Denver, Salt Lake City, San Francisco and Phoenix... Nic really enjoyed it, guys! Thanks to you especially, Glenn, for producing it! We'll watch it numerous times, I'm sure. I wish that we were hanging out with all of you at Club someplace tropical! Andy, Kate and I went out for dinner tonight after the hospital, and here I am in Parker, doing laundry and writing yet another update. I have a feeling that tomorrow will be an even better day for Nic than today was! Until then, hope your weekend has started out beautifully! Love, Chris and family

2008-09-05 00:31:31 (EST)

The roller coaster ride continues... today was not such a great day for the big guy. He was sleepy and a bit more unresponsive today compared to yesterday. All of his therapies were attended, but Nic had a hard time staying on task today. His last therapy of the day was speech. Melea, the therapist and Carrie were with Nic and asked him if he felt bad. He indicated that his chest hurt, so they found his nurse and she got the ball rolling to make sure his heart was O.K. Within fifteen minutes he had an EKG, blood test to check for a heart problem and his vitals checked several times. Thank God everything was O.K, and Carrie stayed with him until later in the evening. He's on a new medication for blood sugar that can cause nausea, so hopefully that was the problem. By the time Carrie left this evening he was feeling much better... Let's hope that tomorrow will be an improvement over today! Bethany and I had lunch today with Carol, Jim and Claud after they had a nice visit with Nic. Carrie came by after a meeting in Denver and took over my job while I came to the loft and met our friends Andy and Kelli. Andy's company is making us a cupboard for the new bathroom, so he measured and helped me decide what I want! We went out for dinner, and thank heavens Carrie was able to be with Nic. Thanks, as always, for your unrelenting support. Send us a message when you get an extra minute or two! We love hearing from you! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-09-04 01:03:49 (EST)

Happy Hump Day to all! Wednesday this week brings Nic back over the hump, for he was almost back to how he was week before last today! Hooray, hooray! He was quite alert when I arrived this morning, gave me a smile and was really helpful with his Tech Kelly as she was getting him up and dressed. It's so funny; all of the staff at Craig likes Nic so much and thinks he's such a nice guy. All of these feelings of goodwill when he's never really talked to them, told them one of his stories, or shared that amazing laugh with them. Goes to show you that a big personality comes through no matter what! Nic's therapies went very well today, he had some voicing again in speech- quiet, but a voice nonetheless. Thank God! The ladies in the Positioning Clinic did their thing again today, and Nic's chair will be tweaked once again until they are sure that it fits him just right. Beth and I hung out with Nic for awhile today before we both had to leave for afternoon appointments. I hated to leave today, but the good news is I got a very soft "I love you" out of Nic when I kissed him goodbye this afternoon. You wouldn't think that after 34 years "I love you" from my husband would dissove me into tears, but it happened! This experience has definitely taught us to cherish the simple moments. Today was better than yesterday; surely tomorrow will top both of those days! Beth and I did a little Therapeutic Shopping this evening, had a bite to eat and are in Parker for the night. I'm ready to end the day, so goodnight to all of our family and friends! Thanks for hanging in there with us; we will never forget your support. Love, Chris and family

2008-09-03 00:34:21 (EST)

It was a beautiful, cool Monday here today in Colorado, but the COOLEST thing that happened was that Nic is back on his amantadine. Amantadine is normally used as a drug for Parkinsons, and helps build dopamines in the brain. I could already see a tad bit of improvement today in Nic- he was at least answering questions with a head nod or shake and was generally just a little more responsive. I hate to sound childish, but I am very happy that I got my way!!! I am especially happy for Nic, because I think that we will see him get back to how he was week before last. It's so nice that the people at Craig listen to family members and want so badly to do the right thing. Bless them all! Carrie popped in to see her dad this morning before an appointment to start Nic's day out right. Bethany and I hung out with Nic later this morning until noon or so, when I went to lunch with Pat and two other lovely ladies. Nic had all of his therapies, including being back on the hand and foot bike. He was pretty tuckered out by 4:00 or so, so went back to bed. I stayed around until 6:00, said my goodbyes and headed to the loft. The bathroom is just about finished! Another day or so should do it... hooray! It looks nice and should be very functional when we get Nic home. I just returned from having a drink with Ponz, Kevin and Erin- they're leaving for a safari tomorrow! Keep your fingers crossed that Nic has an even better day tomorrow, and we'll touch base then! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-09-02 00:04:25 (EST)

Happy Labor Day! The official end of summer... here's hoping that Autumn will bring great things for all! In my listing of our wonderful visitors yesterday I neglected to include our favorite "outlaws", Kate's parents Cindy and Steve. We had another great bunch pop in today. Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany, as well as Brian, Doug, Larry, Carol and brothers Harold and Craig. We spent most of the social time outside in the garden again- if fresh air can help make Nic better, we're making sure to get lots of it! Nic and I had lunch outside today and dined al fresco with his roommate Paul and his wife Mary. Nic couldn't eat with us (Craig had a Barbeque for the holiday), but we were entertained royally by roommate Paul. He thought that Nic was his friend Frank, and then his friend Lloyd that he skis with, so I think Paul had a good time visiting with TWO imaginary friends while dining! You have to laugh about it, or the tears will surely come! Beth ended up deciding to spend the night here in Parker since she has a late class tomorrow. Nic was just a tiny bit better today, but still not responsive or engaged. Tune in tomorrow to see what happens in the continuing saga of "The Adventures of Nic and his Amantadine!". Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-08-31 21:58:19 (EST)

O.K., is anyone detecting a pattern here? I fell asleep on the couch AGAIN last night... two Saturday nights in a row! I guess that my life is just holding a little too much excitement! Sorry about the lack of update last night, but there was not a whole lot to report anyway! Yesterday I got to the hospital about 9:30 and my sleeping giant was still sleeping. We got him up and went outside to get a breath of fresh air, hoping that it would wake Nic up a bit! Alas, no such luck. Carrie and Brian soon arrived, and even those two didn't have success. The three of us (minus Nic) left shortly after noon and headed to a barbeque at the home of Carrie's good friend Corey. He was back in town from Chicago for the University of Colorado/ Colorado State game today, and we had a great time seeing all of Carrie's best guy friends from high school. Back to the hospital where we hung out with Nic a little more... still not much response from him. I told our visitors today that it like someone sucked the personality out of him. I have said from the beginning of this adventure that I can handle ANY outcome as long as we have Nic's personality intact, so the past week or so has been pretty frustrating and sad. I have let my feelings be known around Craig Hospital (surprise!), so hopefully the amantadine will be back on Nic's menu of medicines SOON. We had lots of great visitors today; Darryl and Kim, Ponz and Kevin, and Jim and Claud all came by for a lovely visit in the garden. After running a couple of errands this afternoon I arrived back at Craig and we couldn't get Nic awake enough to get him back up in his chair! I left him snoozing this evening with the CU/CSU game blaring at his bedside... hope he wakes up to see at least a little of the game! Hope you're enjoying a wonderful long weekend! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-30 00:35:18 (EST)

A very happy Friday night to all of you, with wishes for a lovely Labor Day weekend! Wow, another season over while we are still in the midst of this situation. Mind boggling. So, today was another mediocre day for our dear Nicholas. He was in some pain again today- hopefully still just residual pain from the procedure on Tuesday. His therapies went fairly well, but we're having trouble getting him to swallow and to try to speak in Speech. He did lay on his stomach on the mat today again. Imagine how it must feel for Nic to lay on his stomach after all of these months of being on his back! He did some rolling over onto his side, and sat quite well on the edge of the mat. Nic just seems sad, and rightfully so! I am really hoping that the next few days will bring a return to him having a little more spunk, poor baby. After leaving early yesterday to go to the mechanic (and thanks, Bruce, for helping me with Nic!) I left early again today. But the good news is that I now have turn signals! Hooray! Our dear Cyndi came for a visit to Craig, then followed me to the mechanic. She and I did a little shopping, had our own Friday Afternoon Club and by the time we were finished my car was, too! Luckily Andy and Kate, Bethany and her friend Marissa all hung out with Nic after I left this afternoon. Join with me in a fervent wish that tomorrow brings a better day for Nic, and a great day for all of you, too! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Beth

2008-08-28 22:02:00 (EST)

Two steps forward, a step or two back seems to be the theme of this grand adventure! Nic had just an O.K. day today... he seems to be very tired and lethargic and is not very interested in anything that the therapists are trying to get him to do! The Amantadine has been stopped again for some reason, so tomorrow I will speak to Dr. Ripley and see why. Every time that has happened Nic has become less responsive! At least that has been Dr. Chris' observation! He did have some decent sessions of therapy today and did a great job of sitting up at the edge of the mat. His very own personal wheelchair has arrived, so the staff will be tweaking it for some time to come. The people at Craig never cease to amaze me in their dedication to every aspect of every patient! My next order of business is to start looking for a wheelchair accessible van. I think that it will have to be a full-size van, not a minivan, so watch out Denver, here we come! I guess that it will be good to have more room for all of the road trips I'm planning to take us on! Speaking of cars, my turn signals are not working, so a trip to the mechanic today and again tomorrow is necessary! I want to limp this Audi along until we figure out the vehicle deal! I have been successful this week in avoiding the DNC- tomorrow morning I head to the loft to meet the contractor, so hopefully the craziness is almost cleaned up by then. Keep Nic in your thoughts and prayers that he gets back on the road to improvement tomorrow- if this is getting old for all of us, imagine how he must feel! Thanks for checking in, love, Chris and family

2008-08-28 00:48:31 (EST)

We're halfway through the week, and I would say that Nic is about halfway back to where he was a few days ago... BEFORE yesterday's procedure. I had an early meeting today, and when I arrived at Craig Nic wasn't there! I knew that he was scheduled to go on an outing with the Craig staff to Denver's Botanical Gardens. Much to my surprise, he wanted to go this morning! According to Melea, our speech therapist (she was his "spotter" on the excursion) he did quite well and seemed to be pretty interested in the gardens. Maybe he'll have a new hobby once this adventure is over! I imagine that he was so thrilled to be out and about he wouldn't have really cared WHERE he was! He returned to the hospital at about 12:30 and went right to bed for a little snooze. Nic had a few classes later in the afternoon and did O.K., but by about 6:00 this evening he was ready for a shower and to go back to bed again. His blood pressure was up a bit today, so his medication for that has been upped, at least for a while. Andy came by after work, but Nic wasn't too alert for either of us. He usually really fires up when the kids are around, but I think that between the procedure yesterday and the outing today he had reached his limit! Hopefully tomorrow will be even better, he'll feel rested and ready for therapy once again. Thanks, as always, for checking up on us... we'd love to hear what's going on with you! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-08-26 22:16:22 (EST)

Another surgical procedure is over for the Big Guy, and he came through it with flying colors! The urologist that did the procedure said that it went just fine; he zapped three stones about an inch in diameter and was able to "irrigate out" a bunch of smaller ones. An inch in diameter! No wonder Nic has been in pain! I have two lovely "before and after" pictures through the scope if anyone is interested! Those may be two pictures that would be scarier than Nic dressed as a woman to post on Support Circle! The procedure was performed with Nic sedated and having only a spinal anesthetic- no general anesthetic- so, hopefully he will bounce back more quickly than usual. He got back to his room at Craig by about 4:30 and was tired but seemed O.K. The kids were all there today at one time or another... are we the luckiest parents ever?! I'm back in Parker and am exhausted- I feel as if I might have been given a sedative, too! I'll close for tonight and make it an early evening- I've got two meetings tomorrow as well as our usual round of classes with Nic at the hospital. Hope all is well with you and yours! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-25 23:10:51 (EST)

A Monday evening update to cover Sunday and Monday! First, for those of you who saw that a tornado hit Parker, Colorado... I am alive and well, and didn't even know a tornado touched down until I had several calls and emails from people inquiring about my safety! Thanks for worrying, our dear friends and family! We had no damage or even evidence of high winds... hmmm. We don't have many tornadoes in Colorado, so it was the big excitement! Nic's past two days have been fairly uneventful. Sunday was spent with several visits outside, hanging out with Carrie and Brian, Bethany, Harold and Nick. Beth brought Nic (and us!) ice cream from McDonald's and Nic ate almost an entire McFlurry! The girls, Brian and I went to lunch and a little shopping spree (Target, nothing too thrilling!). Today was filled with lots of classes for Nic, but I think that the pain from the bladder stones was pretty bad. It's a good thing the procedure to obliterate them is tomorrow! It will be at 1:30 in the afternoon and is supposed to only take a half hour or so. He has to be on an antibiotic AGAIN and the nurses had some difficulty tonight getting an IV started. When I left tonight the fourth nurse was trying... Poor Nic the pincushion! He was a little less responsive and seemed to not feel well today, but did go to all of his classes. Andy came by this evening after work and before a softball game he was playing... many of you remember Nic's softball days in Omaha many moons ago! Lots of good memories; I can't wait until this grand adventure is over and we can make many more wonderful memories with all of you! Enjoy a great evening, Love, Chris and family

2008-08-24 09:08:15 (EST)

Good morning! I fell asleep on the couch last night and obviously didn't do an update on Nic... another exciting Saturday night! It was a good day, relaxing for Nic with no therapies, but we managed to give him a bit of a workout, anyway! Carrie, her roommates Lauren and Gabby and Gabby's boyfriend Kevin were already tossing the football with Nic in the gym when I arrived yesterday. I had a lovely breakfast in Parker with our friends Larry and Carol before heading to Craig. Thanks, you two! We took Nic out to the garden for awhile before Nic laid down for his noontime rest. The rest of the afternoon flew by, Nic ate a little dinner and then Andy and Larry visited with us in the family room at Craig. Nic insisted on wearing Andy's hat under his helmet, so he had a double layer of protection on his head! It was a day of alertness, trying to use his voice and good sessions of visits. Nic kicked both of his feet in the air while sitting in his chair, and did a great job of holding both of his arms up, too. He is definitely gaining strength every day! The skin looks good, and we're keeping an careful eye on things in that regard. Do you miss the daily bottom update?!! I don't! I'm on my way to enjoy coffee with the Eightolfarts and then will head to Craig to do it all over again! Have a good Sunday! Love, Chris and kids

2008-08-22 23:37:11 (EST)

Forty-five weeks of wishing you all Thank Goodness it's Friday, and you have been behind us every step of the way. We are very blessed to count each of you in our circle of family and friends, and I hope that we will live the rest of our lives working to deserve the blessings that we have received. We indeed have been especially blessed this week, for the end of the work week has brought us two weeks of great progress for Nic. How he is doing is definitely the barometer that indicates how the kids and I are doing... when he's had a good week, we have too! More of the same, wonderful accomplishments today. I swear I can see him getting stronger before my very eyes! When I arrived this morning Nic was already working with OT doing some arm strengthening exercises. Our friend George arrived soon after, visiting from Milwaukee. He's in town to root for the Packers tonight, but we won't hold that against him! He and I then watched Nic work on the mat with PT- he practically transferred himself from chair to mat, and then back again after his session was over! I left Nic in George's capable hands to supervise while Nic was in the standing frame and I went to meet with Melissa, our social worker at Craig. She is an amazing young lady, and has been invaluable help to us as we wade through the red tape and paperwork involved in this adventure! I ran to the loft to pick up a few things, then to meet Andy to transfer a car title this afternoon. Bethany went with Nic to his afternoon classes, played hostess to Matt and Harold when they visited, and watched Nic eat a whole cup of ice cream by himself this afternoon! The ice cream they've been giving Nic is called "magic cup". It's 290 calories for a little cup, and doesn't really melt... it turns into a pudding-like stuff as it thaws. Pretty amazing stuff, and no artificial things in it, I'm sure! Ha! Our speech therapist said we could give Nic real ice cream this weekend, so it will be off to Dairy Queen for a Blizzard tomorrow- one of Nic's favorite treats!! As soon as Nic was finished with classes we held a little impromptu party in the "T-Zone"- a room at Craig kind of like a game room. Tom, Darryl and Kim, Bret, Andy and Kate, and Beth and I all had a great visit... the only thing missing was drinks, appetizers and some great stories from Nic! Nic ate quite a dinner before we left for the evening- Pureed broccoli, tomato soup and strawberry mousse. He ate nearly everything and seemed to enjoy it, even with the weird texture. The most important thing was that he swallowed well! What a great thing to see! Beth and I went out for a bite to eat and then headed north to Boulder and south to Parker for the evening. More of the same for me tomorrow! Talk to you then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-08-22 01:07:20 (EST)

Good evening to all! I just returned to Parker from spending the evening in Boulder with Bethany and four of her friends, Carrie and Brian. I first stopped in Superior (a town almost to Boulder) to see Carrie's office and meet her bosses. That was fun! Many would KILL for the view from Carrie's office! Anyway, we all went out for a nice dinner and had a very good time. Long drive home, however! Nic is going to be boring again... he had another great day! I arrived later than usual today and left earlier than usual, but the time that I was there was productive! He sat on the mat for a full hour today, strengthening his core muscles and relearning how to bend over at the waist, straigten back up and do it all over again! I learned some range of motion exercises in PT so that we can work Nic out when he's not in class. I missed Sharon and Val this morning- dang! Hope you had a good visit with Nic, ladies! It was the day for the ladies today, as Janet popped in for a visit, too and went to speech class with us. Nic did some more voicing of sounds- it will take lots of practice to get the breathing and forming of the sounds coordinated, but Melea (our therapist) thinks that there is no physical reason that Nic won't be able to talk eventually. It will just be lots of hard work!! After I left tonight our favorite person from Kindred Hospital, Victoria came to see Nic. I'm very sorry I missed her, but hope we'll see her again soon. See, I told you it was a day for the ladies! All in all it was another great day for our favorite Craig patient- hope your day was great, too! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-20 23:24:41 (EST)

Is this getting boring hearing about one good day for Nic after another! I hope not! Today was another great one, with a repeat of the past week and a half or so. Alertness was great, effort was supreme, progress was fantastic! Nic spent a half hour in the standing frame again, did a whole hour on the mat with OT and PT co-treating. Nic laid on his stomach for the first time since September 26th! He did some rolling from side to side, worked his legs really well and did two excellent sliding board transfers from his chair to the mat and back. We heard some more sound in speech today- Nic seems to be getting the idea that breath needs to accompany making sounds... he made all of the vowel sounds today, one right after the other. Sounds easy, but it was a big deal! Our friend Gale watched PT and OT today and then accompanied Nic to his second half hour of Speech. It's fun for me to see our friends and family watch Nic go through his classes- it's like I'm seeing the progress through fresh eyes. I think that I'm used to the idea of being at Craig for another two months now. I'm excited about the prospect of what two more months of intensive therapy can accomplish... especially if (knock on wood!) Nic continues to progress as he has the last 10 days! A young man named Jason left Craig today. He is the last of the patients on our floor that was here when we arrived, so I guess that we are the old veterans of 2 West right now! Andy and I watched a little T.V. with Nic at the end of the day, and left the television on the Olympic network when we left for the day. One of our two favorite techs, Yvonne was on duty tonight and is from Jamaica. I told her it was a family request that she watch the Jamaicans run tonight with Nic! I'm meeting the contractor tomorrow morning to discuss the final steps of the remodel, and then plan to be in Parker until the Democratic National Convention is a distant memory! I'm at the loft tonight and it looks like a busy anthill all around us! Nic would be enjoying all of this hubbub- I think I'll watch it on T.V.! Talk to you tomorrow! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-08-19 23:20:47 (EST)

It was a Terrific Tuesday for the Classick Clan... especially for Nic! It just keeps getting better and better. We heard some more voicing today- names of the family, yes and no, some short answers to questions. I just cannot wait until he can talk. Everything else will seem better if we just have his personality back! I must say that he can do more with his facial expressions than most people can do with a degree in Communications, but we miss that voice! He had some good progress in all of his classes today, worked very hard and seemed to focus on each task better than he ever has. He has not complained of any pain from the bladder stones for the last four or five days. We had our family meeting today and it was attended by myself, Andy, Carrie, Bethany and NIC! I decided that there was no reason that Nic shouldn't be present when we're talking about him, so Dr. Ripley gave the go ahead. He sat very patiently and listened very intently with his hands folded in his lap. The staff did a great job of talking TO him, not over him, and he seemed to get a lot out of the meeting. I told the staff that Nic has been known to make late arrivals to meetings sing a song, so everyone was on time! During the meeting Nic had a little coughing fit. When it was over he very clearly and audibly said "I'm sorry"- two of the best words any of us have heard! We were all very excited. There is still a lot to be done before our release- Nic's progress AND equipment to be ordered and things to be finalized. We are probably looking at a release from Craig Hospital in October now- either the middle of October or the end. I am happy to keep him there as long as possible- I think that is where the real progress will be made. I am SO excited for him to be out of the hospital and home with us, but there is lots of improvement still ahead! I know it will go by quickly- I will say it again; Time flies even when you're NOT having that much fun! I missed Joan today while I was running an errand- so sorry, Joan! Bret came by this afternoon and hung out with Nic, Carrie, Beth and I for awhile. The girls and I went out for Mexican food and then went our separate ways. What would I do without our wonderful kids?!! Time to go do some laundry- Let us know what's been going on with you! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-18 23:37:20 (EST)

Monday night, and I think that this is going to be another great week for Nic! He was up in his chair for a total of six hours today, three in the morning and three in the afternoon. His great attitude is back, and he gave supreme effort to all of his therapies today. They tweaked his chair a little more in PT today, and worked him on the mat. Nic sat in a rocking chair in OT- rocking works the abdominal muscles- (think the Ab Rocker exercise apparatus on late night infomercials!!) which will help him be able to sit up himself. He stood in the standing frame for a half hour today and did really well! Speech found him working more on swallowing, mouthing words and mouth exercises... no voice today, but we're working on it! His whisper is getting consistently louder and his enunciation is better each day. Andy asked him tonight what he really wants to eat when he can eat solid food. He mouthed "bread". I asked him what kind of bread, and Andy said "like a bagel, or what?". Nic got very excited and pointed at Andy like he had guessed the right word in a game of Charades. So, I guess that I will be going to a Bagel shop one of these days!! Who would have picked a bagel? I expected Steak Oscar at the Capitol Grille!! We had lots of our great friends and family stop by today: Beth, Andy, Harold, Jim, Claud, Jim and Jackie all came by to say hi! Love those visits!! We have a Family Meeting tomorrow again with all of the doctors, nurses, and therapists, and should get a better idea of when our release date will be- it should be later than September 2nd since we have had more Medical days because of the skin issue. See, you thought I wouldn't mention Nic's rear end today! It is looking mighty fine! On that note I will close for the day- thanks for tuning in! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-08-17 23:26:53 (EST)

Sunday night and I just returned from a "Deck Warming" party at a neighbor's in Parker. It's always good to see neighbor friends and to be able to thank them in person for continuing to keep an eye on our house and a prayer in their hearts. Nic's day was a good one again! He was just getting up when I arrived at Craig this morning, and we spent some time wandering the hospital halls and chatting- one sided, of course! Soon Andy and Kate came by with our grandpuppies in tow! We spent time outside in the beautiful garden at Craig, and I think Nic really enjoyed seeing Baxter and Wiggum... Andy and Kate, too! The weather was a little nicer today, with rain on and off. Cool and strange for August! I forgot to mention yesterday that our friends Larry and Carol visited Nic while I was out and about with Carrie- thanks, guys! Nic laid down for a rest midday, while I ran to the Golden Arches for a nutritious lunch! As soon as the staff got Nic back up from his nap, Carrie and Brian came for a visit. We went outside for a while, but it was a little chilly! Carrie decided that her daddy's hair was getting a little long (she never saw it in the '70's!!) so we took over the conference room again for a little grooming session. She may have missed her calling! His hair looks quite nice! Carrie took Nic into the bathroom so that he could see himself, and we got him stuck in there! The wheelchair he's in right now is pretty cumbersome, so thank heavens Brian was there and was able to muscle Nic out of the restroom! I could just see us having an all night Potty Party and have the staff find the four of us in the morning! Nic was quite alert all day today, and my exclamation of Friday was correct- he's on an upswing again! It's amazing how a few days of good progress can make up for weeks of not-so-good days. Thank heavens for the good ones! Thank heavens for you all, too! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-17 01:13:30 (EST)

Saturday night and I just watched the amazing Michael Phelps make history. Kind of makes a person think that anything can happen, huh? Today was not quite a gold medal day for Nic, but I'd give it a BRONZE, anyway! As soon as I arrived at the hospital this morning the staff got Nic out of bed to start the day. We tooled around the hospital, did his eye and mouth exercises and chatted with some of the other patients and their families. I think that we are officially the family that has been at Craig the longest... a dubious honor, to be sure! Tom, Doug, Meredith, Kyle and their adorable daughter came to Craig just as I was walking out the door to meet Carrie- thanks for keeping Nic company, guys! Carrie and I did some shopping for her cool new downtown digs, then headed back to Craig where we met Brian. Soon after we arrived they got Nic up again, and we spent some more time socializing! Ponz, Kevin, Erin and Michael popped in for a visit and we once again took over Craig's conference room as Nic entertained the crowd. It is so funny to see what things Nic remembers, and what things have momentarily been forgotten. We were talking about an old drinking game that we played in college called "Indian". Nic remembered his two favorite Indian signs from the game, and how we pointed with our elbows at the player who made a mistake. Fifteen minutes later he couldn't tell me my name! I keep telling Nic that he shouldn't worry; we have the rest of our lives for me to help him remember things, and lots of time to make new memories, too! Thanks for being a part of lots of our memories! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-08-16 00:22:24 (EST)

T.G.I.F. for the 44th week! Wow, 44 weeks is a long time, isn't it? And here YOU are, behind Nic and our family every step of the way! I will say once again that we are the luckiest people in the world for people in a horribly unlucky situation! We end this week feeling quite happy about Nic's progress this week! The upswing is official... who knows what may happen tomorrow?! I actually got Nic to hum a note today- Nic has always hummed a lot, especially when he's really happy! Everything from Sinatra's "Young at Heart" to Lee Marvin's "Wandering Star" from "Paint Your Wagon". Eclectic taste! I did hear a very deep hum today! Physical therapy was spent on the mat- almost an hour! He can ALMOST roll over on the mat, and he sat up for a few seconds today. Nic did really well in Occupational Therapy today- brushed his teeth, shaved a little (with an electric razor- we don't need cuts!) and shot a few baskets! They are working really hard to get his upper arms and shoulders back in shape. He ate some yogurt today and had some thickened Hawaiian Punch (yum!). The posterior is looking better, but it will be an ongoing thing to be concerned with, I fear! Bethany came down from Boulder to hang out with us for a while, and Kate and Andy both came to Craig after work. I have spent the evening talking on the phone and relaxing- it's been cool and rainy here today- rare for August, but it felt very nice! It's time to turn off the Olympics and head to bed- I'll check back in tomorrow! Love, Chris and kids

2008-08-14 22:29:25 (EST)

Greetings to all! Sorry about the lack of update again last night. It was, in Nic's words, a giant monkey dance trying to get one posted... our internet here in Parker has been, to put it nicely, HINKY! I just messed with it for awhile, and with my AMAZING knowledge of all things technical, it is working for now, anyway! I'd better hurry and get this submitted before it makes a liar out of me! The great butt issue is still being investigated and debated... Bob Johnson is right, Nic may really miss at least ten people per day staring at his hindquarters! I secretly hope that the first loud words he says are "Quit staring at my butt, please!" I guess that "I love you, my darling wife" might be more pleasing to me, but the other phrase is a close second! Nic was able to be up in his chair for about two hours today, and also got to be in the standing frame for 30 minutes! Hooray! We haven't heard much voicing again this week, but he is definitely trying. One of these days he may start talking and never stop! The staff at Craig did "pressure mapping" again today and think that the new revised cushion will do the trick for any pressure issues that are causing the skin problems. Yesterday was a great day for visitors, with Andy, Carrie, Ponz, D.J., Sean, Matt and Harold all coming by the hospital. Today found us with a great visit from Lynn and Bruce, and although Nic was back in bed he stayed awake for most of the visit! Bethany came by Craig as well on her way back to Boulder to move in the sorority house to begin her Junior year. Wow, the summer has flown by, hasn't it? Thank heavens she's only an hour away! I picked out a light fixture for our new and improved bathroom at the loft today- the contractor is trying hard to complete the work before the Democratic Convention. I've been stopped twice already leaving the loft by security. Our neighbor, the Pepsi Center is the site for many of the festivities, so once the convention begins I will be spending all of my evenings in Parker! It is interesting to watch the pre-convention hubbub, but I'll leave it at that! Nic's bladder stone obliteration surgery will be on August 23rd for sure, so it will be nice to have yet another surgery over. My poor Nic! Keep those messages coming; we love to hear from you! Love, Chris and family

2008-08-13 01:04:36 (EST)

Hello everyone! I just learned from both Linda and Chuck that my update for last night did not appear... hmmm, that is a puzzle! I did one, but somehow it didn't get posted. SO, here is one for two days! Monday and Tuesday have been good days for Nic, and therefore for all of us! He was up in his chair for two and a half hours total today, and was very alert and engaged again for the last two days! Yesterday morning he was in bed for Speech Therapy, but we heard a VERY clear and fairly loud voice when Melea (our new therapist) asked him to name all of our family. I was standing at the end of the bed and could hear him!!!! Melea was a little worried that his voice was "so low it almost sounds like a growl". I quickly assured her that Nic's real voice is so low it almost sounds like a growl! Today Karen was telling him that she really wanted to hear that great Nic Classick laugh. He looked at her and said "Laugh"- I guess he was trying to be funny, but we heard the word loud and clear! We went to the "Transportation Clinic" today at Craig. They asked me some questions about the type of wheelchair van we think we may need, and they showed us a couple of different types of vans. They will help us decide the best type of van for us, and will help determine what type fits Nic the best. We received an envelope full of brochures about vans and Nic was very interested in seeing the brochures... he's not usually much of a "car guy", but it was great to see him interested and curious! Bret came by yesterday to visit, as well as Andy and Kate and Beth. We all went out to dinner with Harold and Karen, too. Today Bethany, Karen and I hung out with Nic for most of the day, and then, sadly, another trip to the airport and a goodbye for now to Karen. I love company coming, but I sure hate to say goodbye! Beth and I did a little shopping and yet another dinner out this evening, and now I am ending my evening as usual with an update for you! I will repeat that I am feeling good about Nic's progress this last week or so. He is coming back!! Love, Chris and all

2008-08-10 23:04:20 (EST)

Sunday night, and I must say that I have avoided my usual case of the Sunday Night Blues since I am sitting in my kitchen with Bethany and Karen! A little company on these lonely nights is a very good thing! We are about to go sit in the hot tub and enjoy a glass of wine, but first I thought that I would update our faithful followers! Nic had a pretty good day today (I always think of my Dad when I say "pretty good". If you answered "pretty good" around him he would always say "Yes, Chrissy, you are pretty and good!). Nic was only up for a half hour today- the bottom is pretty scary looking, and we want him up tomorrow for therapy. It does appear to be getting better- for each person that looks at it, there is an opinion! That is the bad news. The good news is that even when Nic was down in bed today he was fairly alert and engaged. I do think that he is still on an upswing, which makes all of us very happy! Brothers Harold and Craig, and Craig's kids Sheridan and Brooks came by the hospital today, and joined Bethany, Carrie, Brian and I. We did a little shopping today for Carrie's new apartment, and had a good time! Nic has been enjoying the Olympics and the PGA this weekend- thank God for sports on television! More tomorrow- hope your weekend was a good one! Love, Chris and the Classick Clan

2008-08-10 00:34:41 (EST)

A Super Saturday for Nic today! I picked Karen up at the airport this morning and we headed right to the hospital. Nic was snoozing while watching the Olympics when we arrived, but soon perked up and flashed Karen one of the best smiles I've seen in a long time! We got Nic up and dressed, and he looked great sitting on that new and improved cushion. Gale and Beth soon arrived, then Kim and Darryl. Along came Tom, and we spent the precious hour that Nic can be up at a time in the conference room playing ball, talking and laughing with Nic. It was definitely the best hour that Nic has had in the past six weeks or so... it was so great! I think that his medicine is finally tweaked correctly, because NIC IS BACK! Karen and I left and let Nic nap for awhile and grabbed some lunch. When we returned to Craig Nic was surrounded by Bethany, Carrie and Brian! We got him up again, and he held court again in the conference room for another hour! It is so good to have Nic responsive and awake! Later on we bid Nic farewell, ran to the loft to grab a few things for Carrie, picked up a pizza and had pizza and a drink at Carrie's new apartment. It's very nice and very urban... I think that Carrie and her roommates Gabby and Lauren will have a great time being young professionals in downtown Denver. Bethany is officially home from camp and reports an absolutely AMAZING summer! It's good to have her home until next Thursday, when she has to go back to Boulder for school! This summer has gone by so quickly! What a great day today was! Hope yours was great, too! Love, Chris, Andy, Kate, Carrie and Bethany

2008-08-08 23:28:44 (EST)

I write this update this evening with a little more hopeful heart than I have felt of late; Nic perhaps has finally begun that turnaround that we have all been craving! He was only up for an hour at a time today, once in the morning, once in the afternoon. We're still guarding that ever-pesky behind, but it was looking a bit better today! Linda and I hung out with Nic for most of the day, with Paul popping in after work before they had to board a plane back to SoCal. It was VERY sad to say goodbye, but I think their visit was one of the things that has perked Nic up. What would we do without our friends??? Speaking of friends, I pick our dear Karen up tomorrow morning- she'll be here until Tuesday afternoon. Hooray! Beth will also be home from her wonderful summer at camp tomorrow... double hooray! Carrie is in the process of moving, still- we'll lend a hand tomorrow as well. Andy reported that Nic was still looking good this evening when he was there after work. More time was spent today pressure mapping Nic's rear end, so hopefully we have the solution for NO MORE SKIN ISSUES!! An earlier date was found for the bladder stone procedure, too- August 26th. Still not soon enough, but better than September 11th! Nic did a really good job in PT today, helping a lot with sliding board transfers and doing well in his work on the mat. OT had him brushing his teeth and washing his face, and speech heard some voicing today- a whisper, but voicing for sure! Hooray again! Today was just what we needed to start a weekend with happiness and hope. Hope your weekend has started with more of the same! Loads of love from the Classicks

2008-08-08 00:54:07 (EST)

Nic was finally up in his chair today!!! Mind you, it was only for about an hour and a half, but he was up! The bottom looks a little better, and he was pretty alert for a pretty good part of the day. He definitely perked up for Paul and Linda, and they "pressure mapped" his behind two different times. We think that the new cushion looks as if it may do the trick. Hooray! That was the good news. The bad news is that they scheduled the bladder stone obliteration for SEPTEMBER 11TH. Never mind that the date alone is creepy. It is just too long to wait! We have Craig staff working on making the date sooner- I am not very happy! More news on that later, I hope! Linda, Paul and I moved a few things in to Carrie' new apartment this evening, and got to see the new downtown digs. Pretty cool! She will live there with two of her best friends from CU, and I think it will be a great place for her, Gabby and Lauren. Does it sound fun to live in Downtown Denver; three girls starting their careers in a cool place downtown, close to the action?!! Linda, Paul and I then went out to a great dinner with Ponz and Kevin, had a great time and then headed back to the loft for the night. Tomorrow they will head back to SoCal, and we will say goodbye until September. Tomorrow is also Beth's last day of camp, and she will head home on Saturday. This summer has flown by! Bret stopped by Craig today too, and hung out with Nic just as we were leaving to see Carrie. The bottom line is that Nic's bottom was looking better- hopefully he will be up even more tomorrow! We'll talk then! Love, Chris and the Classick Crew

2008-08-07 00:42:27 (EST)

Hump day is over, and perhaps Nic has gotten over the hump and is headed on an upward swing! He was in bed today, waiting for his revamped cushion to come back to him. After throwing a little mini-fit, I was finally successful in getting the cushion! That was the good news. When we finally started getting him ready we decided his rear end didn't look very good, and he stayed in bed anyway! Also no news on the bladder stones... all in all a bit of a frustrating day! Luckily Linda and Paul are here to help keep me a little more sane! Paul worked all day today while Linda and I kept Nic company. We also went to check on the bathroom remodeling at the loft- they are ready to start laying tile tomorrow! Hooray! By the time Andy, Kate, Linda, Paul and I left Craig Hospital this evening to head out for dinner Nic was starting to perk up a tad. Of course, just as we were leaving! Nic did do a little speech therapy today, and got a good stretching out in bed from his occu